how long do you last

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Unfortunately I am in the same boat as you. My wife and I have opted to making love without intercourse at this point. Lots of vibrator use on her with dildo and finger penetration, and then she gives me amazing blowjobs after we have exhausted her.
 

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Generally about 2-5 minutes. Not really long tbh. Though if I stop myself from cumming and stop till the feeling of impending ejaculation goes away I can last upwards to 15-20 mins. If my girl (well, ex/fwb) takes control, then basically 2 or so minutes. Though if I tell her I am close and she doesn't want me cumming she can slow down/stop and edge me longer as well.
 
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I’ve not had penetrative sex with anyone yet, for personal reasons and due to spending much of my youth coming to terms with my attraction to men.

If I’m masturbating I can go as long as I want by switching between techniques, but if I’m using my pocket pussy, the constant head stimulation really makes it hard to last. I can go 5 mins or less on that if I don’t take frequent pauses. Trying to improve over time though.
 

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I don't enjoy or engage in anal sex myself (I'm a side), but just love getting blown. My ex used to blow me frequently, and as good as it felt (he was amazing at it!), I still took forever to finish. It was heaven to me the whole time, I wasn't bored or anything nor was I intentionally holding back from cumming, it just takes a lot of time to get there. If I'm by myself, I can get it done in a couple of minutes though.
 

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Sometimes it's from two to five minutes, but I've always had good control. My gf loves an extended fuck that allows her to cum more than once before I shoot my load. When topping in anal, I always want to it to last. I use a german lube that is awesome. very slippery that helps me to go balls deep. And it lasts forever and won't go sticky
 
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I remember those quickie nights and now I am older it usually last 10 to 15 minutes. She loves it now , because now she cums also.
 
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Frankly, as I've aged, I can last longer. Also, if wearing a cock ring, I can last up to an hour. She, however, is spent for weeks if we go that long.
 

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Guys i was wondering if you have not cum for a couple of days how long do you last having penetration? I am always quick most times under 1 min
It depends. Before being married, I use to try for longer sessions, like 45-60 minutes. But I realized it was too long for my wife to handle my size. I try and target 15-25 minutes now. 10-15+ mins of foreplay to start. Some of it is her taking the size for time and some of it is married with kids and tired and don’t have tons of time anymore.

if you are having trouble lasting, I do think the ole knock one out theme works. Take the edge off and the pressure off. Also, I have taken viagra like 10 times and that seems to make me last longer. My final thing is just cum and keep going. Honestly, take the stress off yourself. Cum and just keep going and your cock will come back. Or have her suck you back up.
 
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I could go for about 2 hours but that usually leaves my partner in a puddle. Most of the time 45 mins is a great session.