How many guys have you had sex with in your life?

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Sucking counts. Ideally to completion. Obviously fucking counts.

I honestly have no idea what my own number would be. I tried to write out a list maybe 15 years ago, but I can't remember the number.
 

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I conservatively guess it hovers around 300+.

I could definitely have told you a more accurate number decades ago when it was ner 25-30 but there's just a point where there's no real way to track.

The vast bulk of those happened between the ages of 30-40, my "slut decade" and I call it that quite affectionately. Those were some of the best years of my life, I wouldn't trade them in for nuthin'!
 

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I'm 42. I'm guessing that penetrative sex with around 750 guys and if including just oral/jo it's well over 1000. I had the privilege to live in a college for almost all of my 20s and it wasn't uncommon to meet 3-5 guys some weeks. While many were repeats, the math works out to a number with 4 digits. I relish the memories and would absolutely 100% repeat it if I could.
 

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Based on the above responses and my own (too many to guess) we took the phrase “ be fruitful and multiply “ by heart. UGH! If I could have gotten a man pregnant, I would be in debt up to my eyes in child support!
 

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I'm 50 and when I came out of the closet at around 18-19, I hit the ground running.

What's the real number? Including sucking? I haven't the foggiest, and it's been that way for years and years. One thing that boosts the numbers a but is having lived in several different cities over the years and so been able to be the "New Meat in Town" on multiple occasions.

Easily well into four digits though. That's what comes of being a gay man (with all the opportunities that brings with it) with a high sex drive and the sexual morals of an infantryman (that is, none at all!) LOL
 

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No real idea at all if we're including sucking and JO - probably over 1000 - actual fucking tho would be a much different story - I'm thinking maybe 50 or under, used to top but never really liked it much so, very sparingly, getting into bottoming now and enjoy it so, expect that number will grow a bit
 
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So this is apparently the thread where we confirm what straight guys suspected about us all along: that when you're lucky enough to be into sex with guys, you basically are free to have as much sex, with as many people as you think seems best. Even if you're not rich or influential or a celebrity or whatever.

I've often suspected that one element of homophobia is jealousy that we have it so relatively easy in this department.
 

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So this is apparently the thread where we confirm what straight guys suspected about us all along: that when you're lucky enough to be into sex with guys, you basically are free to have as much sex, with as many people as you think seems best. Even if you're not rich or influential or a celebrity or whatever.

I've often suspected that one element of homophobia is jealousy that we have it so relatively easy in this department.
I'd agree with that to a point but am also aware that we're talking about the number of people we've had sex with rather than the amount of sex we have. I mean, obviously that can be a lot as well. I'm bi and so for me I've had more monogamous relationships with women but when single will mostly just have transactional sex with men and given how easy it is to land a bloke, even if you're just having sex once or twice a week - that's one or two different guys each week - adds up quick.
 
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I'd agree with that to a point but am also aware that we're talking about the number of people we've had sex with rather than the amount of sex we have. I mean, obviously that can be a lot as well. I'm bi and so for me I've had more monogamous relationships with women but when single will mostly just have transactional sex with men and given how easy it is to land a bloke, even if you're just having sex once or twice a week - that's one or two different guys each week - adds up quick.


I'm a 'selective' slut! LOl Seriously, have had over 150 sex encounters with men...and around 200 with women. Thats also combined with MMF, MMM, and FFM partners.
 

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I'm a 'selective' slut! LOl Seriously, have had over 150 sex encounters with men...and around 200 with women. Thats also combined with MMF, MMM, and FFM partners.

Don’t be too hard on yourself, you aren’t a selective slut. A while ago, I read that an average person has an average of 3 to 4 sexual partners in their life time. So anything over 100 may as well be free for all.
 
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I'm a 'selective' slut! LOl Seriously, have had over 150 sex encounters with men...and around 200 with women. Thats also combined with MMF, MMM, and FFM partners.

Nice - I've probably fucked about as many women as men in raw numbers but - definitely had full penetrative sex with women more times than with men - was married for 10 years so - made up numbers at the start - then tapered off.
Only been with 3 MMF encountered in private - and maybe a few more at things like at adult cinema.

I think I am a bit more opportunistic - if I'm horny then I'll hop on Grindr /go to a cruise / head out to an adult cinema or go to a sauna where I don't have to lock anything in ahead of time - can play or not play depending on my mood and the crowd and leave when I want. Way easier to do that with men in my experience than women.