How Important Is A Top's Cock Size For Bottoms?

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As I'm very new to bottoming, just want to ask do you feel any differences based on size? I probably would think the larger in girth and length you'd probably feel more of, and probably easier to keep in you once inside.

Do you have any preferences?
 

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I don’t like small dicks because the times I’ve bottomed for them they hit around at my walls and it hurts, so I prefer bigger ones because they don’t usually hit cause me pain, when fucking, and I like the full feeling.
 
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I mean ideally I’d like a guy with a big one, but it’s whatever. When I’m just hooking up I like big ones, in relationships it doesn’t matter to me. If I fall for them and they have a small to average size I don’t care, but if they have a big one then it’s an added bonus.
 

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Think of it like the color coding of ski slopes.

Small penises are for everyone but probably where beginners should start. Everyone can have a good time here.

Average penises offer a bit more of a challenge and a natural progression for beginners.

Above average requires a degree of experience and care in order to make the most of the run. The challenge offers a sense of achievement and pushes you a bit further out of your comfort zone.

Jumbo cocks are the double black diamonds of the cock world. For experts only. You can cause yourself injury if you don't know what you are doing but it's a hell of a rush.

And then you have the monster cocks which are generally off limits to most except the exceptionally brave or experienced. You may not be able to walk for a few days.
 

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My overarching caveat is that it comes down more to how good a fuck the guy is than size - I've been really, really well fucked by guys with average sized dicks, and really poorly fucked by guys with big ones (and vice versa). That said, I do generally prefer guys with at least bigger than average cocks in both length and girth; I love the full feeling of being opened up and stretched and getting my hole deeply used. The fuck from a large cock feels more intense and sensual.

Also in my experience (and this may sound counter-intuitive) but if I'm about to find out that a guy is a bad fuck (lol), a bad fuck from a guy with a bigger cock is not as bad as a bad fuck from an average sized guy. That's a super generalized statement, but usually for me a bad fuck (as opposed to a boring fuck which is what it is but is fine) involves pain and/or a lack of concern about said pain. I'm significantly more likely to feel pain (like "ow, jesus!" pain) shallower - the region between my hole itself til just past my prostate, so if it's being caused by a guy with an average sized cock it's going to be non-stop.

Two of my favorite regular fuckbuds (pre-COVID but we're looking forward to getting back together) couldn't be more different in the cock department - one has 8 thick inches and the other is textbook average in length and thickness. And I always have a freaking fantastic time with either of them, they're just very different kinds of fucks. But both are GREAT fucks and both make me feel amazing, happy, and well fucked afterward.
 

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for me it comes down to what i am going to do with the penis. i am a size queen when it is going in my ass-i love the feeling of getting filled with a thick 20cm uncut or even bigger. He will be getting to places that the "normal" guy will not even think of existed and the after-burn is something, that for me is, out of this world.
If i was to only be able to suck cock for the rest of my life, which is not a bad thing, i would love to have a 15-17cm long not too thick penis to play with. Those are the ones i can give my best blowjobs to, lots of deepthroating and ball sucking.
To answer your original question, i am a size queen and need to be fucked with big cocks!
 

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There's so much more to how good sex is than the size of the top's dick. Some of the best sex I've had has been with men who were average (5.5 or so). Some of the worst has been with men who are 7-8 inches. I care more about how they have sex than how "full" I feel.
 

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For me size is at the top of the list! There's nothing more exciting than holding a big cock in my hands and anticipating having it inside me. I love dominant tops who slap my ass with their large cocks before entering me. There is a big element of submission which is highly erotic. That said, I have had hookups with very large dudes who were pretty boring, but the least exciting sex for me has been with average sized guys. They just don't get me going.
 

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I enjoy a nice long dick just as much as the next size queen, but I would much prefer a thick cock over a long cock. I love the feeling of being stretched out.

But honestly, I just love being fucked, I would take an average cock any time over not getting any cock.
 
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So would I qualify @horndoggerel ?! Haha
From what I hear, girth definitely helps a guy feel full and stuffed which bottoms like. Can only speak from my experience with them tho haha
Sorry, I can't view your pics. If it's thick, you do qualify!
 

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Cock size matters to me very little. I’m going to enjoy getting fucked by a small guy as much as an average or large guy. It is a different experience, but both are fun and feel good for different reasons. The point is to get cock in my hole. Any cock will do.
 
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