how important are blow jobs to you?

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novice_btm said:
That's for "after". For the "during", I'm imagining I'll have to just cover my lips in a nice heavy-duty lube. :biggrin1:

copious amounts of saliva works well too
 

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scanjock8 said:
copious amounts of saliva works well too
I've seen your gallery. Saliva alone is never going to be enough. :tongue: I'm gonna need some backup. I'm thinking a nice mint-flavoured silicone lube gargle, and some topically applied muscle relaxers for my throat. :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
 

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A day without a blowjob is like a day without sunshine...but seriously, I love both giving and receiving. The feeling of a warm wet mouth on my penis is awesome and when I have give my bf a blowjob, I love the feeling of him being in me and experiencing all the stages he goes through...how he gets into it, how his body tenses or relaxes depending on what I do and those wild final moments before he ejaculates.
 

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Blow jobs are fine but its the cocksucking that matters..meaning sucking cock as foreplay...69 oral sex is excellent foreplay...what is critical is mutually getting into orally satisfying each other. I get blow jobs but would rather come in a pussy. Deep throating cock is overrated and not important at all..sucking the first 3 -4 inches is important and licking all of it is mandatory. Many women really want to give blow jobs spontaneously or for a reward while driving or 4 wheeling..they love to swallow come..but I never ask for it..I'd rather fuck them after some intense mutual erotic oral sex..the way I like to build sexual tension...sometimes jerking off is better than some blow job given by some drunk woman at a party in a bathroom...I always want to pull out and explode in her face like some porn scenario..and thats me jerking it in her face...
 

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dave2006 said:
could you or have you been in a relationship without having any or very little oral sex and been satisfied?

I have been in such a relationship, and it didn't last long. Of course there were other problems, but lack of good oral loving brought all the rest to a (pardon the expression) head.

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have you broken up with someone over this?

Yes, and over general sexual incompatability as well. I like having sex a lot. And she didn't. At first, she let me have my way, and we engaged in varied and sundry acts of sexual pleasure many times during the day.

Over time, she kept turning me down more and more often, for more and more acts. Until at the end, we were just fucking with me on top in the missionary position. Not that I mind fucking in that position, but I want a little variety, too. Actually, I want a lot of variety.

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I always am surprised when I hear some of my buddies complain about not getting blown from either their wife or gf in months and some cases years. I have nerver had relationship with a woman who didn't give head frequently. At the risk of sounding shallow I really could not see myself being with a woman who did not like to suck dick. I love to pound pussy but getting head can be just as satisfying especially if she knows what she's doing.

I feel the same way. I like an active, varied sex life, including oral, anal, and vaginal, with both partners active, and both partners sometimes taking the more passive role.

After my wife and I broke up, I was over at a bud's, getting drunk and getting sympathy. Since he's gay, I was also getting probably the best blow job of my life. I never strayed when I was married, but boy did the floodgates open after I divorced
 
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dongalong said:
:sad6:You're right, I didn't read the last bit, too busy imagining that you didn't give BJs. I was in a state of shock!

You have predumped me so I'll just have to get over never getting BJs from you! :cry:

I know my post was a bit extreme, but I find BJs as important as every act of pleasure giving and I don't like the frustration of not being given the pleasures that I crave.



I do understand...

:wink:
 

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I agree with most of you -- blow jobs ARE important. I don't think I could be with a guy who refused to give head. It isn't so much about the not being able to live without the sensation of BJ (though I do love that feeling!) but the problems I would have with someone who would refuse to do something important to me that I enjoy and an unwillingness to be sexuall explorative.

Beyond that, being a gay guy, I have a BIG problem with the whole "total top" phenomenon -- gay guys who only penetrate and don't suck. It just seems a bit self-loathing to me to be a gay men who doesn't do anything with anyone else's cock but one's own.
 

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There were months and years that if it weren't for oral sex there wouldn't have been any sex at all for us. Now that she is working on dilating so that she will be able to take me comfortably I hope that we can mix up oral and intercourse in the same session, there's hope!

I must say that her blowjobs have improved over the years, she can only take in about 2.5" but she seems to pay more attention to what she is doing, slowed down and is more sensous in her licking and sucking, very nice indeed.

During 69 I love to wrap my arms around her butt, while holding her upper leg's thigh under my right arm I can spread her legs and use my right hand to spread her pussy lips and/or caress her ass with a finger. She is so into my sucking and licking her clit and labia that she forgets that my penis is in her mouth. She usually comes hard and before I do, so she switches ends, placing her head on my left thigh and gives me a wonderful blowjob.
 

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Gisella said:
:biggrin1:

Read again what i wrote Dongalong...:wink: i would enjoy do it in some man that appeals to me in a deeper way...is not all about his penis to me...i crave all of him.

Based in what u wrote about the importance and blablabla last page your attitude is a turn of to me...i have 'dumped' a guy with this way of thinking right there...:rolleyes:

I love BJ's, and, the only way to mutually satisfy ea other in a relationship , is , to mutually find sex pleasurable. I would not force a woman , nor compell her to do it , because, it is more rewarding, and enticing, to respect her, study her limits, make her feel delighted, and, eventually, she will do it on her own.
The great opener is, in my view, to give her oral sex,
( which I love to do, my number one sexual act...)
to do it the way she likes it, so that she orgasms, and, enthralls herself . In other words, make her your sexual priority, and, in that fashion , what goes around, comes around. You will see her do fascinating things with her mouth.
I never get to the point of asking, by giving my 200% for her pleasure, I will get my 200% back around.
 

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I have learned never to ask for a blowjob.
When she wants to do it, she will really put her heart into to maximizing your pleasure and it will be amazing.
Surprise blowjobs when she unexpectedly wips it out can be a mega turn on too.
The times I did ask for a blowjob are the least memorable.
 

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I don't like getting blow jobs (maybe the only male on the planet who thanks that way). I don't consider it torture and it's ok if some girl insists (and some have) but I don't care if I never get another blow job.
 

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cute5 said:
I don't like getting blow jobs (maybe the only male on the planet who thanks that way). I don't consider it torture and it's ok if some girl insists (and some have) but I don't care if I never get another blow job.
I had a friend like that. I went down on him, he started to say something a couple times, and then switched to groaning "mmm" and "ooh". :tongue: Afterwards, he told me, "I don't usually like 'head' at all." I apologied, and asked why. He told me, he thought blowjobs were degrading, and just didn't really get into them. So, I told him he should've stopped me. Then he said, "I was gonna at first, I kinda started to, but you seemed to like it so much and were so into it, it kinda turned me on, and was REALLY hot."
I asked, "So, you didn't mind then?"
He said, "No, that was GREAT. I might need to reconsider. ha-ha Nah, I think it was just you, and what it does to you, that turned me on. I dunno if I'd like it with someone else just doing it."

:wink:
P.S. "...just doing it"??? I still don't get that part.
 

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ooooh a bj discussion! i must partecipate :p


my bf must love being sucked as much as I like to suck
O_O this is my first rule in a relationship
the secondo one is about peanut butter but that's another story

actually i still have to find a man who don't like bj, so i'm quite satisfied...
 

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To me a a blow job from a talented throater is of the utmost importance . I love kicking back spreading my legs and letting a guy go to town on me for hours.
I am mostly a Top here but i do also enjoy 69in with another hung bud mt belief is if you want exceptional oral service you better know how to give it too:069:
 
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They are very important to me, when theyre done right. I choked my poor gf last bj. She was like gagging. But all i could do was shove it all the way down her throat. She says she enjoys it. Works for me!