How many fingers can you comfortable fit in there?

[Gecko4lif]

hmm i am pretty pale, you is pretty pale... our babies would be transparent

That's why our kids would be pleasantly toned.

 

[MickeyLee]

Well, where's your answer? The men ask a question, the women act like they're too good to dignify it with a response, the men then try to discuss it amongst themselves, and the women get mad for some reason.

oh, hells belles and bats... this thread sat fallow'd field and neglected for a whole 6 hours before the men were forced to suss it out amongst themselves.

Fingers, dicks and toys all get different reactions from me, I can't speak for anyone else, but dicks are easier than fingers or toys, with toys being the more difficult... I don't know why, it just is what it is.

what Ms. Acon said.

My best advice would be to ignore any posts what so ever that mention child birth, because it's complete uneducated bollocks from people who read lots and understand little.

what Ms Acon said.

There is nothing "wrong" with using more than one, there is nothing "wrong" with just using one either... It all comes down to what she likes and how comfortable she is with more. It may well take more effort to use two, there may be some mental block saying "One is one, regardless of the size, two is more" which is stopping her from relaxing enough to easily take two... there could be countless reasons.

what Ms Acon said.

Take your time, and basically, if it doesn't feel like it's going in, don't push it... it'll be uncomfortable, it will probably hurt, and it'll fuck up any chances of you getting your dick in there later that night!

what Ms Acon said.

That's why our kids would be pleasantly toned.

can you imagine the evil? beautiful skin.. but sooo damn evil.

 

[Gecko4lif]

can you imagine the evil? beautiful skin.. but sooo damn evil.

Beautiful and evil?

I shall name him... Lucifer.

 

[molotovmuffin]

I guess I was just looking for the go-ahead that putting in multiple fingers is all right and that it isn't in some way inherently bad. But then I was curious if maybe for some of you, one finger is adequate stimulation.

Then that's the question you should have asked.

 

[earllogjam]

42

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

67

 

[MickeyLee]

b07

 

[dolfette]

http://h6img.com/g/5/strange-insertions-422-6.jpg

i think it's safe to say that the ladies here don't wanna be seen as this.

''ooo, how much can i stuff in it now?!?''

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

Hi I always feel bad posting in this topic on the board because even though it says (men are welcome to participate) I feel like I am intruding on your section of the forums.

I just have a simple question. I am not trying to get off on this or anything, but when you're with your man, or your woman, or yourself, or whoever floats your boat, how many fingers can they fit comfortable inside of you?

I only ask because when I am with my girlfriend I can slide one finger in, but if I try to put in two I feel a lot of resistance and then I get really nervous that I'm going to hurt her, which is dumb because my cock is bigger than two of my fingers and it goes in just fine.

Or is it like, you really have to work multiple fingers in? I guess I am always surprised that I have trouble fitting in two fingers when I don't really have that much trouble sticking my dick in her.

Ok I hope everyone has a good day!

three at a minimum!

 

[MickeyLee]

i use my vagina to avoid checking my bags


@Ms. Dolfie - the banana split thread just went all sinister and wrong.

is like Carmen Miranda porn.

 

[dolfette]

well reminded!

 

[SprinkleMe69]

I say it's fine to insert more than one finger. Like one of the previous posters said, lubrication.

 

[MickeyLee]

is fine to insert more than one finger if she is interested in more than a finger or two. :smile:

 

[AlteredEgo]

I am sorry. These kinds of responses are the reason I am weary of asking questions like this in your part of the forum. I am sorry I am not a vagina expert, but if you guys ever had questions about dicks I would be glad to give you my insight. So, I'll stick to being anonymous on the internet, and sure you can be as abrasive as you must, but somewhere on this forum I know that there are users who are not as jaded as the others. Thanks for your time.

As for the response talking about baby heads, I guess that makes sense. Yes, the vagina can stretch to accommodate skulls, but I feel like sticking a baby skull into and out of there isn't really meant to be regular sexual foreplay.

