How Many Have Partners That Know And Support

[1454612]

I'm curious to know how common it is with bi -men to have a female partner that allows gay porn, toys, gay sex with proven clean men and enjoys that its enjoyed.
???

 

[Pistol]

Just FYI, and if you are using "clean" to refer to people as recently showered, you can ignore this: But using "clean" to refer to people as free of disease is considered offensive, particularly to people living with HIV, HSV, HBV and HCV, because it pejoratively implies they are "unclean" or "dirty."

Plus, one is only "clean" as of the date of the last test (and sometimes not even then, given latency periods). The best one can say is "recently tested and found clear of STIs." It's less offensive and has the benefit of being fact-based rather than full of judgment.

Anyway, I'm not saying you did this on purpose I'm just suggesting better words.

 

[Oztrich]

My wife has always known and has always been supportive. She knows the partners I have had and I only see people that I have real relationships with.

 

[halcyondays]

I'm not in an exclusive relationship but several regular female partners know I'm bi.

 

[WilliamG]

My wife fucks me with dildos. She supports fucking me with a dildo. A real dick... a work in progress.

 

[1454612]

Just FYI, and if you are using "clean" to refer to people as recently showered, you can ignore this: But using "clean" to refer to people as free of disease is considered offensive, particularly to people living with HIV, HSV, HBV and HCV, because it pejoratively implies they are "unclean" or "dirty."

Plus, one is only "clean" as of the date of the last test (and sometimes not even then, given latency periods). The best one can say is "recently tested and found clear of STIs." It's less offensive and has the benefit of being fact-based rather than full of judgment.

Anyway, I'm not saying you did this on purpose I'm just suggesting better words.

I was using clean as in not HIGH as giraffe pussy... As far as STD's , I just assumed everyone that fucks anyone would already know that infomercial by heart...However, meth and Horse addictions are pretty well known for lowering standards due to the hypersexual attributes of these drugs (a reason many do them)
So, I guess that does kinda loop it back around to disease in a way... I show everyone civil decency and have no intent to offend anyone. I support people's rights to do what ever they're big enough to do as long as it doesn't hurt the innocent or force the majority to adapt or change non malicious standards to serve a niche group that morphed from a select few in a genre that spawned from a
specific club born of a minority that finds the term minority offensive,because once again the actual definition no longer holds water ,because their slang and insistant misuse trumps the dictionary . All rebuttals will be interrupted and unheard as well as labeled racist and offensive to a new gender that was created while the majority tried speaking reason,the true definition ,and the non malicious context it was said and meant....
With that now standard yet ridiculous and unnecessary over explanation of what used to be " a given"
I will go on to say....
I have true sympathy and empathy for those that have such devastating disesases that in some cases were a result from the dishonest actions of a thought to be loving partner,traumatic accident, medical incompetence, a poor decision made from the throes of addiction, or circumstances difficult to comprehend prevented them from being informed of the
way it is passed along and contracted....
I lost an uncle to AIDS...friends to Heroin, cousin has herpes, Dad had Hep C, I have battled cancer twice and suffered head trauma due to incompetence of a 19yr old coworked on MOLLY at work... I get the fact disease sucks....

But even if I meant clean as STD free....
That being found offensive is on them for taking offense...
THATS WHAT IT MEANT FOR DECADES... They should know damn well it wasn't a personal attack...the sorrow they feel from it , is from their own sense of entitlement they are not owed...
What should be found offensive is that someone with a life sticking STD would knowing still play the sex game on the Negative side of the pool without the first thing out of their mouth in response to
proposal for SEX being, I HAVE "____" and you should KNOW before this convo goes any further.....

... and to the writer of the comment Im replying to.... this is not a lash out at you .. I appreciate the generous passing of info...

Im sorry the take it as being dirty... I sorry that they have what they have... But it is not an OPINION, THEIR BLOOD IS DIRTY. IT IS LITERALLY TAINTED AND HOSTING A VIRUS...Thats what "positive " and " dirty"
means...Im not being insensitive. I would give my EYE to secure a cure . I honestly would. But this changing dictionary shit and insisting I paint flowers on the eggshells around the word that means what is meant .... enough is enough....

Im bi...
I have ethic daughter.
Disabled ..
Fought for all of ya...
My cancer wasn't a decision my cock made... and yes MY BLOOD IS DIRTY....
no matter how much I want it not to be....

Smh....

 

[Pistol]

I was using clean as in not HIGH as giraffe pussy... As far as STD's , I just assumed everyone that fucks anyone would already know that infomercial by heart...However, meth and Horse addictions are pretty well known for lowering standards due to the hypersexual attributes of these drugs (a reason many do them)
So, I guess that does kinda loop it back around to disease in a way... I show everyone civil decency and have no intent to offend anyone. I support people's rights to do what ever they're big enough to do as long as it doesn't hurt the innocent or force the majority to adapt or change non malicious standards to serve a niche group that morphed from a select few in a genre that spawned from a
specific club born of a minority that finds the term minority offensive,because once again the actual definition no longer holds water ,because their slang and insistant misuse trumps the dictionary . All rebuttals will be interrupted and unheard as well as labeled racist and offensive to a new gender that was created while the majority tried speaking reason,the true definition ,and the non malicious context it was said and meant....
With that now standard yet ridiculous and unnecessary over explanation of what used to be " a given"
I will go on to say....
I have true sympathy and empathy for those that have such devastating disesases that in some cases were a result from the dishonest actions of a thought to be loving partner,traumatic accident, medical incompetence, a poor decision made from the throes of addiction, or circumstances difficult to comprehend prevented them from being informed of the
way it is passed along and contracted....
I lost an uncle to AIDS...friends to Heroin, cousin has herpes, Dad had Hep C, I have battled cancer twice and suffered head trauma due to incompetence of a 19yr old coworked on MOLLY at work... I get the fact disease sucks....

But even if I meant clean as STD free....
That being found offensive is on them for taking offense...
THATS WHAT IT MEANT FOR DECADES... They should know damn well it wasn't a personal attack...the sorrow they feel from it , is from their own sense of entitlement they are not owed...
What should be found offensive is that someone with a life sticking STD would knowing still play the sex game on the Negative side of the pool without the first thing out of their mouth in response to
proposal for SEX being, I HAVE "____" and you should KNOW before this convo goes any further.....

... and to the writer of the comment Im replying to.... this is not a lash out at you .. I appreciate the generous passing of info...

Im sorry the take it as being dirty... I sorry that they have what they have... But it is not an OPINION, THEIR BLOOD IS DIRTY. IT IS LITERALLY TAINTED AND HOSTING A VIRUS...Thats what "positive " and " dirty"
means...Im not being insensitive. I would give my EYE to secure a cure . I honestly would. But this changing dictionary shit and insisting I paint flowers on the eggshells around the word that means what is meant .... enough is enough....

Im bi...
I have ethic daughter.
Disabled ..
Fought for all of ya...
My cancer wasn't a decision my cock made... and yes MY BLOOD IS DIRTY....
no matter how much I want it not to be....

Smh....

nobody's changing a dictionary. keep doing you; I'm just glad I don't have to be around you.

smh indeed.

peace.

 

[halcyondays]

and yes MY BLOOD IS DIRTY....

Neither you, your blood or anyone regardless of their health status is dirty. My opinion.