Seems like now is as good a time as any to reveal the nature of the dissent between Whopper and myself.
Take a moment to read through the last... say, 25 posts, he has made. Maybe go even further than that. In addition to being a reasonbly intelligent poster (at times), he's an embodied signboard pointing out directions. "This topic goes in this section," or "This has been done to death in this section." He's right; but, you know, I think it's pretty unfair to expect the newcomers to the board to surf through the tens of thousands of discussion posts to scroll for their information specifically. I would assume that if "repeats" became a problem, Mark or Mindseye could always clean out the old threads or whatever administrators do to remedy that problem. Is that not so?
I've told him on several occasions that he doesn't need to act like a moderator all the time -- that's Mark's job, if he wants to have that level of control. I have asked him to be a little less judgmental and a little more sensitive in some threads. Remember the young guy who wanted to experiment and DMW kept insinuating that he's gay/will be perceived as gay? Didn't help the discussion there. Stuff like that, you know, that's what fuels my need to comment sometimes.
DMW keeps saying that "others" have spoken to him through IMs about being targeted or figuring out why the tension's there. So I thought I would let you all know... from my end, anyway... I'm not omniscient.
I've been on the forum for a hella long time too, and DMW and I used to peacefully coexist. I liked his work, thought him to be intelligent, dug his style. I sought him out through IMs. We talked a few times over instant messengers, but our discussion were less than substantial; he spent more time asking me what I thought of so-and-so on the board, if I "liked" him, if I thought he was fabricating for the group. It seemed like gossip to me, you know.
Guys and gals, I'm not completely innocent either. We've seen names go through like Charley Big Horse and Hung Brandon, and have entertained some sort of skepticism there. That's fine; if anything, fellows like that reinstate that we're a serious group that doesn't think too highly of liars. But, you know, that didn't do anything to eliminate the gossip talk. I don't think I ever made it official why I stopped the IMs, but I let DMW fall by the wayside. Perhaps we had one brief exchange after that... I don't know... but I just ignored it and moved on.
Seems like we've both resurfaced in board after board thereafter, but... I don't have anything to say. The whole "If you can't say anything nice..." thing. I find my relief in a few people who understand my discontent (just like DMW has all these "others" who say I get on his case, that I should get off my high horse, blah blah blah.) And to them, I'm a little thankful, but I'd be thankful for anyone who let me vent about whatever.
Okay, I'm rambling now. I pick on DMW because I think it's fun, but I have had persisting issues with the guy, too. And you know what? I'm not particularly looking for peace either; like I can accept that I won't get along with everyone, I can accept that he is one of those people. This kind of bickering doesn't keep me up at night, and I enjoy being on the board and participating whether or not DMW's there to lay in his two cents.
(I told you I'm building up practicum requirements. I feel sometimes that I'm helping people and that's very gratifying.)
Any questions?