How is it preferable to start penetration if the glans is not completely uncovered ?

If with the erection your glans is not (entirely) uncovered, before starting penetration...

  • You do nothing, not considering it important

    Votes: 17 48.6%
  • You retract the foreskin only partially

    Votes: 1 2.9%
  • You retract the foreskin only until you uncover the entire glans

    Votes: 4 11.4%
  • You retract the foreskin (under the corona of glans penis, as far as you can) to show all the glans

    Votes: 13 37.1%

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It is a widespread belief that during the erection the glans becomes progressively uncovered due to the automatic retraction of the foreskin. However, this does not always happen. In fact, as is well known, there are boys (within this category I could include myself) who have a long or slightly tight foreskin, naturally without phimosis, and therefore with erection will not have an automatic "unveiling" of the glans. It is logical that in such cases the skin can easily be lowered manually. In these situations, when the penis is erect, the degree of exposure of the glans will depend on various factors: it may still be completely covered, have the tip (where there is the urinary meatus) visible or be only partially exposed.

My question, related and connected to the survey, focuses on the topic in question. Before starting vaginal or anal penetration (this applies to all "sexual orientations"), should these boys uncover completely and with the hand their glans, by retracting the foreskin, or is it not important ?

I also ask because I have read on the internet that it is better to start penetration with the glans already fully exposed (and, especially in the case of anal sex, this should facilitate the introduction of the penis)...
 
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For me always with the foreskin fully retracted. That is what i had see before i had sex and that is why i started to get ready for sex by keeping my foreskin back in the first place in my late teens. so any sex, that foreskin is back.
 
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Tbh I can find entering when not wearing a condom a bit uncomfortable because of my longish foreskin, size and partner's tightness. It gets caught a little bit on the way in. Certainly need to be well lubed because of it. Mine doesn't retract when erect.
 
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I go back and forth on this. My foreskin doesn't uncover much of my head during an erection (It's very long when I'm soft). My girlfriend enjoys the feeling of my foreskin unrolling as I first penetrate her. Other girls prefer I skin back my foreskin before penetration (this may just be "foreskin phobia" on their parts... though no one ever had any questions about blowing me with my un-retracted foreskin). If I'm wearing a condom, I pretty much always skin it back before unrolling the condom.
 
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I also ask because I have read on the internet that it is better to start penetration with the glans already fully exposed (and, especially in the case of anal sex, this should facilitate the introduction of the penis)...

I find it's the other way round: rolling my foreskin forward to cover the glans facilitates the introduction of the penis. The foreskin creates a kind of "sleeve" effect that guides my cock in (it tends to be a tight fit) and eases entry.
 

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My foreskin only goes about about 1/2 the way when I am erect. I am around a CI-6 soft and hard. Even if it wants to go back a push it forward for penetration. My lady likes it more due to the gliding action the skin was made for. I like it more due to the added stimulation on my foreskin and frenulum.

If I am having protected sex, I always slide is back then forward once the condom is on like all dudes should.
 

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There's two schools of thought here. One says that the glans is supposed to automatically become exposed upon erection. The other says that the foreskin is supposed to only retract as penetration takes place, and facilitate the process like an applicator on a tampon.

Both are hypotheses and there's no definitive answer. People's dicks do different things. The whole process of evolution revolves around happy accidents. There's no big reason why the body does certain things. Even the most eminent biologists are just looking at information and stabbing in the dark.
 
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I have a question. I’m gay. Unfortunately, I don’t have sex often, but when I do, I’m a top. My uncut cock has a very flexible foreskin and when I penetrate a tight ass it’s impossible to keep my foreskin over the cock head. In fact, it stretches the skin back so far that it tears the shaft in a few places. This hurts during sex and makes it sore until it heals. I don’t want to wear a condom but I may have to. Any other uncut guys have this problem?
 

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I have a question. I’m gay. Unfortunately, I don’t have sex often, but when I do, I’m a top. My uncut cock has a very flexible foreskin and when I penetrate a tight ass it’s impossible to keep my foreskin over the cock head. In fact, it stretches the skin back so far that it tears the shaft in a few places. This hurts during sex and makes it sore until it heals. I don’t want to wear a condom but I may have to. Any other uncut guys have this problem?

Even though this is kinda off topic I want to reply to you: you should definitely always wear a condom when having sex! (There might be exceptions with a stable partner but your situation doesn't sound like this). The chance of contracting a disease is otherwise just too high, especially since you mention small tears, which exacerbate the issue. Also, tearing shouldn't happen. Either you penetrated too fast without enough easing into it or you didn't use enough lube.
 
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There's no big reason why the body does certain things.

On the contrary. One of the reasons to have a foreskin is to smooth the act of fucking, stroking in and out. My foreskin pulls back so that it covers perhaps 1/4 or less if the glans when I am erect. but I can still pull it forward to cover. I am quite thick and long. Women regularly tell me how much they love the increased ease of first penetration when I pull my foreskin forward and enter her vagina that way. The foreskin glides my cock into her for the first few inches. If she is normally tight, I stroke the first strokes in only to the limit of the foreskin, so that she is feeling the glide only. At the point of most penetration, I then start to push in a little further with each stroke. On the back stroke I pull out to the limit of the foreskin, then push back in just a little further.

Using my foreskin like that makes the entry of my big thick cock much more pleasant for the woman and allows her to "get used to" me faster and easier. Then while fucking, the glide of my foreskin makes it easier to fuck for way longer without her getting sore or chafed. I get very good reviews from all my partners for these techniques and lots of orgasmic "reviews" as well.
 
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Even though this is kinda off topic I want to reply to you: you should definitely always wear a condom when having sex! (There might be exceptions with a stable partner but your situation doesn't sound like this). The chance of contracting a disease is otherwise just too high, especially since you mention small tears, which exacerbate the issue. Also, tearing shouldn't happen. Either you penetrated too fast without enough easing into it or you didn't use enough lube.
I'm not sure why you think yours or mine is off topic, but....
aside from your judgemental comments, I don't practice sex with anyone I'm not sure of. That's why (as I mentioned) I don't have sex very often. The guys I have sex with are tested as I am. Your penis may be different from mine, since you obviously have sex quite often. However, mine is very tender and easy to damage. I know how to use lubrication and I know how to make gentle love. I was hoping for a solution to my problem, but perhaps this is the wrong forum. Why do people outside of the US think Americans are so dumb?
 

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My foreskin covers my glans even when I'm erect. (It just covers LESS when I'm erect...) I'm thick and long like Uncut Pete, and also start a fuck with my glans covered, and the the gradual introduction of my full penis into a vagina. I also use a LOT of lube. (and I precum a lot, which also helps.)