how long do your men last in bed

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  1. whatsup2

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    After talking with a few of my freinds the other day they were all boasting how they last 30-45 mins during sex all the time (intercourse). Personally i usally take between 15 and 25 minutes sometimes more, never really less unless i try. However, with every girl ive been with after like 30 mins or so she starts getting dry, having to go to the bathroom etc. What are you ladies experiences like
     
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    Most of the surveys I've read indicate that most men last a maximum of five minutes of penetrative sex. In my experience this isn't far wrong although my ex bf could go as long as he wanted to.
     
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    in general id say not long enough but yeah it can seem monotonous if it goes on for too long depending on the technique, obviously if you just bang away for 30 minutes its going to dry up and get sore.
     
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    just swallow 2-3 ultram and get ready to make fireworks!!! if i have used ultram hours before making love, normally even after over an hour, i still cant get off... it sucks for me, but great for my woman ;)
     
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    Just penetration ....

    First husband ... maybe 3 minutes
    Second husband ... maybe 30 seconds (and no foreplay either)
    One lover ... hours
     
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    First gay lover: 10-12 minutes
    Second lover: 4 hours
    Third lover: 15-30 minutes
     
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    They aren't allowed to stop until I tell them to. :biggrin1:
     
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    usually as long as he wants, tho I try desperately (with some successes) to make him lose control. :cool:
    and yeah, once I have had an orgasm unless I start getting hot again, it does tend to get dry and uncomfortable for both of us if it goes on too long. 15 minutes is plenty long enough of penetration for me in one go. :rolleyes::tongue:
     
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    i never "really" thought about it.
    but i am one of those guys...

    everything included, 52 minutes and 32 seconds.

    i like to give oral(10min)....i like to recieve oral(10min).
    i like to give and recieve oral simultaneously. >>>(30 minutes altogether)
    then i like her on top.(3min)
    then i like her from behind.(13min&32seconds)
    then i like finishiing missionary.(6min) (penetrative 22minutes&32 sec.)
    whilst kissing alot.:tongue:
    i am a bottom lip sucker...not bad but i love it.
     
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    Past lovers vary greatly - from 5mins to 5hours - both of which have advantages and drawbacks.

    Mr.B gets grumpy if sex lasts less than 1/2 hour and, so far, we've maxed eachother out at 36hours (without any sleeping - ah, e and speed, those were the days), but that did involve him cumming more than once, obviously. I honestly can't remember how long is his max before 1st cum, but the guy can edge for hours and hours. Normally it's me who runs out of steam first because orgasms tire me out - if he edges me too I last a lot longer.
     
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    After nearly 30 years of marriage and making sure I please my wife I can go for as long as is necessary. She now indicates when she's ready otherwise I can just go on.
     
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    I usually last somewhere between 30-60 minutes. Sometimes I will last longer than an hour but that's if the girl wants it slower the whole time. This is just how long the actual sex lasts and not including the foreplay. My first time I lasted about 10-15 minutes I would say.
     
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    Ask this woman.
     
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    He wants sex and she nukes soup? I'm surprised he didn't just go back to watching TV. lol
     
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    my ex's idea of a quicky was over an hour.

    got old real fast.

    must of them have been 30ish.
     
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    I like to edge, so my opinion may be skewed, but are you joking when you say ~5 minutes? :confused:
     
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    No that's allegedly the truth, I think that's why women are so keen on foreplay, we know once most men stick it in us it's not going to last long :)
     
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    I can usually keep it up as long as she wants and you cannot make me cum unless I want to.

    However whats the point? I want you to make me lose control and make me cum. Why fight it? If you want to be pumped for 2 hours OK but it seems self defeating to the whole act.
     
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    anywhere from 5 to 45 minutes... most of the time i prefer something like 15-20 minutes though
     
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    Allegedly being the key word....:smile:
     
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