How is it to be not 100% Straight as a Man?

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Why do I say I'm 99% straight 1%gay?
Because I can admire the aesthetics of a nice male body. Some people might call it envy, if you will. But I can look at a male body and think "damn! That is one great looking specimen! I wish I had a body/cock like him".
I honestly don't buy that whole macho talk of "I don't look at other men". If a guy is able to tell if another man is ugly, then he has a sense of beauty and is also able to tell when another guy is handsome. That doesn't necessarily make you want to fuck the handsome guy straight away, these are two different things.
But yes, I have seen some men (or even just some dicks) that made me think "Wow, if I was a woman, I would want that dude all over me".
Now, appart from that, other men simply don't do it for me. I don't get aroused by men. I've tried camming with other men, for instance, and it just doesn't work. Gimme a pair of nice tits on cam though, and I'll get hard as a rock.
I've worked at a hotel for a while and the walls are paper thin. So it was inevitable to listen to the occasional moans comming from inside the rooms. Hearing a woman's moans was arousing. Hearing a man moan simply put me off.

I've had lots of men online trying to convice me that I should let a man give me oral, and that they are much better at it than women.
Although I don't doubt it, I can't dettach the mouth from the person. I need boobs, I need the thin waist, I need the curves, the soft hairless skin, the soft face features, the soft voice, the lack of facial hair. THAT is what attracts me. If it was just for the mouth, I migh as well just go to a gloryhole. But then it wouldn't really mind if it's a man's mouth, a woman's mouth, or pumpkin with a whole carved in it.

So, yes, as many have said before, I also don't thing you can "turn" this or that. People are born gay and/or straight (in whichever percentage). Then, education comes and it might, or might not, limit the way they will express those percentages.
 

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Thank You from the bottom of my heart, to that wonderful explanation and answer!

I truly can see the points you mentioned and this thread makes a lot of sense to me.

I thank you too, that You tell also, yes men and women are different, not only from body, but also from the soul/heart but women are not only the BAD ones!
Until now, all I heard how great men are and felt any man here wants to shoot all women, for how we are.

Love this thread so much thank you!
I think i like the “bad girls”…. Men seem to think they want to marry a “good girl” but most of us actually lust after the “bad girl”…. Thats days more bad about men, then Anything bad about women. We like the idea of the virgin, but actually want a whore…. We are the confused ones.
 
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I think i like the “bad girls”…. Men seem to think they want to marry a “good girl” but most of us actually lust after the “bad girl”…. Thats days more bad about men, then Anything bad about women. We like the idea of the virgin, but actually want a whore…. We are the confused ones.

i truly like what you say here, I see it the same but still think most men don’t see it like you
 
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Why do I say I'm 99% straight 1%gay?
Because I can admire the aesthetics of a nice male body. Some people might call it envy, if you will. But I can look at a male body and think "damn! That is one great looking specimen! I wish I had a body/cock like him".
I honestly don't buy that whole macho talk of "I don't look at other men". If a guy is able to tell if another man is ugly, then he has a sense of beauty and is also able to tell when another guy is handsome. That doesn't necessarily make you want to fuck the handsome guy straight away, these are two different things.
But yes, I have seen some men (or even just some dicks) that made me think "Wow, if I was a woman, I would want that dude all over me".
Now, appart from that, other men simply don't do it for me. I don't get aroused by men. I've tried camming with other men, for instance, and it just doesn't work. Gimme a pair of nice tits on cam though, and I'll get hard as a rock.
I've worked at a hotel for a while and the walls are paper thin. So it was inevitable to listen to the occasional moans comming from inside the rooms. Hearing a woman's moans was arousing. Hearing a man moan simply put me off.

I've had lots of men online trying to convice me that I should let a man give me oral, and that they are much better at it than women.
Although I don't doubt it, I can't dettach the mouth from the person. I need boobs, I need the thin waist, I need the curves, the soft hairless skin, the soft face features, the soft voice, the lack of facial hair. THAT is what attracts me. If it was just for the mouth, I migh as well just go to a gloryhole. But then it wouldn't really mind if it's a man's mouth, a woman's mouth, or pumpkin with a whole carved in it.

