How long does it take you to cum

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  1. HotRod65

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    This is a question that never occurred to me until I came to this forum and started reading what others wrote, and chatting to a few people. It seems to me that there may be big variations in the way different men cum. I always wanted to get on with it because there were so many other things to be doing, which may be why I was no use as a lover to the women in my life. I decided a long time ago that masturbation was a whole lot more satisfactory for me.
    From a standing start, without even thinking about sex, I can go to the PC, look at some porn, work up a hard-on and cum in about five minutes flat......and really enjoy it. If I'm in a horny frame of mind, I could do it again in half an hour and then again later the same day. I consider this to be fairly good at 62. When I was younger, I was finished for 24 hours after the first time. If I'd had a wank and then my wife wanted sex later in the day, I'd have to turn her down.
    I'm getting the impression there are many men who take a whole lot longer to cum, maybe an hour or more of work. Is this the case or not ? If this is right, I've got to feel really lucky to be able to get so much pleasure so quickly with so little effort.
    Any comments ? :biggrin1:
     
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    20-30 for my first one. My second one takes about 45 mins. I usually only have to pause, but continue foreplay for about 5-10 minutes between orgasms before I can penetrate her again.

    On the other hand, sometimes she encourages me to cum quick the first time. Its hard to control yourself with a woman begging for your seed 5 minutes after you enter her. In general, if I focus on her, I stay a good long time. If I switch focus to myself, I can pretty much cum on demand.
     
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    At 62 thats pretty fuckin amazing. With a condom i can go from anywhere from 40 mins to 2 hrs. No condom about an hour tops. One thing I always thought was funny was how the guys who make videos having sex raw dog seem to last forever. Idk if they came already and are on second nut or if they just have monster endurance
     
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    It depends on how I get off. And my age. I take about ten to twenty minutes now, on my own, but in my twenties, I could do it in a minute. Certain guys could get me off in around 20 minutes back then by hand or mouth. Now, I wouldn't know..
     
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    The last girl I fucked for the first time, I cum in about 20 seconds!
     
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    As short or as long as i want, i think it's mostly in your head for the most part.
     
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    I can either rub one out in a couple of minutes, or edge for a few hours... it's up to me.
     
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    How long does it take me to cum?

    Way too short a time. =/
     
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    Hey guys, does 'duration' have anything to do how horny you are with the person you're with? Like if the person makes you really horny then you'd cum faster than with someone who doesn't make you quite as horny?

    Or is it all about skills and being able to control yourself?
     
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    For me, the person i'm having sex with counts a lot.
    I definitely cum much faster if it's a hot chick that makes me horny.
     
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    According to a university study I read recently, the average American lasts 5 minutes from the time of penetration to the time of orgasm. They claim the "60 minute man" is largely a myth! I suspect they are probably right..
     
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    I am not sure if it is because I jerk off so much (hmmm), or what, but sure seems to take me a while to cum. More than 30 minutes anyways . . . course I have had sex where I was so totally turned on, it seemed like mere minutes. I have only had two blow jobs where I have been able to cum from the mouth/lips & tongue on my cock. Otherwise, it has been a marathon for the person sucking my cock - not that I mind having my legs spread and my cock & balls played with for a long time !!! heh heh heh
     
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    if i'm using one hand 10 mins or more if i'm using 2 it'll usually take me under 5 mins unless i prolong it
     
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    A recent study of American women showed that the majority preferred intercourse to last between 7 and 13 minutes, and 3 minutes was better than 30. I have seen one study that was scientifically done, with the female partner timing intercourse duraction, and that gave an average intercourse time of 7 minutes for married couples. Other studies have shown that single men tend to last a shorter time, so the 5 minutes quoted above may not be far off the mark.

    In any case, our women typically don't like marathon sessions, my wife certainly prefers no longer than 10 minutes or so. Any longer and we both get sore from my girth, anyway.
     
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    Yeah, I'd have to agree with this. Anywhere between 30 seconds and a few hours, depending on lots of other factors.
     
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    It depends for me. Most of the time I just want to shoot my load and get on with whatever else I was doing and that can take about 5 minutes and that's with some sort of lube. Without lube, which I rarely do, I can go a good half an hour sometimes longer and even longer if I have an audience. :smile:
     
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    I was going to say it really depends on the girl
    but I have what most women call 'really good stamina'
    I don't like to brag but you can pm me for details ifyou want ladies : o )
     
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    My first is quick, sometimes too quick like 2 minutes. But I have almost immediate recovery and take 2 can go 5 minutes to a half. Hour or so, much more control. There are times that I go 10 minutes first time--drunk, less emotional attachment, or some other unexplained reason..
     
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    A looooooong time.
     
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    I never really thought it was as clear cut as it seem to be, I would have thought there were a number of fators that affects the time.... I thought that surely if you had been in a huge foreplay session for 2 hours then the sex would be pretty quick and less foreplay would extend the amount of time?? but then again I have a virgina not a penis......
     
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