How long does it take for a guy to be able to have sex agin?

[spitreaper]

Yeah it does suck, but every man is different. I am sure it bothered him too. However let me correct something, this man would get hard again and was able to perform, he just could not cum again. :frown1:

Im able to shoot the same volume 3 times a day.
Even if i wait a WHOLE week i still shoot the same volume.

 

[Kayden96]

My ability to have sex again and my desire to have sex again are to very different things. I like to shower after sex, and showering 3 times in one day is really hard on my skin. So, it's not something I'd do regularly.

Conversely, I'm currently lucky if I'm 'allowed' to have sex once a week. Even then that's late at night and after much ceremony. Sometimes sex is just too much fuckin work to bother with.

 

[lickme69]

Im able to shoot the same volume 3 times a day.
Even if i wait a WHOLE week i still shoot the same volume.

Wish I knew someone like you. :tongue:

 

[lickme69]

My ability to have sex again and my desire to have sex again are to very different things. I like to shower after sex, and showering 3 times in one day is really hard on my skin. So, it's not something I'd do regularly.

Conversely, I'm currently lucky if I'm 'allowed' to have sex once a week. Even then that's late at night and after much ceremony. Sometimes sex is just too much fuckin work to bother with.

Sounds like you need a new partner. :frown1:

 

[rbkwp]

Conversely, I'm currently lucky if I'm 'allowed' to have sex once a week. Even then that's late at night and after much ceremony. Sometimes sex is just too much fuckin work to bother with.



Your posts make me 'smile' so much Kayden
-but then again i feel so sorry for you .. at your young age.
Things will surely improve matey
Cheers
enz

 

[Kayden96]

Conversely, I'm currently lucky if I'm 'allowed' to have sex once a week. Even then that's late at night and after much ceremony. Sometimes sex is just too much fuckin work to bother with.

Your posts make me 'smile' so much Kayden
-but then again i feel so sorry for you .. at your young age.
Things will surely improve matey
Cheers
enz

Buy my house and cure my ills.

 

[Kayden96]

Sounds like you need a new partner. :frown1:

Tell me about it. If I want to have a quicky before bed she either complains I move too fast (quicky... duh?) or it's too late (you just lay there anyways goddamn...)

If I try to do all the things she requests to get her in the mood at an "acceptable" hour, she shrugs me off and says it's too early or she's too tired after work... Which I really don't fuckin get. I'm tired after work too, that's why I want to relax and feel better by having sex with her. I don't see how she can be too tired though... Her idea of foreplay is me doing what she wants for 20 minutes and then sex is her lying there while I move about. Is orgasming that laborious?

The bi-annual attempts she makes at initiating sex are aggravating because she only does things that she enjoys, but I have no interest in receiving. So, instead of trying the suggestions I make, she just goes away to pout. He idea of "teasing" before a bj is kissing my thighs for 10 minutes. After a minute or so, it's well past "teasing" and closer to "either put my dick in your mouth or let me put it in my pants, I'm fucking bored already."

I'm all about being an attentive lover and doing what feels good for her, but she makes it such a damn chore sometimes. Do this, now do that, and then this, Ok, now this... I'll go down on her for half an hour, she'll lick my dick and then tell me to put it in... the fuck?

I also think she's a mutant. It's almost always "that time" with her. I'm surprised she can even maintain consciousness with how much she claims to be bleeding. It is literally every other week for a week strait. One out of a hundred times, I might get a conciliation bj.

All-in-all, I'd swear she was cheating on me, but I honestly don't see where she has the time unless "I have to work late" means "I have to fuck the delivery guy in the cooler at work".

She says she's more likely to want sex if I don't ask for it. The weird thing is... it's fucking true. The moment I utterly ignore her and give up any hope/desire for sex, she'll be there waiting to suck me inside-out. Which is just further evidence in my case that women are just fucking insane.

TL;DR version-

She bitches about me wanting sex too soon or too late and doing not enough or too much foreplay. Conversely, he idea of foreplay bores me to tears and kills my desire for sex, like it's almost a job.



Why do I always wind up typing so much? I swear I only mean to say "yes" or "no".

 

[rbkwp]

ha Thanks Kayden fr the offer . .
but USA living is not on my agenda

What you COULD do tho is..
suggest to your wife ..you need a BREAK ..
fly to NZ and have a Months holiday on the Island i live on..all free
-maybe she will Come around..when you get back..ha

(btw..of course NO intimacy whilst over here is expected .. in return )
-true-100% str respected' fr sure.
enz
LOVE 'Prairie Home Companion' btw...yes' we get it here
all of 6 weeks over Xmas ..program filler - i suspect'
think / hope we are still 'on topic' OP

 

[reasorlloyd]

Here check this article out. The refractory period has to do with a male's prolactin levels. The lower the prolactin, the less of a refractory period. I use Caber and I really don't have a refractory period anymore. It's nothing to have 3-4 orgasms in the span of an hour and never go soft.

Sex and Cabergoline

 

[Kayden96]

ha Thanks Kayden fr the offer . .
but USA living is not on my agenda

What you COULD do tho is..
suggest to your wife ..you need a BREAK ..
fly to NZ and have a Months holiday on the Island i live on..all free
-maybe she will Come around..when you get back..ha

(btw..of course NO intimacy whilst over here is expected .. in return )
-true-100% str respected' fr sure.
enz
LOVE 'Prairie Home Companion' btw...yes' we get it here
all of 6 weeks over Xmas ..program filler - i suspect'
think / hope we are still 'on topic' OP

I can't quite figure out why, but I'm somewhat reticent to fly across the planet to stay on an island with a gay man I met on a forum about be penises...

