how many girls you fucked with used to touch themselves during penetration?

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  1. D_Crystallized Ginger

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    Not sure if this has been asked before and elsewhere but I was watchin a porn clip and thought it only happened to me that one girl touched her cunt lustfully while I was pounding her
     
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    It always surprised me that more of the women who I have been with wouldn't touch themselves during penetration.

    There are only four that I can definitively remember doing so.

    As much as I love rubbing their clit and softly running my fingers across their labia during intercourse, it was always a huge turn on- for all involved- when they would touch themselves also. Not only was it visually sexy for me, but to know she was helping to get herself off was just insatiably hot, and certainly satisfying for her! I am surprised more don't do this! Of course, I am sure it is a personal preference, as so may sexual things are. an ex of mine preferred tenfold my touching her breasts or pulling her hair than stimulating her clit.

    That being said, I love it when a woman touches herself during intercourse!
     
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    Also, has anyone ever had a lover who would hold your hand while they were touching themselves during penetration, allowing you to feel each stroke and movement of them pleasing themselves? I've had one ex do this, and it was amazing!
     
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    I touch myself while being penetrated...it feels amazing. I didn't know that guys liked it so much llol.
     
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    Oh, absolutely! I mean, some guys may not care for it, but I think it is a huge turn on! Seeng a woman please herself while I please her is... :fing02:
     
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    I love it a lot 'cause it seems to me that she is really enjoying sex and want to reach orgasm like a matter of life or death. Unfortunately I only met few girls that seemed too enjoy sex like I do and , as a general rule, it does seem that women aren't so genital focused like the male counterpart..
     
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    Also it s wonderful to know that you are doing your penetration work so good and that she can only stimulate the outer part of the vulva with her fingers 'cause the vagina itself is filled with a bigger finger :D
     
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    yeah true. it's amazing the sensation that i get....it feels so great being pounded by a nice cock and rubbing myself at the same time. You're right though...I only do this when I'm really enjoying it.
     
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    Broader question: how many people are comfortable masturbating in front of their partner?
    I would suspect a lot lower than people generally think. Guys do it almost as last resort if they cant come via penetration.
     
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    To know that the feeling, when in the moment, is as satisfying for a woman as it looks like it is is just... awesome!
     
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    Do you mean mutual masturbation or just one partner masturbating?

    I think mutual masturbation is extremely hot! I haven't had one partner masturbating without the other... at least not for very long. Maybe it could be hot. (but of course, that would just lead to sex or mutual masturbation itself) :smile:
     
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    Yep, I love doing this also. I love watching a guy get off over me it turns me on so much and I'll get off in front of him at the same time. I've found that a lot of guys (while open to it) think i'm kinda weird for wanting to do this haha.
     
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    You are my hero!
     
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    actually you are perfect! nothing weird in what you do ...wish there were more girls like you. And if some men think the opposite, well, they are dangerous mormons to stay away from!
     
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    haha thanks. hmm i think maybe they are just a bit self-conscious about doing it?
     
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    :biggrin1: no need to be politically correct with whom isn't sexually correct
     
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    I would much prefer to have my partner touching me while he is penetrating me. But then, I guess I prefer my partner touching me to masturbating any day (or using toys, whatever - it's always better when my partner does it than when I'm alone). I know so many women believe that you have to be able to get yourself off before you can get off with a man, but this just doesn't do it for me. If it's solo, I so often just get bored with it in a hurry. I think it might be because I have such a strong preference for a g-spot orgasm - all others seem chintsy in comparison. But during sex, one can help stimulate the other it seems, so I say rub away!

    The other reason solo orgasms seem chitsy I think is the lack of emotion and connection involved. So much of sex and orgasms for me is a sort of mental hierarchy, without a man involved I just can't put my mind in the same place as I do when a man is involved.
     
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    Same here... I find it very intimate and erotic when a guy masturbates in front of me. Sometime after we've been fucking for a while and I've cum a lot and he didn't, I'll start with a blow job and a hand job and then let him carry on while I watch and maybe stroke him gently or lick their balls... Some guys are surprised to begin with, but it always works... team work. And ditto for playing with myself during penetration, it's great to be able to add the stimulation I want 'just the way I know it' kinda thing. I know most guys find it super horny, but I do wonder sometime if it also looks weird. Especially when my face goes completely intense when I get closer to orgasm... :eek:

    Anyway, my 2 cents... :cool:
     
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    I hate the dirty word "fuck". I have never fucked a girl, but I have loved and made love to several. The f-word always makes me think the woman is being used. Loving is a sharing experience. That's my story and I am sticking to it.
     
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    It's all very cultural and depends on who says it and how. If I told you that I can't wait to fuck your brains out, you wouldn't feel being used, would you? It's all about the context... :cool:

    "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt, 'This Is My Story,' 1937
     
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