how important are blow jobs to you?

[dave2006]

could you or have you been in a realtionship without having any or very little oral sex and been satisfied?have you broken up with someone over this?

I always am surprised when I hear some of my buddies complain about not gotten a blown from either their wife or gf in months and some cases years. I have nerver had relationship with a woman who didn't give head frequently. At the risk of sounding shallow I really could not see myself being with a woman who did not like to suck dick. I love to pound pussy but getting head can be just as satisfying especially if she knows what she's doing.I always make sure I return the favor though and that is something I never have to be asked to do!:biggrin1:

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Blowjob very important Would i stay in a relationship with a women who didnt do that? Yes

 

[basque9]

I can't imagine a realtionship that does not provide a spectrum of sexual pleasures as being totally satisfying! Oral is so extremely diverse in the way that it brings together so many of the senses: smell, touch, sight, and taste. :tongue:

 

[gymguy]

Really important, I gotta say. But then no bj is better than a bad bj (all teeth - ouch!).

In current relationship gf was a little slow in wanting to give head, and I was beginning to wonder if I could manage. Turns out she loves doing it in a 69, with pretty good technique, and I love to give and receive, I'm like a dog with two tails :smile:

 

[scanjock8]

very important. i would give up ass before dick sucking!

being gay i must say i feel for my heterosexual brothers deprived of regular cocksucking. i have close straight male friends from college i still hang out with and most of them complain about not getting enough from their wives--it's pretty funny, they think i've got it made--of course i tell them only a guy really knows how to suck a dick properly;-)

 

[B_Hornaplenty]

A good blow job is wonderfully relaxing. My wife has always been willing to go down on me, but due to my size could only take about 3 inches in. So it was slow and pleasant. About a year ago a young married guy I got to know at my gym, talked me into letting him suck my cock. He really knew how to do it, taking nearly all 8 inches into his throat. Wow, he not only blew my cock, he blew my mind.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

I never been in a relationship with a women who didnt give me a blow job He was asking would i stay in a relationship without it Yes Keep in mind people change their minds alot and there are other areas to explore .

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

I don't know if blowjobs, per se, are so important. I've found -- through much trial and error -- that what's crucial to a great relationship is honesty in communicating your sexual desires to my partner. So, if oral is important to you and something that gives you great pleasure, you should find a girlfriend who is willing to oblige that. Likewise, you should be open to what she wants.

I couldn't be with someone with whom I was sexually incompatible. But some guys can, and that's cool.

 

[flnkdguy]

Oral sex is very important to me (both giving and receiving) and I would not be happy in a relationship without that. I was with a woman for a long time who thought that a single little kiss on the tip of my cock constituted oral sex and she also did not like me going down on her for very long. I thought I'd be ok with that but ultimately was miserable.

 

[chico8]

I've never really liked oral so it's not important at all.

 

[dongalong]

Women that don't give blowjobs are BAD LOVERS!!!!!! They are useless and should be dumped.

-Blow jobs are a huge turn on when done correctly and can make a penis hard again during times of fatigue or drunkeness when it may go limp.

-Visually seeing your lover give you such pleasure especially when she looks up to watch your reactions really strengthens your attraction to her. It's a sign of generosity.

-Blowjobs are the best method of getting pleasure during her period

-Blowjobs add lubrication before sex

-Blowjobs give me one of my most intense orgasms, especially when she continues to suck and wank

-Blow jobs add variety and therefore excitement.

-Blow jobs can be done easily in alternative situations i.e. whilst driving a car, in the cinema, under the table etc.

Women who don't give BJs are more likely to make lovemaking a routine and discourage the man from being generous enough to give her orgasms! She shouldn't be surprised if her partner starts cheating on her!

So to answer your question dave2006, blowjobs are essential for me.

 

[B_horribleperson]

if she CAN deepthroat then blowjobs are very importamt!!!

 

[dong20]

Women that don't give blowjobs are BAD LOVERS!!!!!! They are useless and should be dumped.

I assume therefore you agree that this...err....philosophy of "get down there or get lost" applies equally in both directions?

Women who don't give BJs are more likely to make lovemaking a routine and discourage the man from being generous enough to give her orgasms! She shouldn't be surprised if her partner starts cheating on her!

dongalong, I'm assuming you live alone.:tongue:

 

[dongalong]

I assume therefore you agree that this...err....philosophy of "get down there or get lost" applies equally in both directions?

Yes of course, how can a guy be a great lover without variety?

I didn't mention the other qualities that make you love a woman, these can sometimes outweigh the need for a blowjob.
I have a friend, crazy about blowjobs that married a girl that doesn't do them, she has all the other qualities that he wanted but he often mentions that he would like to get a mistress to satisy his desires. For the moment he just accepts beinh frustrated. It isn't such a healthy marriage by the sounds of it.

Woman who set too many sexual limits are not ideal for long marriages, boredom in the bedroom will come too quickly.

I do live alone - I dumped my ex because she became boring!!:firedevil:

 

[MXM107]

oh, about as important as oxygen

:smile:

 

[Gisella]

I'm for sure not a cock sucker and dont crave bj men penises and dont care about what is important to them at all - is a real turn of to me putting it on my face and his attitude about it..eka...the more i sense his thing is bj..the more i distance from him...and the interesting thing is that some are not good lovers & think they 'deserve' it some how...yeh right ..not with me bcause i do not get pleasure from oral sex myself...(yet)...than the situation: u eat me and i will eat you do not applied to me... :tongue:

What i crave is a particular man and become obsessed with all of him.

When i hunger him his fly can not be close for long...bcause i have to have him constantly on my hand, my face, my whatever...

 

[novice_btm]

...being gay i must say i feel for my heterosexual brothers deprived of regular cocksucking. i have close straight male friends from college i still hang out with and most of them complain about not getting enough from their wives--it's pretty funny, they think i've got it made--of course i tell them only a guy really knows how to suck a dick properly;-)

...and a word of caution to the ladies. There are straight guys, when they're not getting enough, or good quality, of sex (generally, not just oral), that say to gay/bi friends, "So, um, is it true? You know, do guys really do it better?". It doesn't happen a LOT, but it's more than gay wishful thinking, and although it sounds like a bad porn plot... add a few beers to that conversation, along with, "you have any porn?", and...

 

[dongalong]

I'm for sure not a cock sucker and dont crave bj men penises and dont care about what is important to them at all - is a real turn of to me putting it on my face and his attitude about it..eka...the more i sense his thing is bj..the more i distance from him...and the interesting thing is that some are not good lovers & think they 'deserve' it some how...yeh right ..not with me bcause i do not get pleasure from oral sex myself...(yet)...than the situation: u eat me and i will eat you do not applied to me... :tongue:

What i crave is a particular man and become obsessed with all of him.

When i hunger him his fly can not be close for long...bcause i have to have him constantly on my hand, my face, my whatever...

Wow, you are so hot Gisella and you won't give head?:yikes:

Have you tried it? what turns you off? How do you make up for it? Has this caused problems? Have you been dumped by someone like me because of it?:wave2:

 

[phantom73]

As a giver they are pretty damn important to me. Otherwise, I don't have to have a bj myself, as long as I am allowed to give them often to the guy I'm with.

 

[scanjock8]

As a giver they are pretty damn important to me. Otherwise, I don't have to have a bj myself, as long as I am allowed to give them often to the guy I'm with.

a giver huh? i like the sound of that arrangement... ;-)