How many fingers can you comfortable fit in there?

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It really shouldn't be an issue for the majority of women since giving birth causes a larger expansion of the vagina than most men's hands. Just think about a baby's head and shoulders through the same place. Of course, I know that the body prepares a woman's sexual organs to give birth, but still it's a painful experience for most women.

To give birth, a woman's cervix must dialte to 10cm which is equivalent to 3.937 inches and equates to 12.368 inches in circumference. From those facts, I must conclude that most men's closed fists would not be as large.

I've also read that fisting tones a woman's vagina and actually gives her more ability to contract PC and vaginal wall muscles and therefore will enjoy sex more plus will yield an easier time giving birth with less pain. I've even heard of women who enjoy fisting having orgasms while giving birth.

Unfortunately, I don't have the reference material to back up my statements since I didn't know I would need them later and did not bookmark or keep copies of the research saved on my PC.

I'm sure there are others here who can point us in the direction of that research so that women who have never experienced fisting can read for themselves and make a personal decision to try it for themselves.

I apologize, in advance, if this is off topic since fisting is in two different threads close to this one under women's issues. I just felt this thread was too closely related to fisting to not comment of vaginal finger insertiion and how many fingers will fit inside.


Because all women's cervixes dilate pre-fingering.
 

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Couldn't this whole issue be resolved by creating a second woman's section? Not just a separate thread, but another woman's section. It could be called something like, "ask women about your cock" or "dumb questions about vaginas" I'm somewhat kidding but I mean it would certainly end this ridiculous routine of men asking questions and the threads turning into a mess.
Yeah, you could say, "well if men wouldn't ask such stupid questions" but we all know that ain't gonna happen.

This way all the serious folk who only want to discuss pertinent and relevant "issues" that a big cock may bring upon the woman, emotionally, physically, and spiritually, or even beyond the cock and just flat out "issues" women have in life can remain here and never step foot into the newly created "dumb and fun" section with repeated asinine questions about cocks and vaginas and the relationship between the two. In this case the policing and complaining would be completely justified because there would be an alternative.


It would save a lot of hassle. Men would ask their dumb questions - other men would answer because that's what they do here. So then they'd have to name that forum from "Ask a Woman something" to "Ask a woman something but men are going to answer anyway" So it should really just be "Ask a man about a woman's issue." That's what it would end up being.
 
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Your question falls under the category of, "Why are you asking us instead of YOUR woman? Only she knows the answer for sure." Ask her, Silly! If she wants more, it is fine to give her more fingers. Women are not cookie cutters. Not a one of us will ever be able to say with any certainty what your lady thinks is good sex.


This should be an automatic response for 90% of the male generated threads in this forum.
 

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*grumble*

men ask stupid fucking questions in the womens issues area.

men answer stupid fucking questions in the womens issues area.

we, the womens, will nod along demurely and just look pretty.

UNLESS YOU HAVE A VAGINA!!!....AND/OR...HAVE GIVEN BIRTH!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!


*edited to clarify my SHUTTING THE FUCK UP!!! policy.

this was exactly what i was thinking when i read that wiser_guys post. LOL
 

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It would save a lot of hassle. Men would ask their dumb questions - other men would answer because that's what they do here. So then they'd have to name that forum from "Ask a Woman something" to "Ask a woman something but men are going to answer anyway" So it should really just be "Ask a man about a woman's issue." That's what it would end up being.

That's just it, the word "issue" would be removed from the forum. It seems to create the most "issues". Therefore it wouldn't matter who answered, men, women, men pretending to be women, women pretending to be men. It would simply be a cock/sex forum with a slant towards women. The dumb, heavily repeated, and off topic are all welcome. You don't like it, you don't visit there.
I really think some women here don't take this thing too seriously and would gladly participate.
 

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It would save a lot of hassle. Men would ask their dumb questions - other men would answer because that's what they do here. So then they'd have to name that forum from "Ask a Woman something" to "Ask a woman something but men are going to answer anyway" So it should really just be "Ask a man about a woman's issue." That's what it would end up being.
Less so if more women would deign to answer.
 

