How important is kissing (read description first please)

[D_Madam_Ovary]

The Kisser. Definitely the kisser.

 

[Gecko4lif]

inexperienced and ineptitude is no the same thing.

i've been the first lassie for several ladies.. most start out awkward and hesitant. most will mimic how their menfolk touch them (there are straight women out there having horrible sex :frown or what they see in porn. i'm all "lay back, take notes." most get the idea of touching me how they want to touch and sussing out response. what feels good to them usually feels good to me.

kissing more than mimicking, once you got the basics down ya own natural flavor of smooching developed.

you can explain or demonstrate all you want, a rubbish kisser will always be a rubbish kisser.

Ah ok I see where your coming from now

 

[siroliver19]

This is more important thing to me,am fan of good ,long kisses,and if i get hart during that ,THATS IT!BINGO!!!!!!!

 

[Intrigue]

I picked the Kisser. The Kisser can so be taught.

Lol that was me. I have been told I'm a great kisser, so it subject to opinion, but I was a tad rusty at the whole thing. I was a diligent learner with all my exes so I learned and now I would consider myself a very good lay according to the Mrs. So yah if the shoe were flipped and the choice was mine I would pick the kisser. Sex is just sex but a kiss can convey much mire emotion and for me I have to have an emotional connection. The one time I tried a one night stand I was completely turned off and just kinda went through the motions.

 

[sexualnapalm]

Kissing can convey so much. Playfulness or serious emotion, true love or extreme passion or truly all of the above all at once. Sex can be just going through the motions. But when you combine the kissing and the sex? Talk about mind blowing!!!!

Lol that was me. I have been told I'm a great kisser, so it subject to opinion, but I was a tad rusty at the whole thing. I was a diligent learner with all my exes so I learned and now I would consider myself a very good lay according to the Mrs. So yah if the shoe were flipped and the choice was mine I would pick the kisser. Sex is just sex but a kiss can convey much mire emotion and for me I have to have an emotional connection. The one time I tried a one night stand I was completely turned off and just kinda went through the motions.

 

[dolfette]

on the one hand...
kissing feels good. toe curlingly, neck tinglingly good.

on the other hand...
mouth full of someone else's drool. that's like eating pre-chewed food! gross. just gross.

i'd go with whichever guy i actually liked.
though, me being a heinous bitch, that's likely neither.

 

[McHotstuff19]

Kissing can convey so much. Playfulness or serious emotion, true love or extreme passion or truly all of the above all at once. Sex can be just going through the motions. But when you combine the kissing and the sex? Talk about mind blowing!!!!

Couldn't agree more!

 

[Pierced1953]

A good kisser can really spark things up. My gf says my kisses is what gets her wet and her kisses get me hard. It sparks the passion and passion sparks the sex. You can learn what your partner likes from kissing. I don't think penetration is complete without the kissing.

 

[curious_angel]

I'll take both. The kisser can stay once he's picked up techniques from the fucker.

IMO kissing can't be taught.

How about if he's an amazing conversationalist, insightful, opens doors for you out of sheer cheesy chivalry, always shows up looking like he put at least the slightest effort into looking good for you, brings a bottle of your favorite wine and cooks you an amazing dinner?

Let's throw that guy into the mix.

Come to my house and let's discuss. (Sancerre)

 

[EllieP]

Fortunately, I do not have to make that decision so I didn't vote.

 

[Intrigue]

Fortunately, I do not have to make that decision so I didn't vote.

While I'm sure your happy with your wonderful husband the question was hypothetical and isn't really something that I have ever had to actually make a decision on. It was for fun! Atleast I thought so heh.:biggrin1:

 

[Attila the Hung]

Damn, reading thru the replies makes me grateful that many of the women I have ever kissed have all told me I`m the best kisser they ever locked lips with without exception.

Its quite baffling to me though as I haven`t got the faintest effing clue about what it is about my kissing technique that is so great, I`m playful with me lips and tongue and when I kiss I always do so passionately and with intensity but thats it really.

Boggles my mind too as to how so important kissing is to women, I always knew it was but never did I have a clue as to just how important it actually is, interesting thread.

 

[paigexox]

If the end goal is getting off, I'll take the manimal.

If the goal is a long term relationship, I won't be happy in either situation.