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I have known some people who have fabulous and right on work ethics, professionalism, and politics, and are right cunts in their personal lives.Societal pressure wouldn't make work ethic seem like a good trait for a lover, but poverty might. If you're broke and have trouble paying the bills, you might be interested in a guy who is able to hold down a job. If you want to start a family a guy with a strong work ethic might be more appealing to you as a provider and role model for your children.
That kind of cynicism just doesn't do it for me : / I could never let finances be a factor in whether I was in love with someone or not, and wanted to be in a relationship with them. I'm more likely to be put off by someone being considerably more wealthy than me because it would affect the power balance. I'm not for sale.
I am broke, but I'm quite happy at the moment. I have a rubbish job, but I'm meeting quite a few new people.