How long does it take you to cum when having sex?

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question to the people that say that can last for an hour.. is it like an hour of a whole pounding away? O_O
I need to find these people lol

Pretty much. Except for the few seconds it takes to change positions. And I wouldn't say "pounding away" for an hour - but definitely thrusting. Sometimes vigorously, sometimes moderately, and sometime softly.


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It depends on the amount of foreplay and the mood.

I can still do a quickie in about 2 minutes after insertion. Depends on the situation. There are times when a quickie is fun. Then again, I can go for at least eleven minutes, which was the time frame yesterday A.M.
 

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Hey, I was just wondering how long do people in general take, just to compare with myself? I take about 15 minutes, sometimes a bit more.

It varies greatly.

What we have been doing before we start, how long we were in foreplay, my mood, my working at controlling and not cumming too fast.
 

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i have a "problem". i have yet to cum from a girl giving me ANY kind of sex. i have finish myself. no braggin or bullshit. but ive fucked for over 3 hours on more than one occasion. im usually told to stop cuz it hurts. im not big....i think the girls just got sore.
 

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Decreases the longer I'm with the same woman. Starts out taking forever (1 hour +) and unable to cum and usually decreases to 15-30 minutes, with me holding myself back for the last 5-10. This is especially true if the frequency of sexual activity diminishes over time with said partner.
 

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Unlike sbat, it increases the longer I'm with a woman. I've always cum pretty quickly with new ones but when I get into a relationship it's not so urgently exciting and I can last longer. I'm usually ready to cum after about 15 minutes though, I prefer to do that and fuck them again after a kiss and cuddle session rather than keeping going for longer.

With guys, the same idea applies, young ones I really fancy make me cum fairly soon. Guys of my own age get longer!
 

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Unlike sbat, it increases the longer I'm with a woman. I've always cum pretty quickly with new ones but when I get into a relationship it's not so urgently exciting and I can last longer. I'm usually ready to cum after about 15 minutes though, I prefer to do that and fuck them again after a kiss and cuddle session rather than keeping going for longer.

With guys, the same idea applies, young ones I really fancy make me cum fairly soon. Guys of my own age get longer!

I've simply had bad luck - girls that are one and done. If I come or they come, it's over for the night. My current has a very tight time frame of how long she likes it now that the original excitement has died down - usually between 15-30 minutes. When she's done, its over, and she gets extremely upset if I refuse to come at that point. So now my body knows that if it doesn't come in X minutes, it won't come at all.
 

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If I don't like or care about the person then it can take from an hour to never.

Once I get to caring about someone I can cum in five or ten minutes if I let myself.

I think this is because with a new girl I'm trying to impress her/show that I can last whereas when I've got to know someone I don't have anything to prove. Also I enjoy cumming with them. Usually with new people there's pressure to perform/cum on command/when they get tired/sore.
 

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like most people it is variable for me
usually quite awhile to be honest
I always thought great stamina was a bonus but that's not how women seem to actually think irl
 

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like most people it is variable for me
usually quite awhile to be honest
I always thought great stamina was a bonus but that's not how women seem to actually think irl

Funny how that works, init?