How long does it take you to cum

[FitLad]

Am asking this question for a friend thats to embarrassed to ask himself on the forum and has asked me to ask (silly I know).
"How long does it take you to cum" my friend says that it takes him about a hour or so (great for sex), not for having a wank. Is this normal for a few of the male population to have this to happen to them.

 

[sandwulf]

The time can vary greatly, anywhere from a couple of minutes to more then an hour. There are a lot of different factors that come into play in determining how long I or any guy will last.

Some of the factors are physical, But even then there is always a huge mental component attached to every orgasm. Some things can make different guys cum a lot faster then others and every guy is different. For example I myself usually can last a very long time while being given oral, even with some of the very talented guys that I've been with. Yet a nice hot ass to fuck can get me to blow far too soon if I'm not careful. Yet I have been with a few guys where the exact opposite was true. They could fuck for nearly an hour yet I could have them blowing there load within a minute with oral.

It's all about what turns you on the most. Perhaps your friend needs to do a little sexual exploration and experimentation and find out the things that get him going the most.

 

[kalipygian]

Extremely variable between people I think, so maybe normal but not most usual.

 

[B_Demention]

It depends on how horny I am and how I'm responding to the sex. How long I've been without orgasm will also play a part. But either way it's never less than half an hour or so. So I'd say between 30 and 60 minutes for me.

 

[unabear09]

varies..... it can take a minute or two, if I'm in a hurry and need that release, or it can take me several hours if I edging.

 

[tyson24769]

varies..... it can take a minute or two, if I'm in a hurry and need that release, or it can take me several hours if I edging.

^what he said..

 

[FitLad]

We all know your talking about yourself just look at porno while you wank

Why would I preten to be asking for someone else. /sign

Thanks everyone else who replied, I have pass the thread address onto him so he can read all your replies.

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

you decide

 

[D_Relentless Original]

you decide

OK pieter, when are you free ?:tongue:

 

[deleted3782]

I think my record in temrs of quickness, in terms of cumming from a blow job, is around 20 seconds from start to finish.

The record for not cumming is pretty long. I've had a guy I didnt like suck me off for an hour before I made him quit and go home. I've also stopped having sex before I cum just to tease and prolong the horniness.

 

[FLbjbud]

It depends for me. If I bottom it doesn't take long, but it's usually a huge load and it's usually more than one; depending on the top. If I just jo it takes a while, and that just depends on how long since the last time I cum.

 

[NightFish]

It depends on how things are going. If I'm with a new woman, I can hold out for a while. If it's something fun and crazy, I can be a two pump chump. Thank god I can get hard soon after

 

[deleted1149543]

I usually cum fast. But my most recent hook up I cummed twice. The first time was hecka fast because it had been a while. But then we started messing around more and surprisily I lasted longer then usual.

 

[1273989]

I normally last 15 - 20 minutes but can easily last 30 - 35 if I try. I've lasted over an hour with edging and have blown in as little as 2 - 3 minutes when I first started having sex or even now on occasion if I'm really horny or turned on.

My experience is most girls complain after an hour with around 30 minutes ideal.

 

[davis0444]

As others have said, it varies widely, depending on whether I’m jacking off, getting sucked or fucking. How recently I’ve cum and how turned on I am by my partner also play a role. If I’m having a quick jack to relieve tension before bed, and I’ve been looking at porn for a while, I can cum in a couple of minutes. If I’m flip fucking with a man who likes extended sessions, I can go for an hour or more, switching from topping to bottoming. If I’m at a sex club and hold off cumming til later in the evening, sometimes I can’t cum at all. So many things factor in to it, and most of them are in my own head.

 

[BoxersguyNJ]

varies if I'm getting a blow job it takes me about 35 to 45 min to cum if I masterbate it takes about 10 min for me to cum all other ways vary

 

[Serpentlike]

If I make myself hurry, I can do it in ten minutes. I can resist for over an hour.

 

[ohiorod]

On average, about 35-45 minutes unless I am holding back.

 

[ImChuck]

When I masturbate and don't hold back I cum quickly... 10-15 seconds! I'm married and my focus is to postpone the climax - a big challenge for me.

 

[lowhangers]

It takes 5 till 10 minutes to come rock hard. Then we put on the cockring. Than 5 min max.