ironically, i actually prefer guys who are not well off and don't have lucrative jobs.... i don't give doctors, lawyers, executives, public servants (people in politics), or traveling workers the time of day.... it's far too easy for them to just up and move on when something better comes along, and i have no interest in being connected to any kind of high life.... i live by the philosophy: 'the more you have, the more there is to lose....' ergo, i personally don't care to be upwardly mobile and like guys in the same position because i know our feet are firmly on the ground.... people who live in the world of wealth and luxury are alien to me, and only represent the most selfish and gluttonous parts of ourselves.... yeah, i know it's stereotyping.... but it's all ive ever experienced from that world.... i'd be more than happy to be with some dude who runs a hot dog stand or even cleans toilets as long as he's a good guy and good for me.... but since i don't date and don't want to be in a relationship, it really doesn't matter anyway.....