I would looooooooooooooooooooooooove to find guys that happened to have smaller members...
For me it's simply the last thing on my priority list of physical characteristics that I care about.
Maybe one reason I'm like that is because I had a great formative/early on sexual experience with a guy that was totally my type in every way that I size up a male in real life (i.e. clothed, thus penis size and shape and whatever else almost doesnt even enter the equation or come to mind at all really), and when we got down to it, he happened to just have not only a small cock but what seemed almost like an abnormally small cock. So it might've made me separate all the "masculine" or "male attractiveness" traits with penis size. It's like there was a myth that penis size was the "root" or "source" of male sexiness, kind of like how we think of testosterone, and the myth was just totally shattered early on for me. In fact, just anecdotally, I know that testosterone really doesn't work the same way either, and I've known of some very effeminate males who have had their testosterone for separate medical reasons and their testosterone levels were way higher than average.
But yeah, I wouldn't say I have a small dick fetish. It's more like just a fantasy or wish I have, to find a guy that has a small piece and maybe even has anxiety or some shyness/insecurity surrounding it, just knowing that in my eyes it totally isn't a turn off at all. I'd more just say that I have a pretty utter indifference to penis size, and furthermore the idea of finding a guy that in my book is a total stud but with a smaller cock turns me THE F*** on b/c it could make a really hot dynamic there I perform on his thing in a way that will make him feel "big", if that makes any sense.
When interacting with dudes on like Grindr or whatever, i have zero interest in seeing a dick pic. definitely not as part of the evaluative process. for me it would just be cool to see a dick pic AFTER i've kind of established that i think the guy is hot.
Alas, I've never really encountered this fantasy (sigh) and i could even see it becoming a random trend or something one day lol and I'll be pissed b/c I'll feel like I thought of it first lol