How Long Do Your Erections Last?

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Hi guys,

How long do your erections last?

I've posted about potential ED (waiting for a follow up appt) and my erections last about a minute, or two at max. Pathetic and not good enough for sex.


I'm assuming this is not normal?
 
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Hi guys,

How long do your erections last?

I've posted about potential ED (waiting for a follow up appt) and my erections last about a minute, or two at max. Pathetic and not good enough for sex.


I'm assuming this is not normal?
Mine can be a minute, can be hours. Absolutely a mind game with me. Any hint there's no point to this & it's gone, but if breeding is a slight possibility it aint going anywhere even if I want it to.

I would suggest you think about the mental aspect of it while waiting for the physical tests results. If physical is fine, it may be you're bored, or you've taught yourself through quick j/o sessions that "sex" is only a minute or two long. It may be you need to take some 'time off' & then come back to your cock in a completely different manner. Of course the best answers are from a trained professional, so see what your tests tell you, but think about any possible non-physical things going on too. Good Luck!
 

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I agree with what the others have said, its a pretty wide range. I typically find that as long as there is some physical stimulation I will stay hard until I cum, and in some cases even after that. If I got hard without physical stimulation and don't start any stimulation then it could vary from minutes to a much longer period of time. I can't really predict how long I might stay hard in those scenarios.
 

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Hi guys,

How long do your erections last?

I've posted about potential ED (waiting for a follow up appt) and my erections last about a minute, or two at max. Pathetic and not good enough for sex.


I'm assuming this is not normal?
You dont say how old you are but i havent had an erection last long enough for sex since my early 50's. Even morning wood, when i get it, is gone as soon as i move.
 

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60 here. Had broken mine penis twice. First time more than 10 years ago. Operation for to empty the blood in the swells. Gave me an ED. Pumping to get hard.
Second time this year. The blood stays in the left swells. Talking with the doctor we decided not to operate. Pumping is no option anymore, even when operated. IT dont hurt.
 

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Hi guys,
How long do your erections last?
I've posted about potential ED (waiting for a follow up appt) and my erections last about a minute, or two at max. Pathetic and not good enough for sex.
I'm assuming this is not normal?
Like many other above, my erections can last from a minutes to as long as 30-40 minutes, as long as there is stimulation to keep me going.
If you can only stay erect for a minute or two with stimulation, and without climaxing, then you do have some form of erectile dysfunction. Talk to your doctor or even better a urologist.
 
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Very wide range depending on external factors. If I edge I can go hours. If I’m fucking, up to 45 minutes or so, and then go again. Until I cum really. Haven’t really lost an erection without cumming unless something has turned me off or I’ve cum once or twice again and am trying to get hard again.

It’s easy to lose if you are mentally off though as well. If you are in a rush, trying to put condoms on, worried in some way, on a nervous edge.... etc.
 
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When I was edged by a pro, he kept me erect for almost four hours — but that was a special situation.
I have good control so I can stay hard for more than 30 minutes when fucking or jerking off. If I'm fucking and cumming more than once, a cock ring will keep me hard for those fucks
 

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I'm testing without stimulation, and my erections only last a minute (or just a bit less). In fact, by the time I get a condom on and apply outer lube, I would probably lose it!
I don’t think mine even last a minute anymore.
 

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For me it varies depending on how turned on I am, I do stay hard till I orgasm when I’m with a woman and can last a long time. Do check with your dr if you think you are having issues. Nothing to be embarrassed about happens to many men.
 

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If you are having difficulty in maintaining an erection, you can take Tadalafil. It is an erectile dysfunction medication with a long duration of action. It has a duration of action of 36 hours. It helps men to last longer in bed. But, it is better to consult a doctor before taking this medication.
 

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As long as there's stimulation, it will stay hard until I cum. When I'm even sitting next to my girl I'll be rock hard and ready to go.
 

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If you are having difficulty in maintaining an erection, you can take Tadalafil. It is an erectile dysfunction medication with a long duration of action. It has a duration of action of 36 hours. It helps men to last longer in bed. But, it is better to consult a doctor before taking this medication.
Great drug. Can’t imagine what it was like for men and their partners before these medicines came about.