How long does it take you to cum

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  1. FitLad

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    Am asking this question for a friend thats to embarrassed to ask himself on the forum and has asked me to ask (silly I know).
    "How long does it take you to cum" my friend says that it takes him about a hour or so (great for sex), not for having a wank. Is this normal for a few of the male population to have this to happen to them.
     
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    The time can vary greatly, anywhere from a couple of minutes to more then an hour. There are a lot of different factors that come into play in determining how long I or any guy will last.

    Some of the factors are physical, But even then there is always a huge mental component attached to every orgasm. Some things can make different guys cum a lot faster then others and every guy is different. For example I myself usually can last a very long time while being given oral, even with some of the very talented guys that I've been with. Yet a nice hot ass to fuck can get me to blow far too soon if I'm not careful. Yet I have been with a few guys where the exact opposite was true. They could fuck for nearly an hour yet I could have them blowing there load within a minute with oral.

    It's all about what turns you on the most. Perhaps your friend needs to do a little sexual exploration and experimentation and find out the things that get him going the most.
     
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    Extremely variable between people I think, so maybe normal but not most usual.
     
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    It depends on how horny I am and how I'm responding to the sex. How long I've been without orgasm will also play a part. But either way it's never less than half an hour or so. So I'd say between 30 and 60 minutes for me.
     
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    varies..... it can take a minute or two, if I'm in a hurry and need that release, or it can take me several hours if I edging.
     
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    ^what he said..
     
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    Why would I preten to be asking for someone else. /sign

    Thanks everyone else who replied, I have pass the thread address onto him so he can read all your replies.
     
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    OK pieter, when are you free ?:tongue:
     
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    I think my record in temrs of quickness, in terms of cumming from a blow job, is around 20 seconds from start to finish.

    The record for not cumming is pretty long. I've had a guy I didnt like suck me off for an hour before I made him quit and go home. I've also stopped having sex before I cum just to tease and prolong the horniness.
     
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    It depends for me. If I bottom it doesn't take long, but it's usually a huge load and it's usually more than one; depending on the top. If I just jo it takes a while, and that just depends on how long since the last time I cum.
     
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    It depends on how things are going. If I'm with a new woman, I can hold out for a while. If it's something fun and crazy, I can be a two pump chump. Thank god I can get hard soon after
     
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