you've been on this site all of five minutes.
it works like this...
http://www.lpsg.org/141544-do-most-women-like-getting.html
guy specifically asks women.
women reply with opinion guys don't want to hear.
guys leap in and tell women they are wrong,
because us silly women do not know our own minds.
and we don't actually come here just to be of service to the men.
you seem to think we are obligated in some way.
you think we get paid to post here or what?
on opening this thread, are we all supposed to drop panties and start stuffing our snatches to seek an answer? because none of us will have bothere finding out or counting in the past. you want a woman to perform? hire a hooker.
Ok, I don't hang out in the women's forum a lot so I apologize, but in my experience with this thread your step two of "women reply with opinions guys don't want to hear" is true, but ... kind of null.
Step one, I asked a question. After that all I got were snarky responses like "I can't wait to see where this goes..." or "grumble men ask such stupid fucking questions." Then of course, people will jump in and tell those users that they are out of line because they are being disrespectful. You women do know your own minds, it's just unfortunate that for some of you, your idea of constructive advice is to tell guys to shut the fuck up instead of giving your valuable insight on the question that is posted.
You are not obligated to do anything. If you don't want to help out a guy who has an inquiring mind, don't reply. I don't understand why you make it your duty to be so rude and disrespectful. And I've thrown a lot of "you's" and "women" but I'm generalizing. There are a lot of helpful nice women too, I just have to get through some of the trolls before I get to them. Thank you AlteredEgo, ExotiKittie, and Aconitum in particular.
You know what? If I was a woman on this site I imagine the above would be my response to the material in question.
A) I'm struggling to see how this is a women's issue at all, this is a man's issue, he doesn't know how pussies work and a man wants to know how many fingers he can put in one. Where the issue is for women in that question I have no idea. I mean the OP could always ask the woman/women he's sleeping with what she/they are comfortable with no? I mean she/they are comfortable enough with him to let him sleep with her/them, surely they wouldn't mind if he did her/them the favour of asking if they like to be fingered or how many fingers they think they might be able to manage and enjoy etc.... ? the fact that this is perfectly obviously the best way to find out what one's sexual partner prefers leads one to imagine that some other motive exists for asking this question.... could it be the OP just wants the female members to post about shoving all manner of business up their business for his gratification? I wonder....
B) Straight men are supposed to love pussy right? Some of them come off as nigh on dangerously obssessed with pussy, and yet, and yet, so many of these same guys seem completely ignorant of how the pussy works? Now how does that add up? Are we talking about complete virgins? Presumably not all. So of those men who've slept with a lot of women, or a fair few, or even just one woman a lot of times, how many were doing so in complete ignorance of the basic functioning of the part of a woman's body they so often profess to adore?
C) Some men as has been pointed out elsewhere, seem to think that a rudimentary understanding of human biology is sufficient to make them an expert on the workings of a Lady Garden and offer what is clearly fairly crappy advice based on speculation and bullshit.
If I were a woman and I saw A,B, and C all in one thread and had seen them on numerous occassions in other threads too I think it would piss me off. If you don't want to annoy people don't ask annoying questions. That's my advice.
A) No, I'm not here so that people on this site can start shoving fingers in their selves to answer the question. I was just hoping for some honest answers from their past experiences. Ok, I am a guy who doesn't know how pussies work. Why is there such a social stigma against that? Are you happy? That's why I have an anonymous account on an internet forum where I can ask other anonymous people questions I may have. This is the woman's corner of the forum, and for me it is my girlfriend's issue where I feel like there is a lot of resistance to more fingers, so I wasn't sure what was normal, even though all vaginas operate differently, I just was curious what might be "normal" for some others. Maybe you can go "hey babe how many fingers do you want me to stick in you?" but for me, that isn't how I approach things. I like to do my research first before even declaring something like that.
B) Here you go again. Cool you called me out on possibly being an inadequate lover! Yeah, I'm straight and I like the vag. I wouldn't say I'm dangerously obsessed with it and I disagree that it's 'such a basic' part of the body. These things are taboo, really. I don't know exactly how it works perfectly, but I'm learning. Sexual education doesn't really teach you about pleasing your woman. We all have to start somewhere ok?
C) And now you're contradicting yourself? In point B you were like 'the vagina is such an easy organ to figure out' and then in point C you're all like 'gosh men are so stupid they think their basic knowledge is enough!' What do you want? Yeah, basic knowledge is not enough, therefore when we try to expand our minds, possibly with topics like this, we're being humble and putting ourselves on the line, and your response? Instead of being helpful you are so rude. Got no advice? Then don't reply to the thread.
Oh your advice is to not annoy people by asking annoying questions? Well I guess here is where I've got to say I don't care what you think. Fine if out of ten people nine of you are angry people, but then tenth offers some helpful advice, I will continue going on in my life seeking out those that wish to be nice and contribute to the world. The other nine of you can sit alone at night on the internet and troll and be angry. I don't care. I'll skim past your responses.
NOOOOOOO! The response about the baby heads has been throughly trashed in many previous threads, and is the worst peice of advice in this entire discussion. While rare women report having orgasms during delivery, so many women experience such intense, excrutiating pain, that it is standard medical practice to offer pain medication delivered directly into the spine! So outsized is a baby for the vag, that if the mother delivers in the wrong position (on her back, feet in stirrups) she is highly likely to need corrective surgery immediately after the birth of her baby. Some women (rarely, but true) are built so small that doctors will not even permit vaginal delivery unless the mother submits to rather extreme measures which force the baby to be be smaller. Moreover, all of this drama happens after 9 months of the body going through hormonal and shape-shifting changes in order to accommodate passage of a fetus through the birth canal. Do you give your sex partners nine months of constant foreplay before you finger-fuck them? Avoid unwanted spankings by never suggesting such a thing again! Sex is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING LIKE CHILDBIRTH, AT ALL, EVER!!! Okay?
Your question falls under the category of, "Why are you asking us instead of YOUR woman? Only she knows the answer for sure." Ask her, Silly! If she wants more, it is fine to give her more fingers. Women are not cookie cutters. Not a one of us will ever be able to say with any certainty what your lady thinks is good sex.
Haha, ok thank you! But you make such a valuable point with the second paragraph. I guess sometimes I fear turning my sexual experiences with my significant other into like education 101, which I fear might kill the mood. I can follow the signs of responses in her body to what I am doing, but ... it's difficult sometimes to really know what's going on and I have not yet devised a tactic to keep it really hot while getting a pretty blunt, honest response during sex, you know? You're so right that everyone is different, but sometimes it might help to know what the general public might enjoy to see what is "normal" even if "normal" doesn't exist.
Never thought about how many, rather the technique. One or two fingers sliding in while my thumb rubs the clit.
This actually sounds like a very hot position. Thanks!