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stupid search rejects ML *grumbles*

my vanity is not happy :tongue1:

*pounces on MoT* i'll search ya, baby.


keyword search: Mickeylee 651 posts
 
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You know...we tired to ignore this whole thread...and got bitched at because we didn't reply to such a serious "issue".


And you guys say women can't make up their/our minds....
 

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I agree, but when a few women started telling off the men for trying to answer from their own experiences, a catch-22 was created. What I see here is the girls getting mad, understandably, because men were putting forth answers to a question that they don't really have the authority to answer. But with so many (not all) of the women only putting in, "We're not going to say," what do you expect? Shit or get off the pot.
 
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if only some men would use the search option.....:rolleyes:

hand off dick. wipe down the keyboard. pay attention to the words on the screen!

USE THE SEARCH OPTION.
we've answered before. one thousand times.
we've very kindly explained that women are each different.
in tastes and in tolerances.
you don't seek understanding.
you come looking for validation.
we are not a resource made available to you by LPSG.
we're members. please treat us accordingly.

ignore hasn't work so far.
open hostility might :smile:

take your shit to sex with a large penis.
or better yet, sex with a massive prick.
 

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Less so if more women would deign to answer.
you've been on this site all of five minutes.
it works like this...
http://www.lpsg.org/141544-do-most-women-like-getting.html
guy specifically asks women.
women reply with opinion guys don't want to hear.
guys leap in and tell women they are wrong,
because us silly women do not know our own minds.

and we don't actually come here just to be of service to the men.
you seem to think we are obligated in some way.
you think we get paid to post here or what?

on opening this thread, are we all supposed to drop panties and start stuffing our snatches to seek an answer? because none of us will have bothere finding out or counting in the past. you want a woman to perform? hire a hooker.
 
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you've been on this site all of five minutes.
it works like this...
http://www.lpsg.org/141544-do-most-women-like-getting.html
guy specifically asks women.
women reply with opinion guys don't want to hear.
guys leap in and tell women they are wrong,
because us silly women do not know our own minds.

and we don't actually come here just to be of service to the men.
you seem to think we are obligated in some way.
you think we get paid to post here or what?

on opening this thread, are we all supposed to drop panties and start stuffing our snatches to seek an answer? because none of us will have bothere finding out or counting in the past. you want a woman to perform? hire a hooker.

Ok, I don't hang out in the women's forum a lot so I apologize, but in my experience with this thread your step two of "women reply with opinions guys don't want to hear" is true, but ... kind of null.

Step one, I asked a question. After that all I got were snarky responses like "I can't wait to see where this goes..." or "grumble men ask such stupid fucking questions." Then of course, people will jump in and tell those users that they are out of line because they are being disrespectful. You women do know your own minds, it's just unfortunate that for some of you, your idea of constructive advice is to tell guys to shut the fuck up instead of giving your valuable insight on the question that is posted.

You are not obligated to do anything. If you don't want to help out a guy who has an inquiring mind, don't reply. I don't understand why you make it your duty to be so rude and disrespectful. And I've thrown a lot of "you's" and "women" but I'm generalizing. There are a lot of helpful nice women too, I just have to get through some of the trolls before I get to them. Thank you AlteredEgo, ExotiKittie, and Aconitum in particular.

You know what? If I was a woman on this site I imagine the above would be my response to the material in question.


A) I'm struggling to see how this is a women's issue at all, this is a man's issue, he doesn't know how pussies work and a man wants to know how many fingers he can put in one. Where the issue is for women in that question I have no idea. I mean the OP could always ask the woman/women he's sleeping with what she/they are comfortable with no? I mean she/they are comfortable enough with him to let him sleep with her/them, surely they wouldn't mind if he did her/them the favour of asking if they like to be fingered or how many fingers they think they might be able to manage and enjoy etc.... ? the fact that this is perfectly obviously the best way to find out what one's sexual partner prefers leads one to imagine that some other motive exists for asking this question.... could it be the OP just wants the female members to post about shoving all manner of business up their business for his gratification? I wonder....

