How many assholes have you ladies

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You're so funny. I have learned to just walk away from assholes now. I'm a changed woman in the last five or so years. :biggrin:

Also good advice.

Nah. Anyone has the potential to be an asshole :tongue:

Very true.

I've met more assholes online than in real life. It makes me wonder if the guys who I think are decent men are really the assholes I see online. I mean, I've run into whole websites full of them.

Yeah there does seem to be a tread going on.

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Have any of you had a guy do what is called negging...on you. For clarification...

Negging

Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances. This is something no decent guy would do. They say that the assholes get the girls, but I can spot negging a mile away and I reject these fuckers straight off.

I just learned about this and am curious what you ladies think. I also figured i'd put it in the same thread.
 

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This site is loaded with them. I like to think that this site kind of corrals these woman-hating assholes on the Internet, and keeps them off the street in real life. At least a few of them.

They serve a great purpose though. The good guys here really stand out, and the men in my real life seem even more awesome. Plus, the insight I gain here is like a sociological study into misogyny.
 

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This site is loaded with them. I like to think that this site kind of corrals these woman-hating assholes on the Internet, and keeps them off the street in real life. At least a few of them.

They serve a great purpose though. The good guys here really stand out, and the men in my real life seem even more awesome. Plus, the insight I gain here is like a sociological study into misogyny.

Hmm another positive way to look at it. Nicely done. And i gotta agree i didn't know just how bad it could get. Reading up on it and there's like a whole subsection of doods thinking it's the best way to go. Annnd yeah i'm also rethinking calling them assholes...they might take that as a compliment.
 

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Oh gosh...too many. Most of the guys on here are assholes. Or turn out to be assholes when you won't watch them jerk off and/or show them your tits lol But then again the good guys are much easier to spot because of it so that's the bright side... Kind of like the silver living of LPSG. Too bad most of them are gone now!
 
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I've had wonderful luck on this site. I've had a few who are persistent and have had trouble taking "no" for an answer, but all-in-all everyone has been respectful and polite.

I cannot say this has been true on Swinglifestyle or AdultFriend Finder. On those two sites I / we have had our share of assholes. With that said, most of the people who we've met in this lifestyle have been wonderful.