See my rather revelatory comments in the topic I started about before and after (in sex with a large penis grou) for those that have gone in adult life from average to much more than average. It does not change you to what you think you would have been if you had always had a big dick absolutely! I know that I would never been so self conscious in many situations with both sexes if I had had what I have now. But that being said, I can state that I am playing catch up now and enjoying the hell out of having this long dick down there. I play with it almost constantly it seems, swinging it about, smacking it, contemplating whether my yoga classes will ever result in ability to perform self fellatio (gross though I admit), and doing whatever a kid would do when his favorite little toy suddenly is a much bigger toy. Maybe I feel a bit more confident, don't know, but certainly I would not dread being strip searched for the ensuing laughs and feel good knowing that even if I have "non performer" some of the time, at least it is not from the anxiety of being viewed as being so undersized as to sexually unattractive. My wife loves my dick but just thinks with all the years it took to get the increase that it was just a late maturation process (she would probably divorce me if she discovered the 100's of hours I spent getting this size. Well anyway, hope the comments on the other thread do not embarrass you since they are rather sophormoric sounding -- but hell I couldn't help -- I was so damn happy to have a really big one that I had to enjoy the self intimacy with it for fear that is was a dream or that the extra length would retract some day.
How has penis size impacted your life
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Hasn't affected my life a whole lot. I mean, I've gotten turned down by smaller guys because I'm too big for them to handle and on occassion for not being big enough, but in general, it's been relatively normal. I get groped now and then, but I inform them the myth of the huge hung black man is not truth with me. 
I like just being hung anyway. Being huge hung would have made me into an exclusive bottom with some of the dudes I've met over the years.
I like just being hung anyway. Being huge hung would have made me into an exclusive bottom with some of the dudes I've met over the years.
Dirk: The biggest impact, is that it has gotten me alot of dates, but i am lacking in the BJ department.
One thing i dont know for sure... I have alot of confidence, i believe it is b/c of my experiences through life. But then i come accross statements like in the movie 'boiler room', where ben affleck says "pretend you have a 9" dick [for confidence reasons]." So sometimes i question.
One thing i dont know for sure... I have alot of confidence, i believe it is b/c of my experiences through life. But then i come accross statements like in the movie 'boiler room', where ben affleck says "pretend you have a 9" dick [for confidence reasons]." So sometimes i question.
My big dick has helped me be a better human being!!
( }( No it hasn't. It's made me a bigger liar.)
I'm nowhere near in the league, of the truncheons on display here.
I'm just in the very happy position of being noticeably larger than average, but not enough to cause any problems. (6.0" long, 6.0" around)
Just enough to make me self-confident and I am that sure makes for better performance.
Cocksure? Yes.
There was a time in my life that I thought about cutting my penis off. It was so painful emotionally that I really did not want to be male. Being born with a birth defected penis that was small, and deformed so that I have to sit to pee made me so self conscious. Then in high school the teasing was never ending. The name chicken dick did nothing for me. I could rant more but I think this gives you an idea about me when I was younger. mal
I had a close friend from school, who had exactly the same problem (it has got a long name). Eventually he just accepted it and didn't let it be to much of an issue. As did the very clever, tall and altogether lovely girl, he met at university.
They were together for 20 years.
(Unhappy ending, he died in an accident.)
HI, Been in a hurry, lately, assignments due for my instructors & due to my students, etc. & haven't really caught the jist of this topic. So, what is it that you would like for us women partners to someone w/ a Big one, to allude to? I'll write to you, privately.
ravenously: I'm not sure how it has impacted my life. I've been this size since I was first curious enough to measure it, at age 12 ( though I think I might have gotten thicker). My point is that this is what I know and I have no frame of reference to compare to. Like all men, my penis and I have had good times and bad times together.
Growing up, I had alot of other concernes and insecurities that didn't invole my penis. I think these things have had a larger impact on my life than my penis size. I just always had more on my mind than how big my penis was ( I was going to say "than my penis", but looking back, my penis and sex were on my mind alot lol).
I can remember some events though that had both positive and negitive emtions assoiciated with them. I can remember freeballing one day in sixth grade. It was a gymnclass day and I forgot. My penis hung low enough so that it was visible below my shirt. Dispite my attempt to hide it, there were some comments made. Another, time I was swimming, and when I got out of the pool my shorts were tight against my groin. Kids laughed and asked if I saw a mermaid or something. I was soft but they thought I had a hardon. I was very upset, I think it was mostly because I found it insulting for them to think that my hardons were that "small".
On the other hand I love the attention that my lovers have given to my size. Ego boosting comments, looks of sweet anticipation and joy, ect... And I supose that if girls are going to talk about your size, it's better that they say your big rather than small.
Growing up, I had alot of other concernes and insecurities that didn't invole my penis. I think these things have had a larger impact on my life than my penis size. I just always had more on my mind than how big my penis was ( I was going to say "than my penis", but looking back, my penis and sex were on my mind alot lol).
I can remember some events though that had both positive and negitive emtions assoiciated with them. I can remember freeballing one day in sixth grade. It was a gymnclass day and I forgot. My penis hung low enough so that it was visible below my shirt. Dispite my attempt to hide it, there were some comments made. Another, time I was swimming, and when I got out of the pool my shorts were tight against my groin. Kids laughed and asked if I saw a mermaid or something. I was soft but they thought I had a hardon. I was very upset, I think it was mostly because I found it insulting for them to think that my hardons were that "small".
On the other hand I love the attention that my lovers have given to my size. Ego boosting comments, looks of sweet anticipation and joy, ect... And I supose that if girls are going to talk about your size, it's better that they say your big rather than small.
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Ego is a kewl thing taken in moderation! I feel my dick has done wonderfull things for me and my ego...Its fun, and its also nice to be lucky to have a wonderfull piece of meat...That you can enjoy anytime and others also may enjoy! Jose'Latinoboy9
My big dick has helped me be a better human being!!
( }( No it hasn't. It's made me a bigger liar.)
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Oh come now, Kimahri- everything's your fault!
j/k, you know I love ya!
j/k, you know I love ya!
Here is what I have found to be the largest impact on my life from having a large penis.
I am a bit of a show off and as a result sexual partners have been easy to find and I can afford to pick and choose only the ones who turn me on but none of them see me for who I really am. I have had relationships that were not based on sex but they have never lasted for any length of time no matter how much I was into the other person beit man or woman, not sure why. In fact the longest relationships I have been in have been ones based on the other persons awe of a large penis that I was able to supply to them and therein lies pressure to preform so I guess it's a "catch 22".
Now another way it has impacted my life is that it has given me confidence in social situations. Men by nature are competitive and I am no different than most men in that regard. When a rival male has demonstrated his superiority in one way I know in the back of my mind that their is another way that I can have superiority over him wheather or not it is demonstrated.
I know this sounds shallow but as humans aren't most of our basic urges just that?
Jimmy
I am a bit of a show off and as a result sexual partners have been easy to find and I can afford to pick and choose only the ones who turn me on but none of them see me for who I really am. I have had relationships that were not based on sex but they have never lasted for any length of time no matter how much I was into the other person beit man or woman, not sure why. In fact the longest relationships I have been in have been ones based on the other persons awe of a large penis that I was able to supply to them and therein lies pressure to preform so I guess it's a "catch 22".
Now another way it has impacted my life is that it has given me confidence in social situations. Men by nature are competitive and I am no different than most men in that regard. When a rival male has demonstrated his superiority in one way I know in the back of my mind that their is another way that I can have superiority over him wheather or not it is demonstrated.
I know this sounds shallow but as humans aren't most of our basic urges just that?
Jimmy
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