I know ladies often talk about the importance of the kiss, and that even pure kissing is a vital part of foreplay, but since the ladies I've encountered here are mature adults who aren't afraid to be honest about sexual matters I was hoping you could truthfully respond to this poll. I want to present a hypothetical situation in which you can only choose one of two extremes; the perfect kisser or the unrivaled lover. You have absolutely no romantic investment with either of them. Lets say you have 2 guys, both of whom are equally attractive in every respect. One of them is a phenomenal kisser, the kind who can make your toes with just his kisses and outside of anything overtly sexual has the both the delicate subtlety and the raw passion to literally 'make you feel, like you're the only girl in the world!'; but is a complete disaster in bed, hits all the wrong buttons all the time and, the few times he manages to keep it up for longer than half a minute, with whom you have to fake every orgasm with just so he'll start ravaging you with his mind-blowing kisses again. For the other the kiss is more of a (rather unnecessary) step towards getting to stuff you and he spends most of his time trying to feel you up rather than invest in the act. Insert overly aggressive tongue, arrogant brags about size (of which he grossly exaggerates) and sexual prowess, and anything else that would make you want to just punch him in the face. But when he somehow manages to get you into bed it turns out he can back up his brags. Formidable stamina, an unrivaled repertoire of positions and masterfully executed techniques, and an understanding of the female body that always leaves you in a quivering heap of ecstasy; so much so that you would put up with his distilled asshole nature just for another ride. I tried as much as I could to balance them out in terms of pros and cons, but it still basically boils down to the kisser or the fucker. Sorry if I was too harsh on either of them.