Not that I wouldn't love a vacation.

 

[EboniGoddess]

I told him what some of ya'll said about how fast ya'll can get back up.......he laughed

I think next time a reasonable amount of time to wait is 30 minutes. I only give him a blow job the 1st time before we have sex (im scared it might taste like something so i make him take a shower beforehand). I suck him off (at first it would be till he got hard) but now till he just stops me to fuck. If there is a 2nd of third time i give him a handjob to get hard. Yesterday he said he wanted us to do more touching which would be fine.....but im not sure if fuck buddies do that sorta stuff. Are fuck buddies supposed to be so detailed with sex?

 

[rbkwp]

Acknowledging a post
is all thats required .. re communication
Love it..no matter the response...ha
Cheers
enz

 

[vince]

I have always found that it depends upon the man. Doesn't depend on size, age or anything. I once had a man that came and stayed in there and went for awhile and came again. Then I have run into men that once they cum they are done for the day.

I'm like that. If she says "Do it again, I want some more", it hardens right up again still inside her. In May I visited a gf and we did it 13 times between Friday night and Sunday morning. She's an accountant so she likes to keep track of these things!

 

[hud01]

So, me and my fuck buddy reconciled. Recently we had sex three times in one day. That was in the span of five hrs. I'm afraid I wont have that much time the next time we meet up so I was wondering how long does it take for a guy to be ready again after having sex.

He keeps saying getting hard has something to do with sperm count but as far as I know men get hard when blood flows to the penis. Please help me clear this up. I looked on the internet and didn't find anything

When I was 28-30 there were times where I wouldn't even pull out of my gf. We would just rock back and forth gently while kissing and within a couple of minutes I would be hard again and off to the races.

Now it takes me about 10 to 15 minutes on average to get hard again. If we are lying around all day not doing anything else 3-4 times a day, but I can't do that for more than 4 or 5 days in a row, then I have to calm down to 1 or 2 a day.

If I hold back for several days then I probably could do 5 or 6, but then it would be off to bed with me.

 

[lickme69]

Tell me about it. If I want to have a quicky before bed she either complains I move too fast (quicky... duh?) or it's too late (you just lay there anyways goddamn...)

If I try to do all the things she requests to get her in the mood at an "acceptable" hour, she shrugs me off and says it's too early or she's too tired after work... Which I really don't fuckin get. I'm tired after work too, that's why I want to relax and feel better by having sex with her. I don't see how she can be too tired though... Her idea of foreplay is me doing what she wants for 20 minutes and then sex is her lying there while I move about. Is orgasming that laborious?

The bi-annual attempts she makes at initiating sex are aggravating because she only does things that she enjoys, but I have no interest in receiving. So, instead of trying the suggestions I make, she just goes away to pout. He idea of "teasing" before a bj is kissing my thighs for 10 minutes. After a minute or so, it's well past "teasing" and closer to "either put my dick in your mouth or let me put it in my pants, I'm fucking bored already."

I'm all about being an attentive lover and doing what feels good for her, but she makes it such a damn chore sometimes. Do this, now do that, and then this, Ok, now this... I'll go down on her for half an hour, she'll lick my dick and then tell me to put it in... the fuck?

I also think she's a mutant. It's almost always "that time" with her. I'm surprised she can even maintain consciousness with how much she claims to be bleeding. It is literally every other week for a week strait. One out of a hundred times, I might get a conciliation bj.

All-in-all, I'd swear she was cheating on me, but I honestly don't see where she has the time unless "I have to work late" means "I have to fuck the delivery guy in the cooler at work".

She says she's more likely to want sex if I don't ask for it. The weird thing is... it's fucking true. The moment I utterly ignore her and give up any hope/desire for sex, she'll be there waiting to suck me inside-out. Which is just further evidence in my case that women are just fucking insane.

TL;DR version-

She bitches about me wanting sex too soon or too late and doing not enough or too much foreplay. Conversely, he idea of foreplay bores me to tears and kills my desire for sex, like it's almost a job.



Why do I always wind up typing so much? I swear I only mean to say "yes" or "no".

I cannot imagine being like this, except when I was married and I did not want him anymore and was not interested. Now I am the total opposite and actually want sex more now than my BF does. It does not matter how late I worked or how tired I am, I still want it. Sex should not feel like a chore.
It is funny how we get with people who tend to have a different idea about sex and how often they want it. Eh? :frown1:

 

[Symphonic]

Why worry about refractory period? Tell him to ejaculate a lot before you arrive; he will go all day / night.

 

[Symphonic]

Yesterday he said he wanted us to do more touching which would be fine.....but im not sure if fuck buddies do that sorta stuff. Are fuck buddies supposed to be so detailed with sex?

Why? You went from a legitimate concern to a dipshit. Ugh. Surprise, surprise.

 

[dongalong]

My most memorable night of sex was after eating spicy Chinese food in the restaurant, followed by a double helping of crystallized ginger. My recovery period was almost instantaneous all night, I came 3 times.

It depends on, mood, fatigue and diet.

 

[EboniGoddess]

I just want to fuck as many times as possible in a little amount of time. Is there something at a drug store i can buy?

 

[jeff black]

Mine depends on my mood.

If I'm horny, I can go like a machine.