So, yes, as many have said before, I also don't thing you can "turn" this or that. People are born gay and/or straight (in whichever percentage). Then, education comes and it might, or might not, limit the way they will express those percentages.

loved to read your explanation and it was great to hear, a man for the first time too to admit that he can see beauty in another man and still not want it.
same here with me, I can see a beautiful woman and think, she has great breast or nice body but it not turns me on to go there, I need and want a man!
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I listed myself as 90% straight/10% gay which feels about right. I've never lusted after a guy when just walking around about my day, but I'll definitely notice a woman and want to take a second glance. And I still prefer to be in relationships with women. However, a few years back I also learned that I definitely get very turned on by men if things head that direction once I'm already horny. For example, if I was watching porn I sometimes will just see the cock and think to myself that that's what I'm looking for on that night lol. But I have to already have been horny. Just seeing an attractive guy won't get me to that place of excessive horniness if that makes sense.
 
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I'm not reading this entire thread, so I have no idea what was said. But you can't "turn" someone gay or bi. While most straight men have no desire to be with a guy, for others, a mouth is a mouth. They are no less attracted to a man then they are a fleshlight. They are not having any deep profound epiphany's about their life and sexuality after the deed. It's just a release that is 10000 better than their hand. Simple as that.

And for a small sect of straight guys, it's a power and dominance kink. To reduce a gay/bi man to his more basic desires, with aggressive, offensive (consensual) name calling as he feeds his "f word" (and I don't mean fuck) his seed.
 
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I listed myself as 90% straight/10% gay which feels about right. I've never lusted after a guy when just walking around about my day, but I'll definitely notice a woman and want to take a second glance. And I still prefer to be in relationships with women. However, a few years back I also learned that I definitely get very turned on by men if things head that direction once I'm already horny. For example, if I was watching porn I sometimes will just see the cock and think to myself that that's what I'm looking for on that night lol. But I have to already have been horny. Just seeing an attractive guy won't get me to that place of excessive horniness if that makes sense.
So sweet of your answer, and thank You for your honesty. I know, lot of men told me I am rude and awful to ask that, still wonder why.

that is nice that you say, you are into women but also attracted to men. Maybe still little bit turned
 
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I'm not reading this entire thread, so I have no idea what was said. But you can't "turn" someone gay or bi. While most straight men have no desire to be with a guy, for others, a mouth is a mouth. They are no less attracted to a man then they are a fleshlight. They are not having any deep profound epiphany's about their life and sexuality after the deed. It's just a release that is 10000 better than their hand. Simple as that.

And for a small sect of straight guys, it's a power and dominance kink. To reduce a gay/bi man to his more basic desires, with aggressive, offensive (consensual) name calling as he feeds his "f word" (and I don't mean fuck) his seed.
Thank You too for Your honesty! I appreciate that really, and even lot of men here called me I’m an Idiot to ask something like that.

i have a man here, he said that to me, 100% Gay, but my body (!!!!!!) makes him wish, to do things with me, he never wanted……..

you not need to believe me, I am call myself as a normal curvy milf, nothing special! But seems maybe there is more to know.

and your answer makes lot of things clear

thank You! IMG_6718.jpeg
 

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Thank You too for Your honesty! I appreciate that really, and even lot of men here called me I’m an Idiot to ask something like that.

i have a man here, he said that to me, 100% Gay, but my body (!!!!!!) makes him wish, to do things with me, he never wanted……..

you not need to believe me, I am call myself as a normal curvy milf, nothing special! But seems maybe there is more to know.

and your answer makes lot of things clear

thank You! View attachment 105359121
~You're not a normal curvy milf, you're a sexy as hell curvy milf that gives me raging boners and feel a great need to jump on a plane to Switzerland to get to know your body up close. :D
 
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~You're not a normal curvy milf, you're a sexy as hell curvy milf that gives me raging boners and feel a great need to jump on a plane to Switzerland to get to know your body up close. :D
And Now I’m again blushing and be flattered
 
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Thank You too for Your honesty! I appreciate that really, and even lot of men here called me I’m an Idiot to ask something like that.

i have a man here, he said that to me, 100% Gay, but my body (!!!!!!) makes him wish, to do things with me, he never wanted……..

you not need to believe me, I am call myself as a normal curvy milf, nothing special! But seems maybe there is more to know.

and your answer makes lot of things clear

thank You! View attachment 105359121
Gave me an erection
 
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I'm not reading this entire thread, so I have no idea what was said. But you can't "turn" someone gay or bi. While most straight men have no desire to be with a guy, for others, a mouth is a mouth. They are no less attracted to a man then they are a fleshlight. They are not having any deep profound epiphany's about their life and sexuality after the deed. It's just a release that is 10000 better than their hand. Simple as that.

And for a small sect of straight guys, it's a power and dominance kink. To reduce a gay/bi man to his more basic desires, with aggressive, offensive (consensual) name calling as he feeds his "f word" (and I don't mean fuck) his seed.
Agreed with the first statement. Will only amend the second to replace "most straight men" with "no straight men" to respect the definition of "straight."
 
