How Long Do You Last In Bed With Your Partner?

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I've been noticing lately that when I have sex with my girlfriend, it will take me 20 minutes to cum or even 30-40 with a handjob. Is this normal? Do you think this is a positive? How long do you usually last with your significant other?
 
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With my partner, or anyone I really have feelings for, I intentionally prolong the session by slowing down or stopping momentarily to prevent my cumming - sometimes for an hour or more - makes the session like edging and fucking at the same time. It's all about the journey, not the destination!
 
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From the time became sexually active, which was a long time ago , I deliberately started teaching myself to prolong cumming. Finally I had perfected putting of cumming until I had given my girl a good fucking. I have heard my wife tell her sister that I wear her ass out! I really enjoy fucking and make it last as long as I can. I do think controlling cumming is a good quality in a partner.
 

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In HS I was a Bit Quick. I learned to control myself with Mind Games. Now I can go WAY TOO long even though I want to Cum! It frustrates my Bride! She refuses to give oral because of my inability to cum in a short amount of time!
 
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I realized I didn’t answer the question. A norm for us from start to finish is 45-60 minutes. Sometimes maybe a little longer.
 
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In all honesty, I last as long as I want/need to. I worked on having good control of my erections and being able to hold off on ejaculating. I have heard of so many selfish lovers who blow their load and roll over that I didn’t want to be “that guy”.
 
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I can last a long time if engaged in anything other than actual fucking.
It is rare if I don't cum in less than 30 seconds and then it would be a couple of minutes at best.
I do have a very quick recovery time though.
 

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I go anywhere from 20 mins to an hour and a half
Same. Sometimes my wife and I finish at or near the same time, but sometimes I'll have to masturbate afterwards to get off. Then she'll usually "assist" me -- cup my balls, play with my chest hair and nipples, suck my cock, etc. -- and swallows my load when I cum. Occasionally I'll just do myself with her cuddling up next to me, going down on me at the finish.
 

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20-45 minutes is pretty typical for me. I can last a really long time, plus I make it my goal to get my partner to orgasm before I get mine. So I take as long as needed to get them to cum first. Seeing my partner orgasm pretty much tips me over my edge to my own orgasm which is bigger and more intense after having seen my partner’s orgasm.
 
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I've been noticing lately that when I have sex with my girlfriend, it will take me 20 minutes to cum or even 30-40 with a handjob. Is this normal? Do you think this is a positive? How long do you usually last with your significant other?
Actual penis in vagina and actual intercourse? These days with my wife, probably 5-10 minutes. When she's in the mood for position changes, I can extend that time, as we are pausing and the build up to orgasm is slowed down. The longest I've ever lasted in pure fucking, with continuous in-and-out was about 35-40 minutes. Every time I've lasted 20 minutes or more, the woman has mentioned getting a little bit sore (girth will do that) and asked me to change positions and to cum.

Now, a love-making session has always lasted way longer that penis-in-vagina time, as there is kissing, cuddling, and foreplay.
In a previous relationship, she needed lots of warm-up time so 30 minutes of foreplay and oral was our normal, before my cock even entered her vagina.
 

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I've been noticing lately that when I have sex with my girlfriend, it will take me 20 minutes to cum or even 30-40 with a handjob. Is this normal? Do you think this is a positive? How long do you usually last with your significant other?
That's somewhat "better"/longer than average.
 
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Me about 10-15 minutes my boyfriend usually bit longer.