i reached maximum pissed offedness with the man in early february and told him that his attitude turned me off and i was done with sex. i mean, i was celibate & happy with it for years before we met. so it's may now. and i'm still not giving it up. and he's still persisting. this confuses me, because he should've gotten bored & left me alone by now. but he's still talking about moving in together... obviously he's getting it elsewhere but why not invest more time & emotion in that? he's not even pestering for sex...hugs & kisses but no tongues are as far as he's attempted to go. it's fucking weird! and perplexing! give me guy POV.