how many guys cum during sex?

[StrictlyAvg]

Usually - not always. Explained that to current g/f and she's quite fine with it - it's very difficult to make her come and she loves sex so it would be a bit weird if she didn't get it!

Former wifey used to get very upset if it didn't happen.

Women often don't like it if you expect them to come every time - it becomes a "pressure to perform" thing so put it to her in those terms and maybe she'll get it.

 

[Bbucko]

Personally I think guys who fret unduly about ejaculation are kinda neurotic. Sex is an amazing experience on so many levels, and after hours of edging and dozens of body orgasms, ejaculation can seem...well...anticlimactic to me, somehow: not always, but frequently.

 

[deleted15807]

The SSRIs are good for young guys who cum too quickly

They are also notorious for robbing you of desire completely.

 

[drac]

What a terrible problem, get out of here. I think that would be great as long as you weren't trying to reproduce. I have actually learned to have orgasms without cumming, believe me it isn't as easy as I would like. My situation is that my gf hasn't had an orgasm during intercourse or oral, toys only, she feels bad about it. It doesn't bother me in the least, it makes for no pressure sex. We don't even think about it, but I would love to never have to worry about cumming and just go on forever and ever and ever. Sex with my girl is so much fun....

 

[GADawg2]

I usually cum and I am on BP meds - try taking horney goat weed pills. They work for me.

 

[MrGoodDate]

Not so with me. I cum too soon, or after time inside my lady. My desire is to have her had a cumm first, then I enter and we do the dance of love, and soon we both rise to the occasion of a giant cumm.
"My woman comes first in my life."

 

[D_Parkinsonne Partycocke]

Most guys have it both ways- yes and no... Personally, there are times when I do, and times when I don't... Luckily for me, it is more often yes- but it just depends...

You're normal dude... If you weren't cumming ever, then you should be worried!

 

[v32bone]

I almost never cum when having sex. My theory was always that I spent too many yrs jerking off and just got used to the tightness of my hand, that perfect grip. What gets me the hottest is getting my partner off in long sessions...I love all aspects of the process and if I cum then I just know it's over. I've learned the Taoist ingams method where you orgasm w/out ejaculation and it is amazing. Moves that energy all thru the body and then holds onto it for awhile. Plus you can please you partner with another hardon almost immediately for hours. I'd recommend it to anyone but yes, some women feel as if they haven't been good enough if you dont come...please...