I guess I was just looking for the go-ahead that putting in multiple fingers is all right and that it isn't in some way inherently bad. But then I was curious if maybe for some of you, one finger is adequate stimulation.

But I don't even know why I'm bothering. You guys sure set the tone for this topic.

NOOOOOOO! The response about the baby heads has been throughly trashed in many previous threads, and is the worst peice of advice in this entire discussion. While rare women report having orgasms during delivery, so many women experience such intense, excrutiating pain, that it is standard medical practice to offer pain medication delivered directly into the spine! So outsized is a baby for the vag, that if the mother delivers in the wrong position (on her back, feet in stirrups) she is highly likely to need corrective surgery immediately after the birth of her baby. Some women (rarely, but true) are built so small that doctors will not even permit vaginal delivery unless the mother submits to rather extreme measures which force the baby to be be smaller. Moreover, all of this drama happens after 9 months of the body going through hormonal and shape-shifting changes in order to accommodate passage of a fetus through the birth canal. Do you give your sex partners nine months of constant foreplay before you finger-fuck them? Avoid unwanted spankings by never suggesting such a thing again! Sex is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING LIKE CHILDBIRTH, AT ALL, EVER!!! Okay?

Your question falls under the category of, "Why are you asking us instead of YOUR woman? Only she knows the answer for sure." Ask her, Silly! If she wants more, it is fine to give her more fingers. Women are not cookie cutters. Not a one of us will ever be able to say with any certainty what your lady thinks is good sex.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

Hi I always feel bad posting in this topic on the board because even though it says (men are welcome to participate) I feel like I am intruding on your section of the forums.

I just have a simple question. I am not trying to get off on this or anything, but when you're with your man, or your woman, or yourself, or whoever floats your boat, how many fingers can they fit comfortable inside of you?

I only ask because when I am with my girlfriend I can slide one finger in, but if I try to put in two I feel a lot of resistance and then I get really nervous that I'm going to hurt her, which is dumb because my cock is bigger than two of my fingers and it goes in just fine.

Or is it like, you really have to work multiple fingers in? I guess I am always surprised that I have trouble fitting in two fingers when I don't really have that much trouble sticking my dick in her.

Ok I hope everyone has a good day!

The mention of "resistance" sounds like she might not be ready for fingering or you may not be doing it correctly for her body. First, I would ask if she likes fingers in there at all - many women can't stand it. If she does, but doesn't like your technique or you need a manicure (seriously), you'll have some work to do before she'll enjoy it. However, you cannot make it pleasurable without her input and direction - deep, shallow, pressing down, angled up, pressing against the urethra, thumb on clit, etc. way too many variables to even hazard a guess at what you're doing wrong. :09: Or even if she doesn't enjoy it, but allows you fingering jollies anyway, which could be reflected in the resistance/possibly tensing up.

As for me, one of my previous avatars was a "three fingers, please" sign from the NYC Dyke March a few years ago. However, there are days when I prefer 1, 2, or none, so keep in mind all women are different, but the same woman can be different from day to day :biggrin:. Just make it all about her pleasure and not your fingering experience. Capiche?

 

[VernalTiger]

I'm sick of the childbirth analogy too. The female body prepares for childbirth for months by releasing ligament-loosening hormones. The skull plates of a baby are not fused, allowing them the squeeze through the birth canal. This is why vaginally-delivered babies often have oddly-shaped heads when compared to Caesarian-delivered babies.The rest of the baby's skeleton is loosely formed as well, which helps allow passage.

The human body sometimes has a mind of its own. If a woman was to have an orgasm during delivery, it could simply be that the mutitude of midwives and obstetricians who have put their hands up her have pressed a few buttons correctly. A woman in labour could be 'fisted' dozens of times before the baby comes out as they monitor cervical dilation or to turn the baby. It doesn't mean she's necessarily getting any pleasure from it, perhaps she's just easily orgasmic.

My own experience: I can take a larger penis than I can toys. There's a different type of horniness and physical response that comes with having sex with an exciting person, rather than flying solo. My biggest issue with fingers is that my pelvic bones surrounding my vagina seem close together, so the knuckles can't get in. Soreness the next day is nearly always because my bones are sore, not my vagina.

