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Me and my bf have a healthy relationship. It’s my first serious relationship, and his first healthy long-term relationship. Although we feel the same way about most things, this is one on which we differ. For context, I’m an introvert and usually don’t get out and socialize much. He’s a total extrovert and loves being around people, gets invited to go out with friends, etc.
I find kissing and making out an intimate activity. Something that you do with someone you’re really genuinely attracted to, or someone you’re getting to know in order to move things further along sexually. Bf on the other hand sees it as a casual activity, something that is ok to do with strangers at a bar, even if there isn’t any genuine interest. It’s just a thing of the moment, especially if there have been a few drinks involved.
Regardless if it’s between straight or gay people, to me making out with strangers is something that either happens on a first date, if there is attraction and to get a feel of things, or if it happens casually at a bar, it is with the intention of leaving with that person and have things go further somewhere else.
My mind doesn’t compute the idea of how you get all up in someone’s face and mouth, rub tongues and exchange saliva, and then go “Kay, bye!” without the intention of taking it further. I guess the point of asking this is to gauge the opinion of a wider sample size to see if I’m in the minority that thinks this way, and to help determine if maybe I am too uptight about the whole scenario.
I find kissing and making out an intimate activity. Something that you do with someone you’re really genuinely attracted to, or someone you’re getting to know in order to move things further along sexually. Bf on the other hand sees it as a casual activity, something that is ok to do with strangers at a bar, even if there isn’t any genuine interest. It’s just a thing of the moment, especially if there have been a few drinks involved.
Regardless if it’s between straight or gay people, to me making out with strangers is something that either happens on a first date, if there is attraction and to get a feel of things, or if it happens casually at a bar, it is with the intention of leaving with that person and have things go further somewhere else.
My mind doesn’t compute the idea of how you get all up in someone’s face and mouth, rub tongues and exchange saliva, and then go “Kay, bye!” without the intention of taking it further. I guess the point of asking this is to gauge the opinion of a wider sample size to see if I’m in the minority that thinks this way, and to help determine if maybe I am too uptight about the whole scenario.