Very important! I haven't been into the sport fuck for about two decades and truth be told I didn't much care for it then.How important are tenderness and affection during sex? Is this a necessary component to having sex for you?
Men? Find and feel, fuck and forget them.
Men can get trapped into this situation and it becomes a conditioned response. I have known men who want a relationship, yearn for one, but can't break the one night stand habit and show fear at the idea of commitment.
You'd think if the guy really cared about you that tenderness and affection would just come naturally during the hop in the sack regardless of his past history of one night stands.
On the other hand I like it a little rough and tumble sometimes.
With the Maytag repairman? God knows he wasn't there to fix the dryer.On top!:wink:
Most gay sex that I have had for the most part is devoid of tenderness and affection yet most of the het sex I have had was always full of tenderness and affection. Perhaps this is more important for women.
I consider it very important but not at all times.
When tenderness and affection are expressed during sex I would call it 'making love'. Sometimes the gentle caresses give way to something more feral and that heat, that passion is equally important.