How Long Should Sex Last, For You ?

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doesn't it depend on who you're with and the circumstances? in the morning when waking horny but need to get to work, its a quicky; sometimes one is just horny and a straight down to it fuck is great, but equally a good long session with lots of foreplay, playing and fucking/playing/fucking/playing and it going on for some time, a good hour or more, is amazing with the right partner too.
 

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Like everything that's sexual with another partner, it's contextual based on our wants and boundaries- though that usually means "enough time for both of us to orgasm at least once", or about 10-20 minutes. Sometimes I might have sex for an hour with 45 minutes of foreplay (yeah, takin' it reaaaalll slow) and only a few minutes of vaginal/anal penetration with a dick. Sometimes we're both horny and wet and ready to skip to pounding with just a bit of lube and will go at it for half an hour. Longest I've ever had sex was six hours (about five of which was due to ED :oops:- really slows you down) and the shortest has been a blowjob that lasted about four minutes.

It's all about what you both (and maybe a third or fourth or more) want.
 
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I want quality time for sure. Which could be 15 minutes or much longer. I'd love to be young again and stay rock hard for an hour and be able to recharge my dick fast. Probably longest 'session' was about 3 hours in my camping tent, right in middle of family campground in heat of a summer day. She was working me until I'd almost bust, then let me sit hard, and end up with blue balls, then go back to sucking and playing with me in '69' for the rest of afternoon.
 
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If my gf is super wet and seems like she’s in the mood for more than one orgasm, I’ll slow down and edge myself if I’m about to cum. Those are usually my favorite sessions as we both have mind-blowing orgasms. However, we’re both super horny people and typically fuck multiple times per day. So we don’t always have the energy to go for 45 minutes plus. Usually we just try to make sure we both cum. I’d say a decent, regular session lasts about 15 minutes most of the time.
 

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From start to finish I would guess 20-30 minutes average. The actual fucking is probably five minutes or less most of the time. I almost always make sure she cums first by oral before we fuck then either she cums first or we cum at the same time.
 

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Sex with my wife probably averages 15 minutes. Some times a little shorter and some times up to 40 minutes. Quite honestly, she's in control of the time.

Over the last year, our sex has primarily taken place between 1:00am and 3:00am. - not by my choice but hers. She's always been a night owl while I've been conditioned to 5:00am wake-up probably due to my work schedule. Even though I've been retired for nearly 12 years, I just can't break that bad habit.

At any rate, she'll come to our bedroom, shower, and then slide into bed. When she's in the mood or feeling that she needs to provide "mercy sex", she'll start playing with me until I'm erect.
Then, she'll suck my cock to ensure that it's up to "standard' and to wet it just a bit.

I'll then mount her, missionary style, and start fucking slowly, grinding, etc. My wife expertly uses her pussy to pleasure me. She alternately squeezes and relaxes her vagina while I'm sliding in-and-out and feels great on my cock. When she really gets into it, she'll grab her legs, pull them up slightly, and let me go to pound town - just flat-out fucking hard and deep.

She has a wonderful habit of playing with my balls throughout our fucking. Tickling and massaging my balls while my shaft is sliding in-and-out of her really increases my pleasure. When she's ready for me to cum, she'll reach down and flick my balls. The sharp pain causes me to erupt almost instantly.

So, it all depends on whether she wants a quickie to satisfy my "itch" or something longer to enhance her pleasure.
 
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Married with kids here
I would say that there are maybe 3 buckets they fall into: 1) morning quickies before the kids wake up, which are generally less than 10 mins (5-15 mins) ~10%, 2) nighttime before bed with foreplay around 30 mins (20-60 min range) ~89%, and 3) time to ourselves with prolonged foreplay for 1-3 hours - might be non-contiguous-multiple times in the night

this past year has been tough. Stressed and tired all the time. Thought we were coming to the end, but the kids are back in school and they are mentally exhausted (which impacts us) and we are going through some vaccine fatigue recently to top it off. I got my first and I went to bed early for a couple nights and she got her second and she has been feeling nauseous since Tuesday.
 
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for me it really depends on a few things, like when was the last time we had cum. Is there anything new that we were looking to try out. How many people involved lol. Rarely do quickies, very very rare. shortest times are 30 minutes. Average is close to an hour.
 

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For me, it is simple. My partner must orgasm at least 3 times before I allow myself to orgasm. That takes as long as it has to take.
 

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My partners always say that the clock starts when the dick enters the ass/pussy...If you do15 minutes of oral and 15 minutes of sex, to them , it’s 15 minutes of sex....

Since I rarely cum and fuck only size kings/queens, sex at a minimum is about 1 hour and 15 minutes or as long as they want to fuck