How is it to be not 100% Straight as a Man?

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I don't believe any man is "100% straight". By deduction, that would mean that someone is completely and entirely not gay. I don't think this is realistic. Besides, those that show outward, blatant hate toward those who to them are not "100% straight" all have serious issues of their own that the rest of us are able to see.
Why you think that a man can not be 100% Straight?
I mean, i am that ok, ok Iam a woman but dear, I not want women!
Im 150% turned on by cocks!
Why you all think, everyone is gay, i not understand that!
I have lots of friends here now, they tell me that they are 100% Straight!
And yes they even tried men.
I not get that!
 
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No one is "turned."

What happens is simple realization of who and what we really are.

For the most part it means undoing a lifetime of indoctrination into gender roles.

Indoctrination is just a fancy word for brainwashing.
Oh thats fantastic, no on can be turned, but so many Gays here, think
When a 100% Straight, is there he even says, he loves his wife/girlfriend and not interested at all in men.
Some tell him, he only should be sucked or fucked by a Gay man and he will be turned to gay..
 

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Oh thats fantastic, no on can be turned, but so many Gays here, think
When a 100% Straight, is there he even says, he loves his wife/girlfriend and not interested at all in men.
Some tell him, he only should be sucked or fucked by a Gay man and he will be turned to gay..

lol I hear you! First guy I fucked tried to convince me I was gay. Boy did he miss the mark! :laughing: He wouldn't be the first to make that mistake.

His problem was thinking in absolutes. You're one thing or another. Black or white, this or that, up or down, good or bad. Black and white thinking misses the fifty shades of gray in between. People all over the world suffer from this kind of thinking and not only about sexuality.

I was trained in science which fortunately holds the answer. Lab studies of adult populations for the last 30+ years have proven that 9 of 10 have at least some sexual physiological response to both sexes based on visual stimulation only.

When someone tells me they're 100% straight or 100% gay I take it with a grain of salt because there's a 90% chance they're not.

It's like someone saying they know what their blood pressure is without ever having it measured. Same goes for any other biometric. :cool:
 

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Why you think that a man can not be 100% Straight?
I mean, i am that ok, ok Iam a woman but dear, I not want women!
Im 150% turned on by cocks!
Why you all think, everyone is gay, i not understand that!
I have lots of friends here now, they tell me that they are 100% Straight!
And yes they even tried men.
I not get that!
I have the opinion I do because personal sexuality desire and outward sexuality perception of yourself aren't likely to ever on an equal. If a guy has "tried men", his 100% straightness is gone.

It won't be the first or last time I've mentioned, but what difference does it make? It SHOULDN'T. For all.
 
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I have the opinion I do because personal sexuality desire and outward sexuality perception of yourself aren't likely to ever on an equal. If a guy has "tried men", his 100% straightness is gone.

It won't be the first or last time I've mentioned, but what difference does it make? It SHOULDN'T. For all.
Ok at least, I see you could still accept that the man tried but after not want to go on with men.

Because You are thought really about, I apologize if I was rude! But yesterday sorry to say, I had again a Gay who was insulting me, because he think he knows anything better and I am straight but that means nothing


At least I see you could accept if a man says "NO" to a 100% Gay sensitive delicate touchy Diva!

I truly thank you for that!
 
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Yea it is kind of strange for those of us who started out as 100% straight (or at least I thought I was) then over time my curiosity about cock grew and grew until I had to try it in the flesh. I loved my first experience so much that I had to go back for more.

I guess my percentages just slowly shifted over time. Maybe I slowly just accepted a part of me that was always there.
 
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lol I hear you! First guy I fucked tried to convince me I was gay. Boy did he miss the mark! :laughing: He wouldn't be the first to make that mistake.

His problem was thinking in absolutes. You're one thing or another. Black or white, this or that, up or down, good or bad. Black and white thinking misses the fifty shades of gray in between. People all over the world suffer from this kind of thinking and not only about sexuality.

I was trained in science which fortunately holds the answer. Lab studies of adult populations for the last 30+ years have proven that 9 of 10 have at least some sexual physiological response to both sexes based on visual stimulation only.

When someone tells me they're 100% straight or 100% gay I take it with a grain of salt because there's a 90% chance they're not.

