How long should great sex last?

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  1. theforbiddenfruit

    theforbiddenfruit New Member

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    Hello Everyone.

    Recently I have come to think that whilst men generally put a great deal of emphasis on size, there may be a lack on sexual thought and technique.

    This led me to my question. How long should great sex last?

    For there to be no confusion I mean actual penetration becasue a quicky can be a great thing and so can hours of foreplay (especially my personal favorite of giving going down on a woman.).

    I appreciate all your comments and feedback.

    Have a great day!

    Theforbiddenfruit
    7x6.3

    P.S for me actual penetration up to 45min
     
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    There's no correct answer to your question. If you're actually penetrating for 45 minutes that is a long time, but if it's not pleasing to her, then what good is it? When you're satisfied and she is as well, then that's an adequate amount of time.
     
  3. zaza

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    Its impossible to answer your question. I have had great sex that has not actually involved penetration at all.
     
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    Such an easy question: However long everyone is mutually enjoying the penetration.

    When you're done, or she's done, and it's still happening it's suddenly becomes "too long".
     
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    I agree with everyone...there is no right answer. I am blessed with a multipy orgasmic wife. I can make her cum 3 times in about 10 minutes. We usually cum simultaneously on the third one, which sometimes causes an "aftershock" and she will orgasm again. It's GREAT sex...about 10 minutes in duration.
     
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    I orgasm really easily with the right guy, so if it lasts too long I get exhausted from being so tensed up. It takes me literally less than a minute to orgasm with my boyfriend, and I eventually get to the point where I don't really think I stop orgasming until he's done, if the pace is good enough. So 15-20 minutes is ideal for me and I don't really like it to be longer than that. I'd rather have sex more often but for shorter periods of time (so a guy that can get hard again quickly is essential!). I should stop mentioning this at some point, but I also really like anal sex . . can't take it for nearly as long though, so 5-10 minutes max.
     
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    Once actual penetration has been achieved I have found most of the women I have been like between 15-30 min tops. At least for the 1st round.
    CJ
     
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    Ho Tristessa your Goddness if you are in the market for a new boyfriend I am available. One snag I am in Sydney ....:18: I am sure there is no shortage of men for you babe.
     
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    i hate to be vague but it takes as long as it takes, I like lasting forever but somtimes a matter of minutes can be amazing, it all depends on the conditions and mood
     
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    Being a multi I will go for as long as he's able to or until utter exhaustion kicks in.
     
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    An ex of mine still reminisces about a time we did it upon arriving at a hotel on the first day of what was a great vacation. She swears she has never orgasmed like that in her life and counts it as some of the best sex she's had.

    The whole thing wouldn't have taken ten minutes!!
     
  12. Principessa

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    YES! That is the right answer.:smile:


    WTF?!? No penetration equals no sex! What you had was at best awesome foreplay.


    Ugh! Why do so many men, young ones especially think their ability to go for long periods of time equals great sex for all persons involved? :confused: Cause I can tell you from experience it does not. :yuck:
     
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    yeah I'm with you on this one njqt ....
     
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    hmmm I can satisfy my girl in as little as 5 min.. but of course not fully as 10 -20 min... if both are okey, then is great sex.
     
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    Ugh! Why do so many men, young ones especially think their ability to go for long periods of time equals great sex for all persons involved? :confused: Cause I can tell you from experience it does not. :yuck:[/QUOTE]

    Im not saying it equals great sex I just have no rush, I'd have sex all day if I was aloud, It can go longer than it should somtimes and than its just uncomfortable. When your in the right mood and have the right chemistry sometimes hours can feel like minutes. I have no problem with a quicky in a bathroom or before bed. But if there was a way to have some sort of 3day sexcation where all you do is stay in the bedroom for a long weekend and mess around then I'll be the first to say YES
     
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    i love finishing before her. it means I won.
     
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    I hope you Yell "IN YOUR FACE" and do a touch down dance
     
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    I can tell Biggie is used to being a real winner.
     
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    Oh i meant to add, some of the hottest sex i've ever had is without tons of foreplay, very intense kissing, getting very wet and sitting down on his cock. Very quicklike intense thrusting, primal fucking that didnt last long.
     
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