But, they have been smart?i've never considered anyone out of my league, because i'm beautiful and highly intelligent.
i've found myself attracted to guys who aren't especially good looking. attraction is a complex thing.
They even make films about it!Indisputably, my dear Panda.
Americans seem obsessed with all this crap, what league, what do you score, rate blah blah blah....
some have bordered on genius.But, they have been smart?
Looks matter to me as I believe they are the visualisation of what's going on inside a persons mind.
So seeing a 200 pound woman tells me she lacks self criticism, poor stress management, socialy unaware, low self image, uneducated and a lack of self discipline.
So to me it's not about the excessive fat as some large women can look pretty but for me it is what it represents.
And I always hear the excuse of some disease or medication and that is exactly what they are, excuses.
Doesn't mean all of the above can't still be true for a slim DD bimbo but the odds are a lot slimmer.
Same goes for one of my neigbor girls who has a B cup but does everything to make em look like a D cup and puts excessive make up on.
Tells me she is dying for male attention regardless who it's from or if they are in it for the long run.
Wouldn't go for her either even though she is a pretty girl her desperation putts me off.
So looks do matter and at the same time they don't, just for me I look for clues in your appearance and what they tell about a persons psyche.
Or a metabolic disorder?????
I can't be arsed picking this apart as the complete and utter shit it is, so why not do everyone a favour and wear this on a tshirt so we all know EXACTLY what you are just by looking at you. Ugh.
There's a girl at my gym who was severely overweight, you can blame it on genes or some disorder but she can be found at the gym nearly everday pushing hard to achieve her goals.
She is still far too overweight but she lost about a 100 pounds in the last 6 months and I respect and like her a lot despite being overweight because I know she will achieve her goals despite all the odds she has to face she is a fighter.
Unfortunately in most cases she is the exception.
my ex mother in law is fat.
she's also the main wage earner, incredibly sociable and out going, confident, has an active social life, is educated, takes pride in her appearance and always looks well presented, has no major issues or flaws that i've ever noticed in all the years i have known her... and is perfectly content being a large lady married to a man who likes his ladies large, surrounded by a circle of friends who appreciate her.
i might find a lot of flesh extremely unattractive (actually, i'll go as far as to say i find it physically repulsive) but i don't feel the need to justify that by assuming and labelling with a myriad of personal failings.
i've met plenty of skinny losers.
i don't think people are calling out of shape people (yes skinny people can also be out of shape .. everyone knows people who are skinny fat) losers, both my parents are on the heavy side and they both are VERY successful people, i have friends who are fat and are goin places in life, i know many girls who are cool, ambitious, smart, funny ... but they are fat ... nobody is calling them a loser or judging them, its just unattractive (to me at least)
this is true
of all the fat asses ive ever seen, 99.999% of them are fat because they eat too many cheeto's and empty calories while sitting on a couch all day
You say this but just before that...
You call nearly all fat people lazy.