How Long Do You Have To Wait Before You Cum Again?

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Nowdays it's a long time, unfortunately. A couple days ago I'd just finished fucking my hot FWB, shortly after which he began sucking and stroking me. Apparently he was in the mood for round 2 right away, but it just didn't happen. In my 30s I still had a pretty long refractory time, but there were exceptions. Fucked my boyfriend twice in about 15 minutes, and one time stayed inside him after round 2, never fully flaccid, and resumed thrusting and we both came again in about 10 minutes. Good times!
 

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Nowdays it's a long time, unfortunately. A couple days ago I'd just finished fucking my hot FWB, shortly after which he began sucking and stroking me. Apparently he was in the mood for round 2 right away, but it just didn't happen. In my 30s I still had a pretty long refractory time, but there were exceptions. Fucked my boyfriend twice in about 15 minutes, and one time stayed inside him after round 2, never fully flaccid, and resumed thrusting and we both came again in about 10 minutes. Good times!
that is impressive! second time is never as good as the first anyway lol
 

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While I never had a true multiple orgasm, but if I was to turn the clock back about 25 -30 years, my refractory time would be a mere minute or two; so short I would stay semi-hard till I started again. While I never really counted how many times in a row I wanked, but more than once it would be until I was either dry or raw, whichever came first.

Nowadays, the best I've been able to achieve is to come again within a half hour minimum and for a maximum of twice, but that would require me being really, really horny as well as perhaps whatever herbal cocktail I have found is most effective. During these rare events I have always surprisingly found that while the second ejaculation is of course less, the orgasm is actually more intense.

But at this point in my life, 99.99 % percent of the time I will not have another orgasm till two days later, although less often it might be either as soon as the next day or as much as three. Unlike back in the day, the desire and ability is no longer there for anything more frequent.
 
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Maybe 10 minutes after I cum the first time. But if it's a long session with multiple fucks, the time gap gets longer. It's also a psychological thing — if I'm so turned on that I want to cum again and again and again — then it's a different ball game. I was with a buddy a couple of days ago, and I shot three loads into him — we had the whole afternoon but those fucks were good enough for both of us, especially the third one because we made it last.
 

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It depends for me. Typically between the first and second it may be 10-15. The third is usually a longer time to cum but faster to get hard. Fourth is anyone’s guess and will be a smaller load of course, but still a lot of pre cum .
 

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When I was in my 20's my dick stayed hard enough after cumming that I could keep fucking my partner and cum again in about 10 minutes. Now my penis goes softer but I can get it up again and cum again in maybe 15-20 minutes.
 

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If I'm really horny, or haven't had a fuck for a couple of days, after I've cum I don't 'loose it' (stay fully erect) and can go again after I've caught my breath - virtually straight away ...... third time takes up to a 10 minutes rest.
Time to first cum depends on 'activity' ---- 'love making' 10/15 minutes; 'pounding' some times less than 5 minutes.
First cum is very powerful and copious, some times almost 'painful' if I've been holding back.
Second cum anything up to 25/30 minutes, not as powerful/copious and longer lasting sensations.
Third cum, if they can 'take' it , over 45 minutes then sometimes I hardly cum at all and then I'm finished for at least an hour.
 
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If I'm really horny, or haven't had a fuck for a couple of days, after I've cum I don't 'loose it' (stay fully erect) and can go again after I've caught my breath - virtually straight away ...... third time takes up to a 10 minutes rest.
Time to first cum depends on 'activity' ---- 'love making' 10/15 minutes; 'pounding' some times less than 5 minutes.
First cum is very powerful and copious, some times almost 'painful' if I've been holding back.
Second cum anything up to 25/30 minutes, not as powerful/copious and longer lasting sensations.
Third cum, if they can 'take' it , over 45 minutes then sometimes I hardly cum at all and then I'm finished for at least an hour.
Same! You just described exactly how I am. If I haven’t come in a while I can come the first time, very powerfully, and stay hard and keep coming usually about five or 10 minutes later. If they can stand it I can usually keep fucking them After two. I stay hard for a while
 

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Now in my mid-60s, when my wife and I have sex, I'll usually cum in her pussy and then take care of business for her by licking her clit and eating my creampie, finger-fucking her, or using a dildo in her pussy while licking her clit. While that is her time and I've already been satisfied, she'll usually play with my cock and get me semi-hard again. A few weeks ago, this happened and after she had cum she wanted me inside of her again. So, naturally I obliged. She played with my balls and touched my taint while I was pumping her in missionary position. I swear that we fucked for another 30 minutes before I shot a pitifully small load - but a load just the same.

I guess overall my refractory period was something on the order of 45 minutes.

Frankly, it would usually take me a couple of hours to recover.