B) Straight men are supposed to love pussy right? Some of them come off as nigh on dangerously obssessed with pussy, and yet, and yet, so many of these same guys seem completely ignorant of how the pussy works? Now how does that add up? Are we talking about complete virgins? Presumably not all. So of those men who've slept with a lot of women, or a fair few, or even just one woman a lot of times, how many were doing so in complete ignorance of the basic functioning of the part of a woman's body they so often profess to adore?

C) Some men as has been pointed out elsewhere, seem to think that a rudimentary understanding of human biology is sufficient to make them an expert on the workings of a Lady Garden and offer what is clearly fairly crappy advice based on speculation and bullshit.


If I were a woman and I saw A,B, and C all in one thread and had seen them on numerous occassions in other threads too I think it would piss me off. If you don't want to annoy people don't ask annoying questions. That's my advice.

A) No, I'm not here so that people on this site can start shoving fingers in their selves to answer the question. I was just hoping for some honest answers from their past experiences. Ok, I am a guy who doesn't know how pussies work. Why is there such a social stigma against that? Are you happy? That's why I have an anonymous account on an internet forum where I can ask other anonymous people questions I may have. This is the woman's corner of the forum, and for me it is my girlfriend's issue where I feel like there is a lot of resistance to more fingers, so I wasn't sure what was normal, even though all vaginas operate differently, I just was curious what might be "normal" for some others. Maybe you can go "hey babe how many fingers do you want me to stick in you?" but for me, that isn't how I approach things. I like to do my research first before even declaring something like that.

B) Here you go again. Cool you called me out on possibly being an inadequate lover! Yeah, I'm straight and I like the vag. I wouldn't say I'm dangerously obsessed with it and I disagree that it's 'such a basic' part of the body. These things are taboo, really. I don't know exactly how it works perfectly, but I'm learning. Sexual education doesn't really teach you about pleasing your woman. We all have to start somewhere ok?

C) And now you're contradicting yourself? In point B you were like 'the vagina is such an easy organ to figure out' and then in point C you're all like 'gosh men are so stupid they think their basic knowledge is enough!' What do you want? Yeah, basic knowledge is not enough, therefore when we try to expand our minds, possibly with topics like this, we're being humble and putting ourselves on the line, and your response? Instead of being helpful you are so rude. Got no advice? Then don't reply to the thread.

Oh your advice is to not annoy people by asking annoying questions? Well I guess here is where I've got to say I don't care what you think. Fine if out of ten people nine of you are angry people, but then tenth offers some helpful advice, I will continue going on in my life seeking out those that wish to be nice and contribute to the world. The other nine of you can sit alone at night on the internet and troll and be angry. I don't care. I'll skim past your responses.


NOOOOOOO! The response about the baby heads has been throughly trashed in many previous threads, and is the worst peice of advice in this entire discussion. While rare women report having orgasms during delivery, so many women experience such intense, excrutiating pain, that it is standard medical practice to offer pain medication delivered directly into the spine! So outsized is a baby for the vag, that if the mother delivers in the wrong position (on her back, feet in stirrups) she is highly likely to need corrective surgery immediately after the birth of her baby. Some women (rarely, but true) are built so small that doctors will not even permit vaginal delivery unless the mother submits to rather extreme measures which force the baby to be be smaller. Moreover, all of this drama happens after 9 months of the body going through hormonal and shape-shifting changes in order to accommodate passage of a fetus through the birth canal. Do you give your sex partners nine months of constant foreplay before you finger-fuck them? Avoid unwanted spankings by never suggesting such a thing again! Sex is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING LIKE CHILDBIRTH, AT ALL, EVER!!! Okay?

Your question falls under the category of, "Why are you asking us instead of YOUR woman? Only she knows the answer for sure." Ask her, Silly! If she wants more, it is fine to give her more fingers. Women are not cookie cutters. Not a one of us will ever be able to say with any certainty what your lady thinks is good sex.