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Agreed with the first statement. Will only amend the second to replace "most straight men" with "no straight men" to respect the definition of "straight."
Im still not convinced that isn’t possible to turn! I think for all you it is ok, to „turn“ a 100% straight man to a cock loving man, but oh noooo not the other way round!


as I told before, yes it happens this way too! I got the f*****ing proof!
 
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Thank You too for Your honesty! I appreciate that really, and even lot of men here called me I’m an Idiot to ask something like that.
i have a man here, he said that to me, 100% Gay, but my body (!!!!!!) makes him wish, to do things with me, he never wanted……..

you not need to believe me, I am call myself as a normal curvy milf, nothing special! But seems maybe there is more to know.

and your answer makes lot of things clear

thank You! View attachment 105359121
Thank you for sharing that image. I am humbled that my response elicited such a response from you. If you ask me, you are stunning. You're curvy, you have amazing, large, boobs, and just... wow. Not sure what to make of the gay person who said what they said to you but one thing is for certain -- he knows beauty when he sees it. You are very much way higher on the totem pole than you perceive yourself. Whatever man you give your affections to, is very... fortunate.
 
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Thank You too for Your honesty! I appreciate that really, and even lot of men here called me I’m an Idiot to ask something like that.

Thank you for sharing that image. I am humbled that my response elicited such a response from you. If you ask me, you are stunning. You're curvy, you have amazing, large, boobs, and just... wow. Not sure what to make of the gay person who said what they said to you but one thing is for certain -- he knows beauty when he sees it. You are very much way higher on the totem pole than you perceive yourself. Whatever man you give your affections to, is very... fortunate.
Oh dear,thank you again for this wonderful honesty.
And all these great compliments. I am honoured!
 
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Im still not convinced that isn’t possible to turn! I think for all you it is ok, to „turn“ a 100% straight man to a cock loving man, but oh noooo not the other way round!


as I told before, yes it happens this way too! I got the f*****ing proof!
It is certainly the dream of many gay men to turn a straight man and that dream borders on obsession for some. But wishing fervently that something is true does make that something true. If any straight man is possible of being "turned" then what do we call the straight men who never experienced homosexuality? Are they simply men who died before being turned? And if that is the case, then what do we call straight men who never desired to experience homosexuality and never did? Do we call them homophobic, narrow-minded, and resistant to new experiences, just because they have such a preference? Or do we just ignore the possibility that some men -- by the data the vast majority of men -- are straight and never want to be turned and never will be turned?
 
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It is certainly the dream of many gay men to turn a straight man and that dream borders on obsession for some. But wishing fervently that something is true does make that something true. If any straight man is possible of being "turned" then what do we call the straight men who never experienced homosexuality? Are they simply men who died before being turned? And if that is the case, then what do we call straight men who never desired to experience homosexuality and never did? Do we call them homophobic, narrow-minded, and resistant to new experiences, just because they have such a preference? Or do we just ignore the possibility that some men -- by the data the vast majority of men -- are straight and never want to be turned and never will be turned?
But the point of Marilyn’s post is that gay men can also be turned straight. Your argument presupposes there is such a thing as an immutable “gay” and immutable “heterosexual”. That’s a highly contentious concept. Straight men sometimes have sex with men but are not gay and don’t go on to be gay. They anre physically able to respond sexually to stimulus. Equally men with no interest in men can develop that at a later point of their lives. Were they always in denial? “Gay” men have gone on to develop relationships with women. Were they always just “bi” and didn’t know it?
Human sexuality is far more grey and actually changeable. Fluid. The Concept of two sexual polarities is a very modern one and not particularly secure as a definition. That a gay man or a straight man can physically respond to the opposite can be shown. The world just isn’t as neat as you like to think.
 
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But the point of Marilyn’s post is that gay men can also be turned straight. Your argument presupposes there is such a thing as an immutable “gay” and immutable “heterosexual”. That’s a highly contentious concept. Straight men sometimes have sex with men but are not gay and don’t go on to be gay. They anre physically able to respond sexually to stimulus. Equally men with no interest in men can develop that at a later point of their lives. Were they always in denial? “Gay” men have gone on to develop relationships with women. Were they always just “bi” and didn’t know it?
Human sexuality is far more grey and actually changeable. Fluid. The Concept of two sexual polarities is a very modern one and not particularly secure as a definition. That a gay man or a straight man can physically respond to the opposite can be shown. The world just isn’t as neat as you like to think.
Yes you understood me, thank you so much for your answer and better English! It’s exactly what I feel and think.
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