How long b4 u cum? what do girl expect?

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  1. martizjon

    martizjon New Member

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    Hi there, i guess this is for guys and girls, How long does it take before u cum during sex? i range from a couple of mins to 30mins+ but most of the time its about 5mins.

    and girls whats the minimum a guy needs to last to make it "worth your while"?
     
  2. D_Ireonsyd Jacknov

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    This one all depends on the mood and situation for me. It usually takes about 10-15 minutes, but can sometimes last 30+min. If the mood is right I will cum multiple times and go as long as she can handle it.
     
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    From my understanding, the two questions ("how long before you cum?" and "what do girls expect?") are likely to yield to very different answers.
     
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    well can u answer the 1st question then?
     
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    Can't say what girls expect. All i know is it can range for me depending on the woman and the mood we're in. anywhere from 5 min if she needs a quicky to 60+ if we're in the mood.
     
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    I've always had a bit of a problem cumming (getting better now and mentioned in other threads) and can happily fuck for hours with a few 5-10 minute breaks. Some women i've known love this while others would like me to hurry up and finish which only makes it harder for me to cum. These days i'm with a woman who would rather fuck for 5-10 minutes and then do it again half an hour later (maybe with a longer session later if we have loads of time and she's really turned on) and likes to be fucked very hard and fast. These days it's mostly 5-10 minute sessions, some ending with non-ejaculating semi-orgasms which usually means sex again 5-20 minutes later. Usually filling her with spunk on the second or third fuck.

    The cool thing is that while i'm never holding back i'm also never desperate to cum. I think this makes me a pretty good fuck and also makes it more fun than me. I'm never having to think about something else to keep from cumming, i'm always 100% into the moment.

    That said, I wish I was the kind of guy who could cum 10 times a night and leave a woman stuck to the sheets in the morning...
     
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    A ten- to thirty-minute encounter would be like hors-d'oeuvres instead of a full meal. But I'm a weirdo.
     
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    If I pump the woman slow and gently or she is the one on top, I would not cum at all.

    Now if I pump her very deep, fast and hard, I can cum in 15 minutes.
     
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    Depends what I want to get out of it:

    -Slow gentle fuck (or)
    -Furious shag and cum

    Hahaha
     
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    Oh, Bbucko. Great minds screw alike.
     
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    Nowadays I cannot cum in less than five minutes minimum but could keep going without cumming almost indefinitely if we're both in the mood ...
    I don't know about women though - How long does it take a woman to cum?
     
  12. Jason

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    There are some figures on the net somewhere about this - based on one or more proper studies with a third party doing the timing. But I can't find it! Anyone got good google skills? The time is from "penetration to ejaculation", so excludes foreplay. From memory the average is way, way shorter than the sort of times guys describe in this sort of thread.
     
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    Question: For the guys that take awhile to orgasm, or can't cum unless sex is fast and hard . . do you think masturbation has any effect on that? I'm curious because an ex told me he had trouble orgasming but figured it was due to all the rough masturbation from sticking around in a long distance relationship for 5+ years (yes, loyally). Once we were involved and the masturbation stopped (or at least drastically decreased), he was a different animal altogether.
     
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    Info was gathered by the Kinsey report. There is an accessible statement of results on Wikipedia at Human sexual response cycle - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    How long b4 u cum - the question of this thread is defined as from intromission to ejaculation and almost half of men report under 5 mins, with just 1/5th claiming over 10 mins. This is from self-reporting (so could reasonably be expected to be on the boastful side) - I've seen data somewhere from actually observed sex which gave significantly shorter times. Also of course it is age related - an 18 year old is going to be quicker. I think the figure is something like 90 seconds average at age 18, but I can't find it. And average means 50% are faster.

    For all the guys on here who last much longer that's great, and we all know there are guys who can last. But I think it is important to point out that the average is much, much shorter than posts in a thread like this (or the average porno) suggests, and guys shouldn't get hung up about not lasting. Indeed extreme duration may be a result of nature or practice, but it can also be through the influence of alcohol, drugs, prescription medicines or illness.

    The same Wiki page reports that while 80% of men cum in under 10 mins, only 6% of men believe they should cum in under 10 mins - about a third feeling that they should last until she orgasms. 76% of women believe a man should last until she orgasms or for 30+ minutes. There's a lot of male low self-esteem tied up in these figures - as well as unrealistic expectations by women.
     
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    Interesting.

    I taught myself to edge (delay orgasm) by masturbating, mostly to increase the feeling when I eventually did cum. It has now become my means of sexual expression and feel less than fulfilled with shorter than at least a couple of hours.

    Of course there are breaks and tempo shifts. I cannot imagine any pleasure for a woman or bottom just getting pounded hard for hours, unless s/he was under the influence of a "party" drug like meth.
     
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    Well I have reasonable control of the pc muscle so I can cum in about 1 minute or last it out for 45mins but Im kinda selfish so tend to keep it to like 15mins. Get the right guy tho and an hour or so can go by.
     
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    I know every1 is going to scoff at me but i had a "disorder" called post mature ejaculation or retarded ejaculation so i can keep it hard as long as i want sometimes even an hour or two if she wants. But my wife is so good i also cum when shes on top!
     
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    Interesting, and thank you for posting this. I know *I* sure feel better about myself now...I'd been kinda worried that about five to ten minutes is my average. I *have* gone much, MUCH longer, but it's the exception and not the rule. More often than not I'm just kinda like "OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMGpussypussypussypussypussyyessssssssssssss" and it's over in like six minutes lol. Right after some of those times, I kinda wish I didn't love it QUITE so much lol.
     
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    80% of men squirt in under 10 minutes? HA! That's so pathetic!:lmao:

    It takes me anywhere from 10-60 minutes, depending on a variety of factors. Does she have a tight or loose pussy is #1, then things like what positions we fuck in. It also matters if she's good looking or if she's ugly enough that I only want her for sex and don't want to be seen with her in public.

    I have trouble cumming when she's on top, but it has happened a long time ago.

    I would love to find a girl whose pussy is so good that I routinely cum in 10 minutes or less, believe it or not.
     
  20. ben11

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    If I start out slowly for a few minutes I can get inot a zone where I have complete control over my orgasm. Once there, I can fuck slow or hard and I don't come until I want to. Those type of orgasms are my favorite because I can make it build up slowly and then when I come it is intense and lasts a long time.

    The one position that can challenge my control is from behind as the sensation from that position feels just amazing to me.

    If the woman I am with has already come a few times, I may stop for a while and then start again.

    I was recently with a women 28 years younger than me. I usually have stuck with women more my age. Though she acted like she had been around the block since she had screwed several Division I football studs, they all must have had hair triggers since she admitted that no guy had lasted more than 5 minutes.
     
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