Haha, ok thank you! But you make such a valuable point with the second paragraph. I guess sometimes I fear turning my sexual experiences with my significant other into like education 101, which I fear might kill the mood. I can follow the signs of responses in her body to what I am doing, but ... it's difficult sometimes to really know what's going on and I have not yet devised a tactic to keep it really hot while getting a pretty blunt, honest response during sex, you know? You're so right that everyone is different, but sometimes it might help to know what the general public might enjoy to see what is "normal" even if "normal" doesn't exist.

Never thought about how many, rather the technique. One or two fingers sliding in while my thumb rubs the clit.

This actually sounds like a very hot position. Thanks!
 

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It really shouldn't be an issue for the majority of women since giving birth causes a larger expansion of the vagina than most men's hands. Just think about a baby's head and shoulders through the same place. Of course, I know that the body prepares a woman's sexual organs to give birth, but still it's a painful experience for most women.

To give birth, a woman's cervix must dialte to 10cm which is equivalent to 3.937 inches and equates to 12.368 inches in circumference. From those facts, I must conclude that most men's closed fists would not be as large.

Wiser dude, my ass! I know this shite has already been debunked, but I think a truly emphatic debunking is needed.

What the fuck has cervical dilation during labour got to do with fisting?? When a woman is fisted do you really believe the fist passes through her cervix into her uterus? If you do then just fucking wow!

The cervix does not dilate to that circumference for any reason other than to allow the passage of a baby. And even then the dilation itself, without the baby passing through yet, hurts... a lot. I have, when not pregnant (not shortly after childbirth either), passed blood clots of less than 1cm diameter through my cervix. It was more pain than I can adequately describe - worse than labour contractions for sure. I can't comment on whether or not it was worse than the passage of a baby through the cervix and out of the vagina because I have never given birth vaginally.

Ok, I don't hang out in the women's forum a lot so I apologize, but in my experience with this thread your step two of "women reply with opinions guys don't want to hear" is true, but ... kind of null.

In what way null? It is the entire reason you got the responses to this thread you got. I'd say that's pertinent at very least, if not vital.
 

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Ok, I don't hang out in the women's forum a lot so I apologize, but in my experience with this thread your step two of "women reply with opinions guys don't want to hear" is true, but ... kind of null.

Step one, I asked a question. After that all I got were snarky responses like "I can't wait to see where this goes..." or "grumble men ask such stupid fucking questions." Then of course, people will jump in and tell those users that they are out of line because they are being disrespectful. You women do know your own minds, it's just unfortunate that for some of you, your idea of constructive advice is to tell guys to shut the fuck up instead of giving your valuable insight on the question that is posted.

You are not obligated to do anything. If you don't want to help out a guy who has an inquiring mind, don't reply. I don't understand why you make it your duty to be so rude and disrespectful. And I've thrown a lot of "you's" and "women" but I'm generalizing. There are a lot of helpful nice women too, I just have to get through some of the trolls before I get to them. Thank you AlteredEgo, ExotiKittie, and Aconitum in particular.
i wasn't talking to you.
 

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B) Here you go again. Cool you called me out on possibly being an inadequate lover!

You interpolation, not my words.

C) And now you're contradicting yourself? In point B you were like 'the vagina is such an easy organ to figure out' and then in point C you're all like 'gosh men are so stupid they think their basic knowledge is enough!' What do you want? Yeah, basic knowledge is not enough, therefore when we try to expand our minds, possibly with topics like this, we're being humble and putting ourselves on the line, and your response? Instead of being helpful you are so rude. Got no advice? Then don't reply to the thread.


Don't put words in my mouth, again. I never said that knowledge of how the vagina works is necessarily basic knowledge, nor did I say the vagina was easy to figure out, I made no specific claims on any of those things.


But as Mickeylee has pointed out several times now if you're really interested in this as a form of research there is a search feature which would very likely provide you with ample information. That you seem either not have used that function, or used it and ignored the results is in itself somewhat questionable and casts your humble claims in a somewhat different light.
 
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