How Long Time, Does Your Bottom Hurts?

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How long does your hole hurts, after you get fucked, by the guy you made love with? Or do you feel so good, you wait with craving for the next time? I tend to flip-flop with my fuck buddy. But It hurts for a week! So I have no crave, to wait for the next time, which may come, after maybe two or three weeks.
 

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yuo may need more lube or, if your partner is of considerable girth, you may need to stretch your fuck hole more. Then there is the possibility you are just not cut out to be a bottom. Personally, I have loved taking cock since the first time I had it. I have never been sore after having sex with a guy no matter how large. The only time I have ached after anal play has been multi-hour group sessions, particularly if I was also getting fisted throughout. But, after a few hour's rest I would be fully recovered and ready to go and hungry for more.
 

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yuo may need more lube or, if your partner is of considerable girth, you may need to stretch your fuck hole more. Then there is the possibility you are just not cut out to be a bottom. Personally, I have loved taking cock since the first time I had it. I have never been sore after having sex with a guy no matter how large. The only time I have ached after anal play has been multi-hour group sessions, particularly if I was also getting fisted throughout. But, after a few hour's rest I would be fully recovered and ready to go and hungry for more.
our asses must be from the same factory! I have this wonderful full body buzz after a multi partner session and like you the only real "pain" is from a round of punch fisting. There is no such thing as too much lube or too much foreplay, so spend a half hour or so and work your hole loose, you will get a better session.
 
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I'm guessing that you need to either work on stretching your hole open a little more and/or using lots of lube! I mean LOTS and LOTS of lube! Or you possibly just aren't able to bottom. I've taken some big dicks and even bigger dildos. I've taken those big dildos while they were on my fuck machine and pounding my ass. And except for maybe the first time I got fucked, I don't think it has ever hurt after fucking.
 
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More frequent sessions, an stretching would have to help. Two, three weeks between sessions seems way too long. I'm always amazed at how big a toy the little guys on Chaturbate can take. They can do it because it's most everyday.
 
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Is it weird that my bf and I have better luck when we don't use lube? And when we do, we struggle. Maybe it's cuz I use water based lube so that dries up too quickly so it makes everything uncomfortable.
coconut oil is your friend. Of course it's oil based so not to be used with a condom.
 

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I must concur with many of the responses above: I've never had an issue with being sore for any length of time after getting fucked. There have been a few where, for whatever reason, I wasn't as relaxed as I should have been and it took a careful, consistent low pressure to get the guy's dick in and even that might have made me wince a bit. But once they're in and the speed very gradually increases, in no time I'm good for a serious pounding.

Bleeding? Never. At least not with actual fucking. I've used toys that were of a bigger size than I'd had in there before or in a long time and saw a bit of link in the lube. But even at that, there wasn't pain afterwards.

If you're hesitant to use lots and lots of lube because damn, that stuff can be expensive, I'd recommend you visit 665, Inc's website and get yourself a bottle of J-Lube. It's a powder you mix with water (ergo waterbased so condom and toy-safe) and one 10 oz (283 grams) bottle of powder can make up to 6 gallons of lube, And currently, it's only $16.80 per bottle. That's crazy cheap for decent lube in that quantity. Even adding shipping, taxes etc., that's still a massively good deal.
 
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Guy's can never get their dick up my asshole for some reason. It's always such a struggle lol guess im tooooooo tight
If you practice with a dildo, it might help. It did for me.
For me it was a mix of being too tired, and not relaxing enough.
 
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