How important is female body shape to you?

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I am like the famous art connoisseur: "I know what I like."

As for myself, I always say: "A man has to have looks or money, now you know what kind of trouble I'm in."


Well as long as he doesn't have to make you happy, can be a drunk, and will cheat on you I'm know a guy I can hook you up with. Around that area too has a 10' cock as well.

Err he does have his violent moods but at first he'll be very nice and kind. Just after the first month his facade wanes... but he is a millionare and he's pretty hot.
 

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I'm talking about a make or break deal here. Big tits and dick size shouldn't be a deciding factor either. Both are incredibly superficial. Marrying a person just because he has the dough to insure you don't have to raise a finger the rest of your life is terrible.
Ok, so I probably shouldn't have said that first sentence, because yeah I know money is an issue in a relationship, but I really didn't mean it in that way. I was simply saying that even if you are broke, that shouldn't detract you from getting a woman. If some broad doesn't dig you because your paycheck isn't great then.... I dunno... fuck that. I think I'm just digging myself a hole here that I can't explain myself out of.

It's going to sound like I'm nitpicking here, even though I think I know where you are coming from. But if you are broke, it will be harder to get a girlfriend/wife/whatever. Same with being short. Or uncommunicative. Or being in a wheelchair.

The majority of women, when they describe their ideal man, want someone who is tall, reasonably articulate, successful, fit, kind, fun to be with, moderately assertive, healthy, attractive and hygienic. And that probably isn't an exclusive list. If you're a man with all those traits, you'll get lots of attention from women. But if you are missing some of those traits, it will be harder to date successfully. It won't be impossible - as I have said elsewhere in a similar context (http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/47176-all-women-does-size-actually.html#post782593) there are a lot of women in the world, and not every woman likes the same things. But that doesn't make specific failings (financial failings among them) meaningless.

Specifically, if you have no money, you are limited in your travel, entertainment and dining options. This can really put a crimp in one's dating. Granted, once people get to know one another, money issues can seem trivial when compared to a partner's good traits. But when faced with a negative trait (or more than one negative trait), how many people stick around long enough to discover the good traits?
 

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It's going to sound like I'm nitpicking here, even though I think I know where you are coming from. But if you are broke, it will be harder to get a girlfriend/wife/whatever. Same with being short. Or uncommunicative. Or being in a wheelchair.

The majority of women, when they describe their ideal man, want someone who is tall, reasonably articulate, successful, fit, kind, fun to be with, moderately assertive, healthy, attractive and hygienic. And that probably isn't an exclusive list. If you're a man with all those traits, you'll get lots of attention from women. But if you are missing some of those traits, it will be harder to date successfully. It won't be impossible - as I have said elsewhere in a similar context (http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/47176-all-women-does-size-actually.html#post782593) there are a lot of women in the world, and not every woman likes the same things. But that doesn't make specific failings (financial failings among them) meaningless.

Specifically, if you have no money, you are limited in your travel, entertainment and dining options. This can really put a crimp in one's dating. Granted, once people get to know one another, money issues can seem trivial when compared to a partner's good traits. But when faced with a negative trait (or more than one negative trait), how many people stick around long enough to discover the good traits?


A very realistic, level headed view of how things really are. All attributes do matter to some extent. There are those who would say "superficial" but, aren't we all superficial to some degree? It's just human nature.
 

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It's going to sound like I'm nitpicking here, even though I think I know where you are coming from. But if you are broke, it will be harder to get a girlfriend/wife/whatever. Same with being short. Or uncommunicative. Or being in a wheelchair.

The majority of women, when they describe their ideal man, want someone who is tall, reasonably articulate, successful, fit, kind, fun to be with, moderately assertive, healthy, attractive and hygienic. And that probably isn't an exclusive list. If you're a man with all those traits, you'll get lots of attention from women. But if you are missing some of those traits, it will be harder to date successfully. It won't be impossible - as I have said elsewhere in a similar context (http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/47176-all-women-does-size-actually.html#post782593) there are a lot of women in the world, and not every woman likes the same things. But that doesn't make specific failings (financial failings among them) meaningless.

Specifically, if you have no money, you are limited in your travel, entertainment and dining options. This can really put a crimp in one's dating. Granted, once people get to know one another, money issues can seem trivial when compared to a partner's good traits. But when faced with a negative trait (or more than one negative trait), how many people stick around long enough to discover the good traits?

No nitpick please, I tend to mix up my wording and confuse even myself sometimes. I need a thesaurus on hand at all times to get my point across it seems. I suppose the phrase "it takes all kinds" really is true, because everyone is into different things. Hey, if money is your deal, then more power to you. I guess because I've dated both wealthy men and dirt poor ones I just think differently. Being poor myself, I never saw money as a deciding factor in my relationship. I never cared because I can just as easily do a million free things to do that make me happier. I also am stubbornly independent and refuse to rely on anyone else. So someone's money means zip to me, because I wouldn't take what I haven't earned myself.
I am successful in my career, however I am in a field that makes no money. It doesn't make me any less successful than anyone else.
 

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I think body shape doesn't really matter, except in the extreme case.
I once dated a girl who was very pretty but very overweight, for me it was enough to put me off.
Similarly, if a girl is not attractive but has a great body, it can help but I don't think any man would seriously date a woman just for her body - except maybe to have a bit of fun with.
Most body shapes within an acceptable range (i.e. not too skeletal or lardy) are not going to make a difference.
Personally I like big boobs and a skinny ass.
 

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For me, one of the biggest turn ons is girls with accents and dark skinned girls.
 

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Iam attracted to women with healthy looking bodies and who take care of themselves...some women work hard to keep their bodies in good shape and keep them selves fit....congrats to them...
 

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fatness is a no no..... 15 pouds over normal means i wont take u seriously.
 

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I prefer a woman with a little meat on her bones. Yes a little over weight is no problem for me as long as the weight hasn't gone to her self esteem. I have dated several boney anorexic looking ladies and find most of them have self esteem problems. I like em with curves and confidence. A fun loving confident personality over rides a few extra pounds anyday. And I find these curvaceous ladies seem to be much better in the bed, on the floor, on the couch in the shower or anywhere else a couple can make love.