Arranging to meet for hook ups (esp on apps like Grindr) is always a throw of the dice because you don't konw what you are getting. There are some good hook ups to be had, but also plenty of ghosts and toxic frights to be encountered as well. I tend to stick to more specialized hook up sites for 1 on 1 play (Asspig, which is for us fist pigs) over the general ones. I wil say I've had some solid success with Sniffies, but it's the new kid on the block so it's only a matter time before you get ghosts there too (though the map location visibility does make that alittle harder if they aren't in an apartment complex. I tend to go places where I am certain to have sex and with multiple partners. That includes the local bar, which has a play area behind the dance floor, the local bathhouse, and attending sex centered events like CLAW (Cleveland OH), Pig Week Fort Lauderdale FL), Gay Days (Orlando), Fist Fest and Dog Days (Parliament Resort in Augusta) and Palm Springs Leather Pride. I tend to score the highest partner counts at the events. For instance at PS Leather Pride last month I was enjoyed by 82 different male partners and only a handful were one on one play sessions. At Pig Week last year I was used by 128 different guys over the 10 days of sex parties. If you are looking to be sexually prolific I recommend that route while establishing some regular fuck buds in your area to get you through til the next group. I tend to be in group settings at least four days out of any given month, which nets me 400 plus sex partners annually (My personal best is 903 in 2018). Hope this helps.