I've just had an interesting conversation with my gf. It turned out to be that, while I sometimes feel sorry for lasting too short, she's often troubled by it lasting too long. Very simple question then: when you have regular sex (not talking about special occasions), what's your favoured duration? I mean the actual act (penetration), foreplay excluded. ps; just to make clear that I have absolutely no intention of bragging about "too long performances" as reported by the gf, here "too long" meant just over 10 minutes. Not that much, I thought.