The only thing I could find repulsive in a person is their caracter.
What if he had a huge pus oozing cold sore on his lip and wanted to kiss you?:tongue:
The only thing I could find repulsive in a person is their caracter.
The only thing I could find repulsive in a person is their caracter.
I've always found this to be an odd question. Mostly because whether or not someone looks good changes from person to person to person. What I find attractive others might not. If I didn't find a person attractive, I don't think I could be with them. Having said that, though, I don't 'require' anything to find a person attractive. I'd dated tall guys, short guys, skinny guys, fat guys, guys with bad acne, guys with bad teeth, guys with bad hair... at the end of the day, I was still attracted to them.
I don't believe much in 'leagues'. I've never really thought that I was out of a person's league nor have I thought that anyone was out of my league. There are people I don't want to be with because of their personality traits or habits or something, but I don't put them in a different 'league'... the just aren't for me.
We would have to wait for it to heal. :wink:What if he had a huge pus oozing cold sore on his lip and wanted to kiss you?:tongue:
The last guy I kissed was overweight.What about when a person looks repulsive, say massively overweight, and it's because of his laziness and lack of caring about his appearance?
They go hand in hand IMO.
You can't be arsed to pick it apart because it's true and you have no real argument to defend your opinion, so you follow up by attacking my personality.
Pretty weak minded and uneducated it seems to reaffirm my preconceptions doesn't it.
Looks matter to me as I believe they are the visualisation of what's going on inside a persons mind.
So seeing a 200 pound woman tells me she lacks self criticism, poor stress management, socialy unaware, low self image, uneducated and a lack of self discipline.
So to me it's not about the excessive fat as some large women can look pretty but for me it is what it represents.
And I always hear the excuse of some disease or medication and that is exactly what they are, excuses.
What????? Id like you to quote those odds. There is absolutely no basis in fact for this that I am aware of. Feel free to prove it. Both of my parents are slim so I am slim a lucky genetic fluke. My education, the fact that I am an engineer, is in no way linked to my weight. What the hell does boob size have to do with stress management, education or any other of the traits you listed? Oh, and the way you linked big boobs with bimbo status was an especially nice touch.Doesn't mean all of the above can't still be true for a slim DD bimbo but the odds are a lot slimmer.
Really. Who decides how much make-up is too much? Its entirely subjective. I wear make-up, I dont think its too much and I have no idea if you would think so. Guess what? I couldnt give a shit because I wear it for me. I cannot speak for all women the way that you believe you can, I wouldnt dream of it, but what I will say is that the most pressure I have ever felt in regard to my appearance came from other women.Same goes for one of my neigbor girls who has a B cup but does everything to make em look like a D cup and puts excessive make up on.
Tells me she is dying for male attention regardless who it's from or if they are in it for the long run.
Wouldn't go for her either even though she is a pretty girl her desperation putts me off.
The impression I am left with is that you dont have the tools to pull this off. What you have displayed is prejudice, not insight and it's just unfortunate for you that you can't quite grasp the difference.So looks do matter and at the same time they don't, just for me I look for clues in your appearance and what they tell about a persons psyche.
in dating,or in a committed relationship.
have you ever felt someone was "out of your league"? just because they were "hot"?
call me strange,but i never understood that "league" shit at all.
The only thing I could find repulsive in a person is their caracter.
Looks are important for that initial attraction but ya better have something there besides looks or the size of your cock if ya want a fifth date. lol.
I feel short changed a lot because most men I am attracted to don't find me attractive. I guess they are in another league by the fact that I will never ever be able to enjoy sex with them or even get to know them as friends which saddens me sometimes.
I just checked your profile pic and I think you're very attractive, but then as been mentioned already in this thread and by yourself we are probably in different leagues so I expect that you would not be attracted to me.
In what way? Are you assuming that I am fat and therefore uneducated and weak minded? I don't need to attack your personality - your own words illustrate the fact that you are a tool.
You want the long version, you can have it, but the short version was more flattering *shrug*
That is your failing then. You are perfectly entitled to find her unattractive that is your prerogative and that is not what is in question. Your laughable insinuations that you have some sort of special insight into a persons mind by merely looking at them is incredibly arrogant and given your post history, I have trouble attributing basic comprehension skills to you, let alone super powers.
The character traits that you have bestowed on her, are entirely unfair and a symptom of your prejudice you are labelling her negatively because you dont find her attractive. Its discrimination plain and simple. You dont want to date her? Fine. She had a lucky escape. The danger is when someone like you ends up on an interview panel, for example, and assumes personality traits based exclusively on appearance.
Again, you dont have to find her attractive, but she could be perfectly happy with the way she looks and not trying to please anybody but herself. You are superficial enough to insist that anyone who is self aware, able to cope with stress, socially apt, confident, educated and disciplined would of course strive to be thin, because that is what you yourself value. Why dont you stop insulting peoples intelligence by trying to justify the importance you place on looks and just own it.
What????? Id like you to quote those odds. There is absolutely no basis in fact for this that I am aware of. Feel free to prove it. Both of my parents are slim so I am slim a lucky genetic fluke. My education, the fact that I am an engineer, is in no way linked to my weight. What the hell does boob size have to do with stress management, education or any other of the traits you listed? Oh, and the way you linked big boobs with bimbo status was an especially nice touch.
Really. Who decides how much make-up is too much? Its entirely subjective. I wear make-up, I dont think its too much and I have no idea if you would think so. Guess what? I couldnt give a shit because I wear it for me. I cannot speak for all women the way that you believe you can, I wouldnt dream of it, but what I will say is that the most pressure I have ever felt in regard to my appearance came from other women.
To me, these sweeping generalisations make you seem extremely young and extremely ill-informed. But hey, at least Im not jumping to that conclusion from the way you look.
The impression I am left with is that you dont have the tools to pull this off. What you have displayed is prejudice, not insight and it's just unfortunate for you that you can't quite grasp the difference.
Don't do that!
Coming across with a huge inferiority complex can really hurt you. It's a turn off.
Ever hear the term " fake it till you make it" ? Could pertain to a lot of things, but in this case, let it be confidence.
Don't do that!
Coming across with a huge inferiority complex can really hurt you. It's a turn off.
Ever hear the term " fake it till you make it" ? Could pertain to a lot of things, but in this case, let it be confidence.
I had one date with a guy who I felt was attractive enough to date. He was only about 5'4" but I'm 5'1", so he was taller than I.
However, once we sat down to eat he went on and on about how cute I was, and would then say he couldn't believe I'd go out with him.
It was just embarrassing. The compliments, while appreciated were just too much.
At first I tried to reason with him and let him know that I didn't see what he was talking about, and I did find him attractive. He'd argue every point.
Eventually he began to turn me off, I just saw him as someone unable to be the "man", and seemed so down.
My husband on the other hand is overly confident. But he is not an ass about it.
Maybe that's one thing that drew me to him. I see him as someone I can depend on and can handle most anything. I think it makes me feel safe.
He believes in himself, so I do too.
Especially for you guys, even if you feel you are not in league, have confidence in yourself as a man. You don't know what she is looking for, or where she is in her life. If your not convinced your good for her, how can she be.
It wasn't just my husbands confidence or his looks that I was drawn to, but his vast patience and ability to listen and understand me. Yes, it's his job to listen to people. But I had a very difficult childhood and I wanted...needed more in a man than a pretty face.
I also wanted the father I didn't have for my kids. He ticked a lot of boxes.
But I certainly didn't realized then that any of those things were on my mind.
Only now do I realize it.
Muster up that confidence . You are perfect for the right woman. (or guy)