How have your sexual practices/kinks/fetishes changed through the years?

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I've noticed that in the last few years I have been really open to new sexual practices and I've even discovered that I'm into things that I wasn't before. For example, when I was younger, the simple of a double penetration was terrifying for me and I thought it was "too much". Just a few days ago, I tried the DP (as a bottom) and I loved it. I feel like the older I get, the more satisfied I'm with my sex life.
Do you feel the same?
 

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The older I get the kinkyer I get. Variety is the spice of life. Younger I never would have considered ass play,pegging or same sex sex. Today I enjoy both plus others like female doms, transgender mtf and others. Sex is supposed to be fun. So why limit yourself.
 

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Up until my 40s - it was 100% geared towards females only, including fantasies.
Then I discovered my exhibitionist side, and MUCH to my own surprise I really liked to be watched masturbating by other dudes. For the first couple years I didn't give a rats ass to look at them, I only cared that they were getting off looking at me.
Over time, that changed to liking to watch them as well. That grew into cock attraction. Which grew into seeing a fella with a great ass the same as seeing a gal with a great ass.
 

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Being the only one naked, or getting naked for a dare etc. Originaly I was maybe into skinny dipping but only if a friend goes nude too. Lately I find my self enjoying CMNM situations, dares and other unexpected nudey situations.
 
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Up until my 40s - it was 100% geared towards females only, including fantasies.
Then I discovered my exhibitionist side, and MUCH to my own surprise I really liked to be watched masturbating by other dudes. For the first couple years I didn't give a rats ass to look at them, I only cared that they were getting off looking at me.
Over time, that changed to liking to watch them as well. That grew into cock attraction. Which grew into seeing a fella with a great ass the same as seeing a gal with a great ass.
I was exactly the same.....I reached my early 40s and something clicked in my brain, like a biological 'on' switch. I started camming my masturbation with guys, first just being watched, then mutually. My curiosity drew me in like a drug, and now, 20 years later, there's little that I haven't tried when it comes to m2m sex. It's still a work in progress.....my fetish for sucking cock and swallowing cum is growing stronger, and I'm having fun discovering more of my sub side with a current FB.
 

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I have become more interested in the kama sutra. In my early 20s i was very basic sexually, doing the normal missionary doggy cowgirl positions. Now I try more variations and pay attention to the pleasure my partners recieves. I also enjoy making sex last as long as i can for me and my partner. I use to be more hasty and go straight for the orgasm simultaneously.
 

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I was exactly the same.....I reached my early 40s and something clicked in my brain, like a biological 'on' switch. I started camming my masturbation with guys, first just being watched, then mutually. My curiosity drew me in like a drug, and now, 20 years later, there's little that I haven't tried when it comes to m2m sex. It's still a work in progress.....my fetish for sucking cock and swallowing cum is growing stronger, and I'm having fun discovering more of my sub side with a current FB.
My sex life has improved and become more varied as I'm getting closer to my 40s. It's like I don't have the insecurities that I had in my youth and the world is mine to explore
 
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For me, the older I get the more I love edging my cock. When young, I was more interested in the orgasm and eating my cum, now, I prefer to edge for much longer. With that said, one thing that has stayed the same is eating my cum, once I do orgasm, I still enjoy my cum. Maybe even more.
 

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Let's say my type of the perfect partner changed , probably i don'tcareabout others, but me. I do enjoy things done my way, / having my cock serviced, I am getting a bit more selfish, rather than going for mutual pleasure, in contrast to what my initial perception of a good fuck was... however with the right partners , that like to service selfish guys, it's equally pleasing.
 

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For me, the older I get the more I love edging my cock. When young, I was more interested in the orgasm and eating my cum, now, I prefer to edge for much longer. With that said, one thing that has stayed the same is eating my cum, once I do orgasm, I still enjoy my cum. Maybe even more.
Same here - now love to edge for hours.
 

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When I was younger. I really into "the homo thug/thug with a heart of gold" types. I do like them. But, not in the same way. Now I like a man who's a little nerdy, bearish. Then when it comes to body types, I used to love guys who were lean (though there's a few men who are of lean build that could STILL get this icon). Give me a man who's solid or muscular with a little meat on their bones. (Like a powerlifter type) I'm also getting into toy play, role play (get's out school girl outfit) and sensual submission.

Also, when I was younger. I wanted a man to be damn near abusive to me in bed. (spitting, degrading name-calling and choking) Now I want passion, foreplay. Not aggression.
 