It's like someone saying they know what their blood pressure is without ever having it measured. Same goes for any other biometric. :cool:
Thank you for that answer too. At least I see a chance maybe in years, that People are accept when someone says "NO"

I accept and understand, but I not think at all Sorry! That is sooo wrong to think what was told. I mean, not all we should accept but I am sure, when a 100% straight woman, like me(!) Says that, then at least please accept it.
That's I call Respect!

Because yesterday I was again hurt and rude confronted from a little touchy sensitive delicate Gay Diva, maybe I was awful to you.
So take my sincere apologies!
 
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Thank you for that answer too. At least I see a chance maybe in years, that People are accept when someone says "NO"

I accept and understand, but I not think at all Sorry! That is sooo wrong to think what was told. I mean, not all we should accept but I am sure, when a 100% straight woman, like me(!) Says that, then at least please accept it.
That's I call Respect!

Because yesterday I was again hurt and rude confronted from a little touchy sensitive delicate Gay Diva, maybe I was awful to you.
So take my sincere apologies!
Being a touchy, sensitive Diva is nothing you should feel you need to apologize for. I'm a male gossipy bitch. Gossip travels. Perceptions of me diminish. I COULD do things differently. That's my choice, as I'm told.
 
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Being a touchy, sensitive Diva is nothing you should feel you need to apologize for. I'm a male gossipy bitch. Gossip travels. Perceptions of me diminish. I COULD do things differently. That's my choice, as I'm told.
Had to laugh about "male gossipy bitch"
Not sure ever heard that before, but thank you anyway for the answer
 
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Yea it is kind of strange for those of us who started out as 100% straight (or at least I thought I was) then over time my curiosity about cock grew and grew until I had to try it in the flesh. I loved my first experience so much that I had to go back for more.

I guess my percentages just slowly shifted over time. Maybe I slowly just accepted a part of me that was always there.
Then I hope you are now happy, with anything you enjoy
And if you have a GF or Wife, she knows maybe.
Because honesty and respect is the most important thing in Love!
 
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I accept and understand, but I not think at all Sorry! That is sooo wrong to think what was told. I mean, not all we should accept but I am sure, when a 100% straight woman, like me(!) Says that, then at least please accept it.
That's I call Respect!

Again this would be like me accepting that you know what your blood pressure is when you've never had your blood pressure measured.

According to the science there's a one in ten chance you are 100% straight so you might well be. :) It's not for me to determine. :cool:
 
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lol I hear you! First guy I fucked tried to convince me I was gay. Boy did he miss the mark! :laughing: He wouldn't be the first to make that mistake.

His problem was thinking in absolutes. You're one thing or another. Black or white, this or that, up or down, good or bad. Black and white thinking misses the fifty shades of gray in between. People all over the world suffer from this kind of thinking and not only about sexuality.

I was trained in science which fortunately holds the answer. Lab studies of adult populations for the last 30+ years have proven that 9 of 10 have at least some sexual physiological response to both sexes based on visual stimulation only.

When someone tells me they're 100% straight or 100% gay I take it with a grain of salt because there's a 90% chance they're not.

It's like someone saying they know what their blood pressure is without ever having it measured. Same goes for any other biometric. :cool:
Just because you didn't consider yourself 100% gay and he missed the mark, doesn't mean everybody is fluid. Fluidity seems to be a fervent hope turned into self-evident truth by people insisting it is so. Just as you expect to be believed when you insist you are not 100% gay, others should be accorded the same regard when they insist they are 100% straight.
 

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Just because you didn't consider yourself 100% gay and he missed the mark, doesn't mean everybody is fluid. Fluidity seems to be a fervent hope turned into self-evident truth by people insisting it is so. Just as you expect to be believed when you insist you are not 100% gay, others should be accorded the same regard when they insist they are 100% straight.

You misunderstand me. I'm not saying the OP isn't 100% straight. She may well be. I'm relating what the science says about the chance that anyone is 100% straight or gay: it's one in ten. We have ongoing data from these lab studies for over thirty years and the numbers haven't changed.

Would you accept someone's account of what their blood pressure is when it's never been tested?

I accept the science that says there's a one-in-ten chance the OP is 100% straight. Do I care if she is? No. And I mean that in the best possible way: it's not my business. :) I'm not trying to convince her nor am I making a value judgment about hers or anyone's sexuality.
 
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Then I hope you are now happy, with anything you enjoy
And if you have a GF or Wife, she knows maybe.
Because honesty and respect is the most important thing in Love!
Single and very happy with life. Exploring my sexuality has opened up so many new experiences.
 
