Sorry if this topic has been posted before. I am new to the penetrative sex game, and have become a bit of a slut lately (well, relative to my previous years)... anyway my question is: how should the actual penetration part of sex go for? Cos, with men, they normally blow after, like, 5-10mins, and I am left standing there! They don't wanna help me blow even with bj or jerk off or anything. As for chicks... well, I am just not good at it, yet, due to confidence issues. Summary: How long should the penetration part of sex go for with both men and women?