 

[OhWiseOne]

Never thought about how many, rather the technique. One or two fingers sliding in while my thumb rubs the clit.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

*grumble*

men ask stupid fucking questions in the womens issues area.

men answer stupid fucking questions in the womens issues area.

we, the womens, will nod along demurely and just look pretty.

UNLESS YOU HAVE A VAGINA!!!....AND/OR...HAVE GIVEN BIRTH!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!


*edited to clarify my SHUTTING THE FUCK UP!!! policy.

You know what? If I was a woman on this site I imagine the above would be my response to the material in question.


A) I'm struggling to see how this is a women's issue at all, this is a man's issue, he doesn't know how pussies work and a man wants to know how many fingers he can put in one. Where the issue is for women in that question I have no idea. I mean the OP could always ask the woman/women he's sleeping with what she/they are comfortable with no? I mean she/they are comfortable enough with him to let him sleep with her/them, surely they wouldn't mind if he did her/them the favour of asking if they like to be fingered or how many fingers they think they might be able to manage and enjoy etc.... ? the fact that this is perfectly obviously the best way to find out what one's sexual partner prefers leads one to imagine that some other motive exists for asking this question.... could it be the OP just wants the female members to post about shoving all manner of business up their business for his gratification? I wonder....

B) Straight men are supposed to love pussy right? Some of them come off as nigh on dangerously obssessed with pussy, and yet, and yet, so many of these same guys seem completely ignorant of how the pussy works? Now how does that add up? Are we talking about complete virgins? Presumably not all. So of those men who've slept with a lot of women, or a fair few, or even just one woman a lot of times, how many were doing so in complete ignorance of the basic functioning of the part of a woman's body they so often profess to adore?

C) Some men as has been pointed out elsewhere, seem to think that a rudimentary understanding of human biology is sufficient to make them an expert on the workings of a Lady Garden and offer what is clearly fairly crappy advice based on speculation and bullshit.


If I were a woman and I saw A,B, and C all in one thread and had seen them on numerous occassions in other threads too I think it would piss me off. If you don't want to annoy people don't ask annoying questions. That's my advice.

 

[kc2007]

Couldn't this whole issue be resolved by creating a second woman's section? Not just a separate thread, but another woman's section. It could be called something like, "ask women about your cock" or "dumb questions about vaginas" I'm somewhat kidding but I mean it would certainly end this ridiculous routine of men asking questions and the threads turning into a mess.
Yeah, you could say, "well if men wouldn't ask such stupid questions" but we all know that ain't gonna happen.

This way all the serious folk who only want to discuss pertinent and relevant "issues" that a big cock may bring upon the woman, emotionally, physically, and spiritually, or even beyond the cock and just flat out "issues" women have in life can remain here and never step foot into the newly created "dumb and fun" section with repeated asinine questions about cocks and vaginas and the relationship between the two. In this case the policing and complaining would be completely justified because there would be an alternative.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Couldn't this whole issue be resolved by creating a second woman's section? Not just a separate thread, but another woman's section. It could be called something like, "ask women about your cock" or "dumb questions about vaginas" I'm somewhat kidding but I mean it would certainly end this ridiculous routine of men asking questions and the threads turning into a mess.
Yeah, you could say, "well if men wouldn't ask such stupid questions" but we all know that ain't gonna happen.

This way all the serious folk who only want to discuss pertinent and relevant "issues" that a big cock may bring upon the woman, emotionally, physically, and spiritually, or even beyond the cock and just flat out "issues" women have in life can remain here and never step foot into the newly created "dumb and fun" section with repeated asinine questions about cocks and vaginas and the relationship between the two. In this case the policing and complaining would be completely justified because there would be an alternative.

Some of us have been saying for a while that we'd like to have an Ask a Woman sub forum. I think it would make things much easier on everyone.

I rather like the 'dumb and fun' name :biggrin1:.