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Again this would be like me accepting that you know what your blood pressure is when you've never had your blood pressure measured.

According to the science there's a one in ten chance you are 100% straight so you might well be. :) It's not for me to determine. :cool:
Thank you again it’s nice to have the chance that my meaning is accepted, and I’m not be called rude.

BTW My blood pressure measure every week :innocent:
 

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You misunderstand me. I'm not saying the OP isn't 100% straight. She may well be. I'm relating what the science says about the chance that anyone is 100% straight or gay: it's one in ten. We have ongoing data from these lab studies for over thirty years and the numbers haven't changed.

Would you accept someone's account of what their blood pressure is when it's never been tested?

I accept the science that says there's a one-in-ten chance the OP is 100% straight. Do I care if she is? No. And I mean that in the best possible way: it's not my business. :) I'm not trying to convince her nor am I making a value judgment about hers or anyone's sexuality.
Yep. I suspect humans are “sexual” and respond to a variety of sexual stimulus. Judging by how much homophobia there is I would guess that way more men have a degree of same sex attraction - and that scares them, hence the homophobia. Of course, we should respect what people report, but there is a difference between objective fact and self-reported feelings. Self-reported perception is still “real”, but it’s not necessarily the whole truth. So I don’t really think labels help that much. So many of us slide across labels and they are not constant throughout life. I prefer being called a man. A man who likes sex. Leave it at that.
 
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Yep. I suspect humans are “sexual” and respond to a variety of sexual stimulus. Judging by how much homophobia there is I would guess that way more men have a degree of same sex attraction - and that scares them, hence the homophobia. Of course, we should respect what people report, but there is a difference between objective fact and self-reported feelings. Self-reported perception is still “real”, but it’s not necessarily the whole truth. So I don’t really think labels help that much. So many of us slide across labels and they are not constant throughout life. I prefer being called a man. A man who likes sex. Leave it at that.
And again I think there would be some points to discuss, but I am afraid to open my mouth and tell it, even here in my own thread…..

I am got judge for what I say, all the time, and worse, so yes we leave it like that
 
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You misunderstand me. I'm not saying the OP isn't 100% straight. She may well be. I'm relating what the science says about the chance that anyone is 100% straight or gay: it's one in ten. We have ongoing data from these lab studies for over thirty years and the numbers haven't changed.
Would you accept someone's account of what their blood pressure is when it's never been tested?

I accept the science that says there's a one-in-ten chance the OP is 100% straight. Do I care if she is? No. And I mean that in the best possible way: it's not my business. :) I'm not trying to convince her nor am I making a value judgment about hers or anyone's sexuality
You misunderstand me. I'm not saying the OP isn't 100% straight. She may well be. I'm relating what the science says about the chance that anyone is 100% straight or gay: it's one in ten. We have ongoing data from these lab studies for over thirty years and the numbers haven't changed.

Would you accept someone's account of what their blood pressure is when it's never been tested?

I accept the science that says there's a one-in-ten chance the OP is 100% straight. Do I care if she is? No. And I mean that in the best possible way: it's not my business. :) I'm not trying to convince her nor am I making a value judgment about hers or anyone's sexuality.
Data is not "science;" your contention is not "science;" "science" is never settled; and, "science" is not truth no matter your implication to the contrary. With that said, let's look at some more data. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 98.5% of couple households (married and unmarried) in the U.S. are opposite-sex and only 1.5% are same-sex. According to a summary of two studies reported by Psychology Today, 95% of men only have sex with women, which declines to 91% if given the opportunity to choose “occasionally with men.” Likewise, 83% of straight women exclusively have had sex with men. No matter how you look at it, your claim that (only) one in ten men are straight defies history, casual observation and abundant surveys and studies. The remarkable item that deserves study is why so many in the minority deny their lying eyes, shake their fists at the data, and suspend their disbelief, all in a wishful attempt to convince themselves, or others, about that which is patently false.
 
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Data is not "science;" your contention is not "science;" "science" is never settled; and, "science" is not truth no matter your implication to the contrary

Data IS science or rather results in scientific conclusions about populations when the same experiments give the same results over and over and over again.

Same sex marriage is rare only because it's been illegal for so long.

Remember that surveys of personal opinions are far different from measuring actual sexual physiological response to an image.

Again one can have an opinion about their blood pressure which is meaningless until it's actually measured.

There is a difference between the physiology of sexual attraction and social/cultural conventions about sex and the popular opinions to which they give rise.