How Important Is Firmness Of An Erection?

[Add9er]

Brand new member so apologies if this has been covered...

I get size is important, but just curious why firmness isn’t discussed much. It seems like many of the huge cocks I see in porn are floppy and/or “spongy”.

Question....Females and Gay men: is sex with a huge-but floppy cock- still better than a average or big, but rigid cock?

On a personal note, if I’m fucking with a semi it’s so much less enjoyable than when rock hard.

 

[nailz]

is sex with a huge-but floppy cock- still better than a average or big, but rigid cock?

I don't find floppy very enjoyable and it puts a damper on the mood because I can't help but wonder if it's normal for him or if he's just not fully aroused for some reason

Whenever I see a huge but floppy penis this is immediately what pops into my head

I think men can get too obsessed with length and girth and don't realize that hardness is more important than either.
FYI a rock hard penis feels much larger than a soft one

 

[Add9er]

I don't find floppy very enjoyable and it puts a damper on the mood because I can't help but wonder if it's normal for him or if he's just not fully aroused for some reason

Whenever I see a huge but floppy penis this is immediately what pops into my head
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I think men can get too obsessed with length and girth and don't realize that hardness is more important than either.
FYI a rock hard penis feels much larger than a soft one

Thanks for the input! I’m larger than average...by no means huge...but I can get rock hard so your post makes me feel better.

 

[nailz]

It's why whenever I'm telling someone about glass or steel toys, I always suggest they get a size smaller than what they'd normally look for. Because they have absolutely no give, they feel much larger than they are

 

[Add9er]

Is glass a bit too firm? Or, I guess it depends on the mood.

Have you ever taken cock that was too hard? Curious if that’s even a thing.

 

[nailz]

Is glass a bit too firm? Or, I guess it depends on the mood.

Pretty much anything I have that's glass or steel is mainly for the aesthetics (for fetish and photos or just collecting), silicone is a much more practical and comfortable material for anything you actually plan on using a lot

Have you ever taken cock that was too hard? Curious if that’s even a thing.

Yes, a cock ring on my bf is a little too much sometimes

 

[longstroke7]

I had a partner who said that I have one of the hardest dicks that she has ever felt, and she had noticed other guys that she had fucked who had big penises had trouble staying firm.

I kind of think the l arginine that I take before workouts helps a lot in that regard. I definitely feel extra hard and thicker if I have sex following a workout.

 

[Add9er]

Yeah an ex told me the two biggest guys she’s had weren’t enjoyable cause their dicks “felt like a bag of marshmallows” inside her.

 

[MilfBanger78]

Firmness definitely helps. Cialis 3x a week works wonders

Sometimes it comes down to genetics though also. Like if you watch porn, some dudes have huge dicks that will stand upright the whole time, others are hanging down even when rock hard

 

[EllieP]

This is actually a good question. My husband quite frankly is the poster boy for this site. So there can be challenges when it comes to lovemaking when I'm not quite ready. That's when I like him to be a bit more pliable for comfort.

A few years ago one of his friends gave him Viagra to try without my knowledge. Well, that was a surprise! Mr. Comfortable was replaced by a baseball bat with veins. I had never seen him like that before, and I was kind of worried.

And he found his old toy that he hadn't seen in years. And he was going to play with it.

That was not a pleasant experience at all. To make matters worse he couldn't orgasm even after 25 minutes. The festivities were halted blue balls be damned.

So to answer your question firmness is very important, but there is a limit.

 

[DiamondJoe]

Depends on what you want to do with it

 

[Nomis1956]

Now I'm old I only seem to get really hard first thing in the morning, if I am having nice dreams then I don't remember them, if only there was a way of videoing your brain while you were asleep, I would have some nice footage - it soon goes back down after I have a pee and hibernates until the next morning.

I think a cock can be too hard, I like them with a bit of give, rock hard cocks are not comfy when they're being rammed down your throat! Of course too floppy is not good - but like all things in life if you remove the extremes the rest of it can be very nice.

 

[neutrno]

I prefer small and hard than big (hard, or not).

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

you can't play pool with a hunk of rope

 

[svrocks]

According to my girlfriend and past partners, very important.

 

[rbi99]

When I was younger the firmness of my erections were a turn on for my wife. One of my favorite things I would tell her (and it was true), "Look how hard you make me". As I got older my erection quality wasn't as good, and holding my erection for a long time also suffered. Well I ordered a leather cock ring to see if it would help. My erections are as rock hard now as I have ever been, and it stays that way until my wife makes me cum. She understood it wasn't her but age that was the culprit, but she loves grabbing my hardon and doing whatever the hell she wants to do with it!!!

 

[Hakan1]

what I enjoy about smaller cocks is that they usually get ROCK hard. Another thing that I experienced is that growers most of the time get harder than showers.

 

[TommyM80]

This is actually a good question. My husband quite frankly is the poster boy for this site. So there can be challenges when it comes to lovemaking when I'm not quite ready. That's when I like him to be a bit more pliable for comfort.

A few years ago one of his friends gave him Viagra to try without my knowledge. Well, that was a surprise! Mr. Comfortable was replaced by a baseball bat with veins. I had never seen him like that before, and I was kind of worried.

And he found his old toy that he hadn't seen in years. And he was going to play with it.

That was not a pleasant experience at all. To make matters worse he couldn't orgasm even after 25 minutes. The festivities were halted blue balls be damned.

So to answer your question firmness is very important, but there is a limit.

So I guess I won’t secretly pop a viagra now.

 

[deleted494578]

Rock fucking hard like steel =

 

[thongboy]

You look at old John Holmes porn and he always seems something of a fraud. That massive cock is rarely as hard as it needs to be