Coming from a guy who's used to at least finishing in some sort of way, whether it be touching, oral or penetration - it was kind of unsatisfying when my partner (after close to an hour of slow caressing, kissing and touching) just said that she was happy with that as a sexual encounter and wishes we could do it more.
It left me kind of disappointed and it built a certain amount of sexual energy that just came crashing down quite depressingly for me.
I understand kissing and touching to show each other affection as we always do throughout the day.
But with like a candle lit scene, by the fire and a glass of wine, after caressing and kissing naked for close to an hour to be done, go brush our teeth and go to bed..it was just something I really did not enjoy.
So I guess my question is, is this something I should learn to enjoy or is it okay for me to be disappointed and unsatisfied by this encounter?
I just want to get some insight from the female perspective if I'm being a dick here, I try my best not to expect sex just because she is my partner, never want to force the issue and always want it to come naturally.
It would be nice to know if some people here like these type of encounters and if it's common place to expect it to be satisfying.
Thank you all for your time, hope you all love a lovely day.
It left me kind of disappointed and it built a certain amount of sexual energy that just came crashing down quite depressingly for me.
I understand kissing and touching to show each other affection as we always do throughout the day.
But with like a candle lit scene, by the fire and a glass of wine, after caressing and kissing naked for close to an hour to be done, go brush our teeth and go to bed..it was just something I really did not enjoy.
So I guess my question is, is this something I should learn to enjoy or is it okay for me to be disappointed and unsatisfied by this encounter?
I just want to get some insight from the female perspective if I'm being a dick here, I try my best not to expect sex just because she is my partner, never want to force the issue and always want it to come naturally.
It would be nice to know if some people here like these type of encounters and if it's common place to expect it to be satisfying.
Thank you all for your time, hope you all love a lovely day.