Mine wife can hold on as long as her memory lasts.
She can quote chapter and verse of arguments from 40 years ago, with astonishing clarity and accuracy.
As a man, it scares the living shit out of me.
My girl can do the same thing, and it scares the crap out of me too. And it's amazing how one little thing can unleash the avalanche. And whenever I try arguing with her, when I tell her that she does the EXACT same thing that is pissing her off about me, her response is "whatever" or "don't play that reverse psychology crap on me" or "it's fine, it doesn't matter". Truly lovely. Then she tells me that you can do a million nice things but the bad stuff will always stay longer. It drives me bonkers, but so does so much else of what she does. It's not healthy. A guy shouldn't want to feel like saying these things about his girl.
But I won't single out girls for this problem, I know men who will too, it's just less common.