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I've evolved a lot over the years, though I'm still very timid in what I would allow myself to try. Masturbation was my entrance into exploring my sexuality and my body. Soon after that I wanted to experiment with guys so I would go online and try to arrange that. Bravely I've been physical with 5 guys, only going past making out/sucking with two of them. Once I met up with a guy for a coffee date that bombed so hard. 2014 I had anal sex for the first time and was actively allowing myself to get plowed which is something I never thought I would do because I was against anal for the longest time. Then I was with one of the 5 guys and he was riding me. That was a great sensation for my first time being a top. He got a phone call in the middle of riding me and kept doing it as he talked to his dad.

I've explored participating in a threesome when I was approached but I just didn't feel comfortable because it was nerve racking enough meeting up with a stranger for sex, then to include his girlfriend? Too much pressure for me and I said no. That's the furthest I've gone with my kinks and fetishes. I would like to do more but I'm just not there yet.
 
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I would like to do more but I'm just not there yet.
This is very important. You have to decide when it's time to try certain stuff. I've done things that my 20-year-old me would have never done, but that's because I'm really comfortable with myself right now. Go at your own pace
 
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an addendum to my post:

I forgot to mention exploring different sex toys. Yes, I've bought several different sex toys to see if I like the effect it was designed for. I've not yet hit my P spot and don't really like things up my bum, but I bought one of those electronic butt plugs that is connected to a cock ring and the first time hurt a lot, but feeling it massaging my rectum was kinda nice. I would love to feel the pleasure of my prostate being massaged one day. I've never had the pleasure of that and many guys rave about the feeling. I've also bought various types of masturbation and sucking machines. I hate them all except my one sucking machine that simulates getting a blowjob. Letting it suck me for a good 10-15 mins, my cock would be swollen and engorged by the time I took it out and I love that feeling. I bought a dildo just to have a penis that wasn't mine in my possession. I never use it. Used it once, twice, three times max. And all those automatic jacking devices they advertise on porn sites SUCK!!!!!!! I've wasted so much money on nonsense sex toys that do nothing for me. I've built up quite a collection over the years. I recently bought one I saw on an ad that I couldn't wait to use and apparently I was too thick for it because I broke it trying to jam my semi hard cock inside the hole. It also didn't move fast enough like it did in the ad. Waste of money. I think I've bought my last sex toy because a lot of them are the same in how they give you pleasure and for me, it's just not doing it for me. I also have a penis pump that I use from time to time. It's a good feeling except for when my balls get sucked into the vacuum. OUCH, MFer. Shit hurts.
 
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Many changes over the years.

When I was young I hooked up most often with older girls starting with my older sister's friends and older women from the pool where I lifeguarded then older women at the hotel where I worked in college. As I've progressed through middle age and older I've been with progressively fewer to almost no older women preferring those at least 20 years younger than I. A big kink for me was older married women. Ring-on-finger smiling, touching her hair and making eyes at me? Let's see where it goes.

I started bulling for married couples at the hotel in college then with other couples after that but rarely past age 35.

For a while when I was young I only hooked up with large breasted women--my big tits kink phase--and I didn't care if they came with a large body.

I started topping guys when I was 22 but didn't bottom until 40. For reasons I don't understand I received no pleasure from anal stimulation until then. That's the biggest single change of all. I prefer younger tops but the conflict there is few twink bottoms want to top an older hung guy so it's a treat when it happens. There's always toys to put in my butt solo or when topping a guy.

When the sex tape fad kicked off with VHS in the 80s I got right on that kink which carried into the 90s. Many partners were into it and liked watching themselves in homemade porn. There is no end to human narcissism. Didn't take long to realize one camera wasn't enough. I had a tape editing machine to cut out the dross and make it tight.

Sex furniture, slings, dungeon? I've had variations of 3 dungeons set up in places I've lived. Absent a basement, "sex room" is a better description. Those hooks in the ceiling holding hanging plants? They'll hold your weight. I still have a massage table set up in a room. What starts there often ends up in bed.

Finally there's costume. Wasn't into it much when I was young, did more in middle age and never now I'm older (early 60s). Bottom lads seemed to have no trouble crossdressing when I was young but from middle age on I helped several cd & trans start the wardrobe they wanted as they came into themselves.

Then there's partner kink like sleeping with everyone or nearly everyone in a friend group which happened way more when I was young but not anymore. I'll stop there.
 
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For me, the older I get the more I love edging my cock. When young, I was more interested in the orgasm and eating my cum, now, I prefer to edge for much longer. With that said, one thing that has stayed the same is eating my cum, once I do orgasm, I still enjoy my cum. Maybe even more.
Love edging and eating my big load