How Long Will I Last During Penetration Sex?

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My girlfriend wants to have penetration sex for the first time soon and we'll both be losing our virginity. How long should I expect to last during the sex? I've gotten quite a few blowjobs before and it usually takes 10ish mins for me to cum.

How does the "time to cum" compare for sex vs bjs? Significantly shorter for sex? Somewhat sorter? Significantly longer than for BJs? etc.
 

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It depends how long you want the pleasure to last. For you and your partner. For blowjobs in my experience it is faster for me to cum , but depends how long does your partner is ok with giving a blowjob maybe 20 min. I'm gonna say
Penetration I like it to last longer for about an hour to help making her orgasm as well
It takes time. Good luck
 
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First, do you want to have sex soon? No harm in waiting if you want.

If you have experienced bjs already, you might last a bit longer. But you might find you can't last 2 mins the first couple times. PIV sex is gonna be different. In my experience starting to have penetrative sex I lasted longer than during a bj. And the more times we did it and got to know each others likes/dislikes/movements/rhythm I had a bit more control of how long to last.
 

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My girlfriend wants to have penetration sex for the first time soon and we'll both be losing our virginity. How long should I expect to last during the sex? I've gotten quite a few blowjobs before and it usually takes 10ish mins for me to cum.

How does the "time to cum" compare for sex vs bjs? Significantly shorter for sex? Somewhat sorter? Significantly longer than for BJs? etc.

As it's your first time don't expect too much from the experience, how long you last will depend on a lot of factors. The anticipation or your nerves are quite likely to get the better of you and you may bust early due to that, it's her first time too, she may be very tight which might make you bust early. She might even find the experience painful for the first time and tap out before you bust. You say it takes you 10 minutes to bust from wanking or a bj, eventually sex should on the whole last longer than that but control will come with experience, 10 minutes might be enough for her first time. My advice would be to have a safety wank an hour before on your own, then if you want to be sure get her to give you a bj while you eat her out so you bust just before the act. That's probably your best chance of lasting it out, whatever happens if you still feel you busted to early just as already said go for another round if she's happy with that. Try not to over think it, just enjoy whatever happens bruh.
 

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Perhaps condoms could help lasting longer no fancy stuff just one that is the right size for you. There is a sticky post condom help here.
Try to hear her how is her reaching climax. If you don’t realize ask her.
Porn is not the real life you can fuck the pace you want even stop if you feel close (mind the point of no return) and she is just starting.
Bring a lube that doesn’t affect condons just in case.
 

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My first time it was maybe 3 mins tops but did it again a few minutes later and lasted about 15. As long as you’re attentive to her, that’s all she will want from her first experience because you want her to have sex with you again. Then you’ll both get better. Ask any woman and the ones that had a terrible time we’re with the dudes that didn’t give a shit about them and only focused on their dicks. Lots of foreplay, lots of oral, and lots of focus and you’ll be fine!
 

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Honestly everyone is different, my first time i was so nervous of blowing my load early i couldn't even get there, i was rock hard but 30-45min later she was spent and i just faked it, i'm 31 now and that night was the worst case of blue balls i've ever experienced.

At the time though i didn't mind too much she was unaware i was a virgin and compared to the one other guy she'd been with she thought i was a god, claimed he was substantially smaller and blue his load on entry

Currently i'm good for 10min to an hour if i pace myself

blowjobs always take me longer to finish, that being said not every woman can get me off with a blowjob
 
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Honestly everyone is different, my first time i was so nervous of blowing my load early i couldn't even get there, i was rock hard but 30-45min later she was spent and i just faked it, i'm 31 now and that night was the worst case of blue balls i've ever experienced.

At the time though i didn't mind too much she was unaware i was a virgin and compared to the one other guy she'd been with she thought i was a god, claimed he was substantially smaller and blue his load on entry

Currently i'm good for 10min to an hour if i pace myself

blowjobs always take me longer to finish, that being said not every woman can get me off with a blowjob

Ummm...how can a guy fake it? lol. Women I understand. But guys??
 

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While you don't mention your exact age, but I'm assuming you're relatively young, like in your 20's. I can only speak from personal experience, but at that age it didn't take me long to pop with vaginal sex and I think for most guys that age premature ejaculation goes hand in hand. Now that I'm older, I can usually last up to 20 minutes or more and sometimes even have a hard time finishing depending on my state of mind and fatigue levels. Contrast this with oral, where due to my wife having over 30 years to perfect her technique and knowing my response, it's usually over with in as little as 2-3 minutes, with maybe 10 being the longest I can hold off. So the bottom line is for me, I have a much easier time getting off with oral than vaginal and is second only to my own hand in quickness.

However with that being said, as some here have already indicated, there are a host of other factors at play like arousal levels, your physical and mental state at the time, when you last got off, etc. that will also affect how long a session will take and I think is more of a factor than what hole you're sticking it in. Also bear in mind that since it will vary from session to session, I don't think you can count on consistency with certain acts all the time.
 

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Ummm...how can a guy fake it? lol. Women I understand. But guys??
Since it’s not porn you don’t pull out and cum on her face. Using a condom doesn’t make a difference.
I faked a couple of times that was going for ever and she was done and I wasn’t feeling like cumming so I grunted and that was it.
 
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That early in the game its anyone's guess. The nervousness of the first couple blow job's might help you last a bit, but once you get in it, and if she starts moaning and enjoying it her reaction might make you pop on the quick. Good thing is when young round 2 and 3 come easy.
 
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If its the first time, you will potentially not last much. Though that really depends on you, how arouse you are, and what's going in your mind while at it. Yet, if you have been receiving bjs for awhile and cum in around 10 mins, I would suspect you would not last long when penetrating. I would recommend jacking off before going at it, if it doesn't kill your sex drive too much. That way you don't have so much sexual energy piled up.
 
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Ummm...how can a guy fake it? lol. Women I understand. But guys??


Easy... make some noise, go through the motions its not rocket science. Even easier with a condom, i've done so many times. Even without a condom its not hard. People don't seem to understand ORGASM and EJACULATION are two different things that don't always go hand in hand.
 
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My girlfriend wants to have penetration sex for the first time soon and we'll both be losing our virginity. How long should I expect to last during the sex? I've gotten quite a few blowjobs before and it usually takes 10ish mins for me to cum.

How does the "time to cum" compare for sex vs bjs? Significantly shorter for sex? Somewhat sorter? Significantly longer than for BJs? etc.

It's different for everyone. I think the last thing you want to do is think about how long or short you're going to last.
If it's both your first time, enjoy it together and figure it out.
 
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My girlfriend wants to have penetration sex for the first time soon and we'll both be losing our virginity. How long should I expect to last during the sex? I've gotten quite a few blowjobs before and it usually takes 10ish mins for me to cum.

How does the "time to cum" compare for sex vs bjs? Significantly shorter for sex? Somewhat sorter? Significantly longer than for BJs? etc.

Ten minutes for penetration sex is sufficient.

However if you have a thick cock then 10 minutes may be too long because she may feel discomfort or pain.