how long can you last

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With constant pounding, I can finish in ~5mins, but I have some worries about this... I had some discussions on this topic with my partner and sometimes they don't mind, but sometimes they wish it would've lasted longer..

How can I fix this? Is there any way of lasting much longer?

(The issue here began when I was younger, and when I discovered the pleasure caused by masturbation. I had to get off quickly before my parents came home, and ever since then, it continued to be like this. Now, I'm worried about the effects on my sex life. I've never asked for help about this until now)
 
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The Kinsey Report looked at this and found three-quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters.

Men are not using a stop watch when fucking (presumably) but five minutes is well above average.
 

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what pill? viagra is only for getting hard it dont make u last longer
I prolly jerk off too much. When I take it, yea... it's rock hard and for some reason affects how quickly I cum. Maybe my age has something to do with it.
 

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I can't think of a time I just fucked straight thru till I came. There's always at least one if not two position changes. Maybe it's an age thing. But we tend to go for 10-15 mins with breaks.

Let's not forget the saying: It now takes me all night long to do what I used to do all night long! :laughing:
 

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It depends on the mood.. sometimes a quick fuck for just 5 minutes, other times I manage to last much longer... 30min or so.. If the feeling is good but doesnt get you over the edge it feels great.. the kegel excersizes helped me to postpone cumming too soon...
sometimes using a numbing lube helps to last longer too....
 

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Anything over a minute would be a long time for me. I’m mostly done around the 30 second mark or sooner
Same here. 15 seconds to blast off is not unusual for me. Sometimes the thing is firing off as I'm pulling down my briefs. It's all good, though, because my partner loves the sight of a hair-trigger dude wound up tight as a clock and so horny he can't stand it. I'm totally into hair-trigger guys as well, especially guys with no refractory period. Like being 15 all over again.
 
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Same here. 15 seconds to blast off is not unusual for me. Sometimes the thing is firing off as I'm pulling down my briefs. It's all good, though, because my partner loves the sight of a hair-trigger dude wound up tight as a clock and so horny he can't stand it. I'm totally into hair-trigger guys as well, especially guys with no refractory period. Like being 15 all over again.
Unfortunately my refractory period is really long. When I cum I’m basically done for the day