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This is all the answer you need:biggrin1: Goodluck!
How long should you date before moving in?
How long does it take to drive from SD to Monterey??:biggrin1:
Seriously, if you really want a relationship with this guy, as much as you're going to hate this, I would really get to know him closely first. Nothing ruins it as fast as moving too fast. Timewise, this is different for everybody.
Believe me, I tend to do that, and I am so glad that we got to know each other very well before we even met. Once we met, having the history behind us, I KNEW it was meant to be!!
you might discuss whether to get a one or two bedroom apartment... see what he says.
the risk of financial issues going bad if/when you split up is a major consideration. the landlord will make you both sign the lease so either of you will be fully responsible for all rent, repairs, etc. until the lease expires. same if he doesn't have his share of rent or utilities. sorry to be so negative.
This is what I was thinking. From a relationship standpoint it seems to be a good. The question now is financial and living style.you might discuss whether to get a one or two bedroom apartment... see what he says.
the risk of financial issues going bad if/when you split up is a major consideration. the landlord will make you both sign the lease so either of you will be fully responsible for all rent, repairs, etc. until the lease expires. same if he doesn't have his share of rent or utilities. sorry to be so negative.