I like a lot of different shapes but go crazy for tall, lanky guys. However, more of the guys I have actually dated, while tall, were more stocky in build. That's fine too. I usually say I like a guy who is built like a basketball player, but a football player build is good too - just as long as he isn't built like a sumo wrestler! :biggrin1: Don't go for the bodybuilder type either - especially when they get all gross with the veins popping out when they pose. Ugh...
I've run into the couch potato thing before though too. I'm an active person (although I could stand to lose a few pounds), but many of my friends and guys I've dated were very sedentary. I'd get frustrated because they didn't want to do active things. Now, one thing is that I had a lot of friends who had chronic health problems that prevented them from being very active, and while that bummed me out, I had to accept that they just couldn't keep up because of their health problems. I now have some healthy friends and even play some recreational team sports, since moving to a new city where these things are more widely available.